Singuini scribbled: I don't think you are wrong. Of course there are some exceptions- they seems to be everywhere, but I do agree with you. I'm eighteen years old girl and even though my parents aren't and have never been very tending, they were the only authorities I had in my childhood. So I've picked up their laziness and now it's very hard for me to break the habits I’ve been living so long with. But I’m trying and have hope. I know that asking questions are thought by many people as being incompetent so many don’t even try it knowing that the consequences would be embarrassing for them- I am one of these people. I’m ashamed of talking out aloud in fear that many will think me plainly stupid. Without questions there would be no development – I’m well aware of it but it doesn’t help me to overcome my fears. Please forgive me my English - it's not my native language.