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  Vo l.16  No. 5  M a y - June  2 011
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 is a reality and everyone is at risk
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1.1 million people are living with 
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130,000 people get infected every year.
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About 30,000 are young people between15-24 years
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About 25,000 are bornwith  every year
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Six out of every 10Ugandans don't knowtheir  status.
 
 
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Talk abouttesting for HIV together 
 
 Vo l.16  No. 5  M a y
 What is holding you from testing for HIV? Is it fear? Or do you feel youare not atrisk likeMukundanePhilip, 21,RweiziringiroSecondary School, Isingiro?He says:“I am a virgin and feel I have never exposedmyself to HIV.”
Like Philip, many of you have nottested for HIV because you:
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 Are virgins
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Look healthy and don’t fall sick often
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Think your girlfriend orboyfriend is faithful
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Trust your loveIf you feel this way, it is timeto change your mind andtest.
 
 Dr Zainub Akol, Ministryof Health says:
“Every year,about 25,000 children inUganda are born with HIV.This means even a virgincan have HIV. Test to besure of your status. Lookinghealthy or not falling sick often doesn't mean you areOK. HIV can live in the body  for over 10 years withoutshowing any signs. If you feel your girlfriend orboyfriend is faithful and you trust each other,test to confirm that youare HIV free. 
 P. Ekolut, S3, Hacyon HS, Soroti,
 
tested to avoidliving under fear of unknown. He says:“I’m in love. Weare abstaining fromsex until marriage.We tested for HIV because we wanted to be sure of our status and avoid worries.”
 
Testing may be scary but it is alife saving decision you need tomake. It enables you to makehealthy choices, and reduces thespread of HIV.Testing is free in all government hospitalsand health centres.
In March, Straight Talk visited Muni Girls Schoolin Arua. We met AzizuyoBrenda Facy, 17, S5, born with HIV. She is on ARVs,strong and studing hard. She wants to be a lawyer.
Brenda says: “I didn’t know Ihad HIV till I tested in 2007 atKuluva Hospital in Arua. I wasin S2. I would fall sick often. Idecided to find out the problem.I tested positive. I felt bad but I was relieved of worries. I showedmy results to dad and sisters. My  father was strong but my sisterscried. They thought I was going todie. I told them I had been given Antiretroviral (ARVs) medicine tohelp me live longer. At school, I would hide my 
Tested positive, but
relieved of worries
medicine fearing to be isolated.Later I shared my status withstudents and teachers. They are friendly and helpful. I now take my  ARVs and Septrin freely. Teachersgive me something to eat beforetaking ARVs. Friends remind meto take medicine on time. Evenif you are on ARVs or not, youare advised to take Septrin toprevent malaria, diarrhoea andPneumonia.I talk to students to stay safe andif they have HIV, to get the righttreatment, care and support."
Brenda, Straight Talk salutes you.
 
 
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Brenda hasshared her storyon televisionand radio.
Which is the mostimportant sexualorgan?
Explainwhy?
 Write toPO Box 22366,Kampala
 
"Girls, don't fearto ride. Riddingkeeps you fit.It will not break  your virginity."
 
Straight Talk, May/June 2011
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STEP 
 
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Testing for V is simple. t takes about one and a half hours. Aloyo Mary, 18, tested for V at Gulu Youth Centre and takes us through the steps.
Mother's death
 M Aloyo, 18, Gulu, says:
 “I’m a virgin but I don’tknow what killed my mum.When Red Cross came toour school, I tested to besure. I quaked and prayedeveryday for negativeresults. I was psychologically tortured for a month. Whenresults came, they  were negative. I was so happy. I went to churchto thank God.”
Unprotectedsex 
“I had unprotectedsex. After sometimeI heard that my girlfriend
 was taken to a lab roomwhere a blood sample wastaken. t took about threeminutes.Later  attended a health talkwhile waiting for my results.The counsellor talked aboutV prevention, living positively,body changes and sexuality. Sheencouraged us to ask questions.t took about 30 minutes for results to come out.
 
BeforeI was given result, I wascounselled again
 
and toldto go back after three monthsfor another test.  was advisedto abstain or use condomcorrectly every time  have sex.
 
 was welcomedby a receptionistand told her that wanted to testfor V. She gavePHDIRUPWR¿OOand a number.
had had sex with an infectedman. I was scared. I felt likeeveryone knew my problem.So I decided to go to test.Luckily I tested negative. I wasso relieved and ran home totell my mother. I will neverhave unprotected sex again.”
S Okubal , 16, Halcyon HS,Soroti
Strange rash
 
 D Ithungu,16,S2, Rwenzori HS, Kasese, says:
 "I’m happy I know my HIV status.I developed astrange rash and wanted to know thecause. I encourage
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Hecounselled me.
 
e asked if  was in arelationship, sexually active, lost a partner or parents. e also asked what  would doif  tested positive.  said  would accept theresults and get treatment, care and support.No one else listened to our conversation.
Pastor Andrew Mwenge,ampala BaptistChurch,says:
 
If you haveIV, don’t lose hope.There are many thingsin life to celebrate.
 evelop a dream and workWRDFKLHYHLW%HFRQ¿GHQWook beyond the humanlabels that society mayplace on you. avesomething to contributeto humanity. ou canbecome a change agent.Encourage others whostruggle with stigma.
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ave you ever had sexwith someone whose 
 
status you did not know?
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ave you ever had sexwithout a condom?
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ave you ever had morethan one sexual partner?
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o you start a sexualrelationship soon after meeting a person?
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hile in a sexual relation-ship do you start a newone?
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ave you ever takenalcohol before having sexand you don’t remember whether you used acondom or not?
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ave you ever given or received sex in exchangefor money gifts or favours?
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o you ever use twocondoms at the same time?
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o you have a parentliving with  or have youlost a parent and don’tknow what he/she died of?
If you answered ‘yes’ toany of these questions, youare at risk of HIV infection.Go for HIV counselling and testing at the nearest healthcentre.
STEP 
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STEP 
 
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Test if you
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at risk 
From having unprotected sex, sharing sharp objects to just wanting to know their HIV status, straight talkersshare their reasons for choosing to test or not testfor HIV.
everyone to test and pick their results.”
Shared sharp objects
 L Birungi, 16, S3, St MbugaVocational SS, Kampala, says:
 
“I used to share safety pins, needles and razorblades with my cousin. Shetested HIV positive. I wasscared. I went to KabaroleHospital and tested negative.I’m now very careful.”
 I Omak, 19, S6, Rock HS,Tororo, says:
"I have testedthree times to encourageothers do the same. I havea boyfriend but we have nothad sex. We are abstaining from sex until marriage.”
No t  ye t  te s ted
 T a a k a  B r e nd a, 19, S5,  B u h o b e SS,  B u s i a,  s a y s:
  I'm  p la n n i n to test  f or  H I V.  I  had a  bo y  f r ie nd  w  ho  w as  not f a it h f  u l."
 T a b o  J o h n, 15, S 2,  B ud u m b a SS,  B u t a l e j j a,  s a y s:
  I  ha ve  not tested  beca use t he  hos p ita lis  ver y   f ar. I f   I et a c ha nce,  I  w  i ll test  f or  peace o f   m i nd. 
  N e l i m a, 18,  B u t i r u  M od e l S c h o o l,  M b a l e,  s a y s:
 " I  ha ve  not tested.  I do n't  w a nt to  l i ve a  m isera b le  l if e  w orr y  i n a bo ut deat h  i f   I test  pos it i ve.
Edi tor:
  Tes ting helps  you o vercomefear and an xie t y.  You ge t morein forma tion abou t HI V and make in formed decision on sa fer se x.  You change  your be-ha viour. I f  you  tes t HI V posi- ti ve  you s tar t  trea tmen t earl y  for aheal thier, s trong and lon-ger li fe.
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eviewed by
 Dr Agolor Curthbert, Mildmay
 
Uganda
 
Use yourHIV resultsto makehealthydecisions
Coo l  bo ys  ta ke care o f  t he ir  hea l t h. 
STEP 
 
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STEP 
 
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If you both test negativeor positive it does notmean you should start sexcontinue abstaining.
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If you are sexually activeand test negative thinkof safer sex to protect yourselves from I/STs. You never know  when your partner willbecome unfaithful. Besidescondoms protect you frompregnancy.
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If both of youtest positive and you aresexually active use condomscorrectly every time you havesex to avoid getting more or another type of I.
 Bravoto all of  you whohavetested.
 
Straight Talk, May/June 2011
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I am in love
 
Jacky Alesi has been sharing with you her story of living withHIV.Jacky is in love. She says:"I'm glad God answered my prayers. I have got someoneunderstanding. We are stilldating. He is what I have alwayswished for in my simple life.I feel so loved, cared for andunderstood. We are taking astep at a time to know eachother better and possibly getmarried someday. Yes, I havefeelings and having HIV has nottaken away my love feelings.
Questions to Jacky 
So many of youhave written or called her and hada chat about HIV. Thank you.
 
 Hi Jacky, I am HIV positive.When is it right  for me to tell
Living with HIV or having a disability should never make you lose hope. You can stillmake it in life. FlorenceNdagire, 27, was born blind but this did not stop her fromdreaming big. She made rightchoices to delay sex, and worked hard on her studies.
Her former head-teacher atMadera School for Blind wouldalways remind them that the journey to success starts today,not tomorrow. Encouraged by these words, Ndagire focused onher studies until she finished uni-versity where she did Law. Sheis currently a legal officer at theUganda Society for the DisabledChildren.She says: “When I was in S1, aboy from S4 wanted tohave sex with me butI refused. He then saidI would lay an egg of a turkey. I was scaredbut still I refused. Aftersometime he gave up."In S3, some teach-ers also wanted tohave sex with me.I told them I would first share it with theheadmistress to see if  what they were tellingme was helpful. They stopped disturbingme. Even at Makerere,some lecturers were onmy case. I still refusedand completed my law degree without gettinga boyfriend.
ne time my girlfriend asked for sex.I feared to have unprotected sex because we had never tested for I.I went to the hospital and asked for condoms. e had protected sex 
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 JBiiro S1 14 Alliance ictory Bugiriear Biiro it is  to have agirlfriend. But this does not meanthat you should do everything sheasks of you. You need to thinkbefore you act. Talk to her to control
"Some teachers wantedto have sex with me. I toldWKHP,ZRXOGÀUVWVKDUHit with the headmistressto see if what they weretelling me was helpful. They stopped disturbing me." Ndagire
Boys and girls getattracted to the oppositesex as they grow. You may get attracted to your agemates or even someoneolder than you as A.M, 18, Sacred Heart SS,Gulu. She says:
When I see male teachers, I get attracted tothem and when theyare teaching, I do not understand. I only think about sex.What can I do? I really want to pass myexams?
 
It is normalto getattracted tothe oppositesex. But thisdoes notmean you should go aheadand have sex.You have the ability tocontrol your sexual feelings.Take these teachers as yourparents or brothers and donot let sexual feelings distract you from your education.Have a goal. Know  why you are atschool.Talk to someoneabout your feelings.You could be havinga crush. A crushis when you like being with someone you findattractive. Don't let itdisrupt your studies.
Dr Akol Zainab,Ministry of Health
Know your body
 You can control sexual feelings
I was patient and fo-cused. I took the wordsof men like Fagil Mandy,an educationist who oncetold us some studentsgraduate from the gravesbecause they did not takecare of their lives."Yes, if you are in school,delay sex and work hard.If you are in love, behonest. Don’t spend your fees which your parentsstruggle to get on a lover.People who love you willalways wish you the bestand not force you intosex."Ndagire is grateful to herparents for giving her achance to study. She ismarried with a son. Shehas travelled to many places. Last year, she was part of the team thatclimbed Mount Kilimanjaroto raise money for children with disabilities in Africa.
her sexual feelings. Be carefulof excuses like 'I love you somuch'; 'I don't have I' or 'ehave been together for long. Thinkthrough your sex life carefully. You can choose to abstain until you are above 18 and after your studies. Early sex invites troublein your life. You could get I beimprisoned dropout of schoolor become a father now. Are youready to start a family at 14?
 people about my status?
 Boy, Hoima
Hey, dude, thank you for thisimportant question. It is upto you to decide when todisclose your status. How dothey feel about disclosing?If you feel comfortable talking about your status, just do it.It is the right thing to do. Youwill feel free with yourself andeveryone else around you. You will no longer fear to gofor treatment or take your medicine.Find out how people wouldreact if they found out that you are HIV positive. You canstart by telling a few peoplelike family members andfriends.
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 rite to: 22366ampala. Jacque ainembabazi 16Nsambya ampala says:elaying sex helps mestay safe.
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Condoms pro tec t aains t prenanc y, HI V, and o ther S TDs i f used correc tl y and consis ten tl y e ver y  time  you ha ve se x .
 
 W r i te a nd desc r i b i n  t he co r rec t s te ps o f   us i n co ndo ms a nd  w he re  yo u o t  t h is  k  no w lede  f  ro m. 
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 Julius Musamali 18 S5Bungokho SS Mbale says: Always think critically before making any decision . on't rush to dosomething and regret after.
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