How to Get a Woman to Have Sex With You If You’re Her Husband
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He got her to say, “I do,” so why now is he struggling to get her to say anything except, “Not tonight, honey”? The sad truth is that at a certain point in marriage, many men are met with nightly excuses and rejection. The typical husband can’t figure out what his wife needs, and his wife is certainly not making it any easier on him. Chances are she wants her husband to figure it out on his own. This situation leaves both the husband and wife unfulfilled in their intimate lives. This book uniquely helps couples to overcome that stalemate.
In “How to Get a Woman to Have Sex With You If You’re Her Husband,” author and certified relationship coach Stephan Labossiere sheds light on all the things women really need from their husbands that will provide men with what they need and want most. Although this book revolves around improving sexual relations, in essence, it helps teach couples how to have a better relationship in general.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Description: How To Get A Married Woman To Have Sex With You...If You're Her Husband is a 85 page primer on the unspoken wants and needs of married women -- written by a man. Review: I decided to read this book because the title caught my eye, as did the fact that it was written by a man. Stephan Labossiere has written a sort of “how-to” guide for understanding woman, their needs, their emotions, and their sexuality. I, being a woman, was super skeptical when I first began reading, but after a couple pages, I found the topics and writing style quite humorous. This short little book is an attention grabber as well as an attention keeper; which is good since most of the men I know have little patience for long-winded explanations and example-filled stories. The chapters are concise, and written as if you are having a conversation with the author, sections include: ‘Happy Woman = Happy Man’, ‘That’s The Last Darn Time…..’, ‘A Connection Deeper Than Sex’, and ‘You Gotta Do More Than Just Lick It!’ . It is obvious that Stephan Labossiere has done his homework, and he definitely knows a lot about women and what they want in a relationship; however, as a friend pointed out, he never really discusses how to “rekindle” the passion and intimacy between a husband and wife who have grown apart, and with today’s increasing divorce rate, that chapter would have been a major plus. Also, I was surprised to see references and quotes from the Bible, since the outside cover blurb didn’t mention any religious affiliation. I am a Christian, so I thought it was interesting to relate the topics of sex, relationships, and God, but I do see it as a stumbling point for certain readers. Overall, I liked the wit and down-to-earth style, as well as Labossiere’s ideas about womanly thoughts. I will probably be recommending this book to my guy and girl friends, married and unmarried, because it gives women insight too.Rating: Bounty's Out (3.5/5)*** I received this book from the author (Bostick Communications) in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.
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How to Get a Woman to Have Sex With You If You’re Her Husband - Stephan Labossiere
How to Get a Woman to Have Sex With You If You’re Her Husband
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Stephan Labossiere
How to Get a Woman to Have Sex With You If You’re Her Husband
Second Edition
Stephan Labossiere
Copyright Stephan Labossiere 2012
Published by Allwrite Publishing at Smashwords
All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America
No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles or reviews. For information, contact:
Allwrite Publishing
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2012920851
1. Marriage 2. Self-Help 3. Relationships 4. Life
ISBN: 978-0-9844931-9-7
First Printing: November 2012
Dedication
It’s important to me to witness people leading authentic lives enriched by mutually satisfying relationships. I believe that God puts us here to experience joy and love, and when we find the person who captures our hearts, it is God’s will that brings us to that person. Many times, we experience negative circumstances that harden our hearts and force us to fear the very thing that can heal us, love. We lie to ourselves and to each other. This breeds more negativity, miscommunication and destructive relationships. Therefore, I dedicate this book to bringing an end to the battle of the sexes and breaking down the communication barriers between men and women so that we can all start being real with each other and, in that realness, not be afraid to love each other.
Table of Contents
Preface
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter 1 – Happy Woman = Happy Man
The Rules
The Outcome
Chapter 2 – That’s the Last Darn Time
Chapter 3 – A Connection Deeper Than Sex
Chapter 4 – You Gotta Do More Than Just Lick It
Chapter 5 – Have a Date With Her Body
Chapter 6 -- Spice Up Your Sex Life
Chapter 7 -- You Need Someone Else to Answer to
About the Author
Preface
So many people ask: What made you write this book? My answer is that many married couples are struggling with their relationships. Some couples put on a great act that everything is okay, but in reality, they feel empty and unhappy. Not everyone feels comfortable going to a therapist, and others have no other physical source to which they can get great guidance. I have always been that guy who people open up to and come to for advice. Thus, becoming a certified relationship and life coach seemed natural to me. This has allowed me to delve deeper into relationships and help many people over the years to overcome obstacles and move their relationships in a better direction. I know that this is my calling, and this book is the first step toward reaching a broader audience to spread the message of better and more fulfilling relationships.
I was once married, but for all the wrong reasons. If I were then, who I am now, I would not have taken the same route. I have personally experienced how a lack of understanding a woman and, more importantly, a lack of appreciation for the beauty of marriage can do so much damage. Fortunately, I grew up in a home where my parents were married for 37 years until my father died. Though it was not perfect, it showed me what commitment to marriage is all about. My three sisters are all happily married. As the only male amongst my siblings, my sisters always have confided in me about their relationship issues.
Having been married does not necessarily teach you what you need to know. If that were the case, more married men would have come to understand women better by now, and we know that this is simply not the case. I can honestly say that in the process of getting closer to God is where I truly began to see things differently. This is how I came to really understand the needs and desires of women. God basically trained me about marriage and not marriage itself.
Truth be told, I think it would be very difficult for a married man to write this book. When you are in the midst of the back-and-forth battle of a relationship, it is very hard to see things clearly and unbiased. This is the same reason why people will talk to a counselor, a church authority, or a friend. They need an outside opinion to help point out things that they may not be looking at because they are too caught up in their own feelings, issues and desires.
If you are in a relationship in which your sex life is lacking, you can choose to not listen, but it will not help change your circumstances. A lot of married men would like to simply believe that since they are married, they should be entitled to sex when they want it and how they want it, at all times. Being caught up in that way of thinking will not allow them to look deeper and find a solution or even realize that there is a problem.
Although this book revolves around improving sexual relations, in essence, it helps teach us how to have a better relationship. I have put the focus on the men because I believe the responsibility falls more on us to be better in our marriages. It isn't that I am letting women off the hook, and I believe there is plenty they could do better. However, when I speak to a person about his