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“The One”-- Your True SoulmateAre you with your "true" soulmate or hassomeone else fulfilled your heart'sdesire?
In interviewing over a hundred couples for my newbook
Divine Complement.
I was struck by thesimilarity in the stories of how soulmates met andthe divine creative design that drew them together.From those still looking for their soulmate I am oftenasked, "How will I know he or she is "the One"?Listed here are a dozen characteristics, indicatorsand clues that he or she is your authentic DivineComplement.1
You are magnetic opposites
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It's true! Mostsoulmates are opposites who complement eachother's strengths and masculine and femininetraits. So if your partner seems stubbornlyrational when all you want from him or her is listento your emotional needs or follow your intuitivelead in making a major decision, you are likelycomplements who need to apply a balancedapproach. The greater function of a soulmaterelationship is to mirror each other's less realizedand actualized traits and talents and to blend themtogether into a productive balanced partnership.2
Your soulmate is not perfect and has caused you to discard your wish list of ideals.
 Yourtrue soulmate may not match your qualificationsfor the perfect mate or match. Rather he or she isa 'soul-match', meaning they will help evolve your
 
soul out of its previous conditioning and urge youto perfect the love you were meant to give freelyand unconditionally.3
 A dream may have announced your soulmate's entrance on the stage of life witha loud trumpet call 
. Many soulmates dream of each other months or even years before theyactually meet. It seems that they rendezvous inthe ethers before the relationship ever lands onearth. A mysterious dream lover or a strangerwho waltzed into a room in your house in a dream,may have alerted you that your soulmate reunionhad been divinely planned for the near future.4
Magic was afoot the day you met andreached a crescendo in the weeks thatfollowe
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" It was kismet" sums up theexperience and the world around you took on theair of 'somewhere over the rainbow'. Serendipityand synchronistic signs may have alerted you thathe or she was "the one." "A soulmate awakening"as I coin these experiences reveals a dimension of creativity that is full of magic and meaningful signsto authenticate your soulmate's identity.5
You were introduced by a member of your family or a friend.
A large percentage of soulmates are introduced by a friend or familymember who innocently played matchmaker,usually without any idea that they were bringingyou together for life. Other souls collaborate withyou to make your soulmate dreams come true.
 
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You met at someone else's wedding or inchurch
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Soulmate meetings are meant to tie theknot with a meaningful event or situation thatpoints you to the profound spiritual connection youshare and to the divine nature of the relationship.7
 A divine spark lit your heart the moment your eyes met.
Most soulmates attest it was loveat first sight. Lucille Ball recalled that when shemet Desi it wasn't exactly love at first sight. "Ittook all of 5 minutes." The divine connectionbetween twin souls creates a synergy that igniteseach other's hearts with a powerful love energy--itis spiritual chemistry.8
You ran into each other over and over againbefore you ever dated.
Sometimes the lovespark doesn't catch the first time, and soulmatesneed several encounters before they connect in amore meaningful way. It may seem like Godpushed you together. The soulmate play on thestage of life may have many scenes and actsbefore the wedding feast.9
Your partner seemed "oh so familiar" even onthe first date.
Soulmate relationships are karmicwhich means you likely spent several lifetimestogether. Your soul remembers their soulintimately even if the details of the past lives arenever revealed.10
Your relationship presents challenges that seem like unfair spiritual tests.
 Your soulmateseems to know what buttons to push to help you
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