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Women With the Wave 
Some of the womenChose to chase the wave,Whilst others preferred to ride it.
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 AVES
 
85, Jalan 21/146300 Petaling JayaTel: 03-78774221Fax: 30-78743312www.awam.org.my 
Issue No 2, January 2009
 
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“To me the WWRP isspecial because of itsability to bring a diversegroup of young womentogether. The energiesthat spark and the wayeveryone comes to-gether is simply terri-fic.”
 – enthused Seetha,facilitator of the Writersfor Women’s Rights Pro-gramme (WWRP) sixthworkshop, held from 13-16, November 2008.“It was … emotionallyintense. So it took meway back. But after that itwas good seeing newpeople, teaching themnew things on feminism. Itwas always interesting tosee how they react tothat,” said Su-Lyn, an-other facilitator for theworkshop.“… [T]he workshophas opened my eyes andhelped me see the worldin a different way. Femi-nists are not oversensi-tive; they are just beingperceptive, and they seethe injustices againstwomen in the media,”said Eileen Cham, 18,another participant ofWWRP 6.WWRP is a workshopcatered for young womenfrom the ages of 18 to 32with an interest towardswriting. The sixth work-shop was conducted overthe span of three and ahalf days at La Salle Hall,PJ. There were fifteensessions in total, mostgeared towards under-standing gender andwomen’s issues, the me-dia, and to develop writ-ing and analytical skills ofthe participants.“[But]… there wasmore to it than just writ-ing…” said ShobanaHema, another participantof WWRP 6.“The workshop helpedme realise what I am do-ing here … [I] never reallythought that there wereso many rape cases inthe paper, that there wasso much violence, somany divorces, so manyugly marital problems. Inever really looked at allthose… [W]hen I joinedthe organisation, I had to.It was part of my job torespond to articles so itbecame a routine that I…look at issues and I'm like‘Oh my God, there are somany things that is hap-pening.’ Then… [I] at-tended the workshop.The workshop openedup to how women arebeing discriminated in themedia. That was an eyeopener,” Shobana elabo-rated of her experience inWomen’s Centre forChange (WCC) inPenang.“Feminism is a per-sonal experience for all ofus, whether we are menor women. These ses-sions were more personalrather than intellectualbecause we would gatherour experiences when wetalk about things,” Su-Lyncontinued.Karen Lai, 31 anotherparticipant said “…[Y]oureally can’t write effec-tively without touching anerve yourself and with-out connecting to yourselfvery deeply. I think theworkshop aims to do a lotof things because it’s partof gender awareness andlearning about ourselvesas women and also femi-nism.”“When the circlearound me is never reallyaffected like my house,my family, my close fam-ily, my personal relation-ships, if we are all fine…but in other words, selfishkan?... But when Istarted to join the
[W]RITE AWAY!
 by Farlina Said & Kang Soon Chen
See page 4
It is MY RIGHT to speakout. But have we forgot-ten our choice of words,tone and body language?Respect others.It is MY RIGHT to cleanair, water and environ-ment. But have we forgot-ten that we should use allthese resources withoutwastage and exploitation?Respect our environment.It is MY RIGHT to restand leisure. But have weforgotten how the domes-tic workers work 18 hoursa day? Respect our fellowassistants.It is MY RIGHT to volun-teer. But have we forgot-ten our responsibilitieswhen we take up thetask? Respect the posi-tion and trust from others.It is MY RIGHT to pen myview here. I respect yourchoice, your views andyour contribution towardsthe organisation, commu-nity and environment.WWRP 6 participants, facilitators and guest speakers.
Photo credit: Maisarah Muhd Najib
MY rights, your RIGHTS
 by Ho Wai Ling
EditorialGender Workshop
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 WWRP (cont’)20th Anniversary 
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Staff Movement
5
Xmas Party Treasure Hunt
6
Myths of Femi-nism
7
Politics or wres-tling match?
8
Evaluation &Hopes
9-10
IN THIS ISSUE:
 
mostly practical, with par-ticipants going throughnumerous role plays topractice basic helpingskills.All in all, it was anexcellent workshop.Evaluation from partici-pants showed that theirexpectations were metand that the workshopadvanced their knowl-edge on the three topicsabove.Hopefully, this work-shop will be the start of acollaborative relationshipbetween AWAM and theOSCC in the future.The economic meltdownthat shook the world witha resultant domino effectglobally has not sparedus.Some have been laidoff while others have their jobs on the line, facedwith an uncertain future.Would women be thefirst to be marginalised inthis? How would families,particularly women andchildren, be affected?Would this change thelandscape of our livesand that of AWAM’s? Somany questions beggingto be answered ….But meanwhile, lifehas to go on, thebranches will continue to“wave” and AWAM has tocontinue with its mission.To borrow a famousmaxim, “The impossible isoften the untried” ... per-haps this is the momentthat we have to seize totry the “untried”! We needto figure out what thatmeans to each of us, per-sonally as well as in ourrelationship with AWAM.We continue to inviteour members to comeand join our activities, tohelp us continue“waving”, supporting, ena-bling and energising eachother. All our committeesare begging for new“blood”. May the new yeardespite its uncertaintiesbe the impetus for us totry the untried!Like our first, this sec-ond issue of the e-newsletter would not havebeen possible without theWWRPers’ involvement.Their enthusiasm anddedication, attributed inno small measure to thefire generated at the re-cent WWRP’s workshop,is infectious to say theleast! So
syabas 
toWWRP!Many more willinghands and passionatehearts are very muchneeded to continue our journey throughout theyear.Together, whethernew or old members,young or not so young,energised or jaded, happyor angry, healthy or notso healthy, we have a lifeto live and hands toWAVE ….. so, come on!
Editorial Team
Bernie Chow – EditorBoo Su-Lyn – AssistantEditorApsara MuraleDahlia MartinFarlina SaidGan Pei LingKang Soon ChenMaisarah Muhd NajibMalati MalSee Ju-Vern
All contributions arewelcome!
Got something to say, astory to share, a tale totell, an article to write, afeedback or an encour-agement to give? Give itto us atwaves.awam@gmail.com We are dying to hear fromyou!
 
The Editor’s Pen
 WAVES Issue No 2, January 20093
For the first time in years,we organised a gendersensitisation workshop forhospital staff at GeneralHospital on October 23this year.About 30 hospital staffmembers from variousdepartments attended theworkshop. Betty Yeoh,Haslinah Yaacob, BillieDay and I facilitated theworkshop.After an introductionby the jovial Dr Faizal binSalikin from the One StopCrisis Centre (OSCC),Betty conducted a ses-sion on Sex and Gender.Many participantscalled out typical stereo-types when questionedon the typical characteris-tics of women versusmen.Betty then debunkedthose stereotypes whenshe switched the labelsaround and asked partici-pants if women could alsobe aggressive, or if mencould also be gentle, andvarious other characteris-tics.A scary side of theusually demure Haslinahemerged when she con-ducted the next sessionon violence againstwomen. Acting like atough commando, sheordered everyone in theroom to be silent as shedivided the participantsinto four groups.One group was blind-folded and their handswere tied; they were alsotold to kneel on the floor,while another group wentthrough the same treat-ment but were allowed tostand up.The third group wasobservers while the fourthgroup stood without beingblindfolded.As the second groupknelt on the floor,Haslinah barked at themand prodded a few peoplewho were reluctant atkneeling down.The fourth group thenapproached the two blind-folded groups and askedthem softly if they coulduntie the blindfolds. Therewas much hesitationamong most of the blind-folded participants.After some time,Haslinah ended the roleplay and asked for feed-back. Most of the partici-pants who had beenblindfolded refused to letother participants removetheir blindfolds as they feltafraid. Haslinah then ex-plained that those werethe effects of violence.I facilitated the finalsession on basic helpingskills. This session was
OSCC Gender Workshop
 by RK Boo
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