1/ By observing how you feel about him, you will be able to judge whether you wanthim back or not. Your feelings are you compass on all life matters. So pay closeattention to how you feel when you think about him. If this feeling is a good one, thenyou should definitely try to patch up the differences and re-unite.2/ Whatever the feeling you have in the moment, feel it fully. It may be grief, sadness,anger, hatred or sorrow, the only thing is to feel whatever fully. If you need to cry do itwithout suppressing it. Tears are a great healing substance that could lessen your grief or sadness. Do not suppress any feeling as it may have an adverse effect on youremotional well being later on. Even tough the old school of thought argues to thecontrary, feeling your emotions fully is the most profound way of getting over thosefeelings for good.3/ Stop feeling desperate about winning him back. Give it some time. Time is a greathealer in any situation. The more desperate you feel, the more you send him furtherand further until you lose him.4/ Be mentally prepared to lose him in order to win him back. Though this may soundcounter intuitive, quantum science has proven beyond doubt that we are the creators of our life. We create every moment of our life, either consciously or unconsciously. So themore you feel desperate, your vibration is of desperation and the universe picks up thisvibration and give you more situations to be desperate about. This is called the law of attraction. It's a universal law like gravity. This law operates in our life, whether we areconscious or not about it.
/ When you make up your mind to let go of him, the miracle happens. As you havenow cleared your mind of most of the negative clutter and now you will start to getcreative ideas on how you should act in the moment to get him back. When you clearyour mind of negative energy, you have more space for positive energy and new ideas.Even your ex may sense this positive energy and it may have a positive effect on himtoo.