antispy

thx m8 :)

wijitoet

hii... I'm 2months pregnant and this is my first pregnancy. I really am not sure what to expect. I would like it very much to read the whole paper. Who knows it'll give me insights and some reassurance of what i can and can't do. Cos really people have been telling me different things it is confusing.... If possible, can u also send me a copy to wijiarni@yahoo.com. I really appreciate it.. :D

raj.jam

Dear Sir, it seems really good document on pregnancy. actually my wife is pregnent by 2 month. so, if possible can you help me by giving this document. it would be a great help to me. Thanks a lot. My mail address is raj.jamnagar@gmail.com

glopride2

Hi everyone and how is the little angels in all of you doing? i know they are just the perfect gift of life.well i posted a comment 4 months ago as Glopride,Teenmommy i want to thank you for your message to me and your courage and strength to say no to abortion and keep that dearly angel in there, i know by this time i am sending this message she is out and i wish you all the best of luck in taking care of your baby, i wish i can see her truely i do wish. Hi princess Dilana how is your daughter doing? i can feel all the joy you have inside and it makes me wish my mom will be there for me as you are there for your daughter,i wnldnt blame her i know if she is alive she will be so happy to see me and my baby .sometimes when i think of her and so many things i want to share and do with her and dnt see her i am always full of tears and saddness. Anyway i say a very big congratulation to you and your daughter and i know things will remind perfect with the both of you ok. well i want to say thanks to all who posted in your stories,these stories you posted are life encouragers to those who have lost hope and those confuse in making a decision to save a life or to kill it. I thank God for your lifes, and for does who have put to birth, i say a very big congratulations to you all and i wish you the best , as for me i will be due soon in a couple of months and i want you all to pray for me and also say that pls keep being good mum and allow those who want to help you in anyway show their support we need them. To Prince Dilana(kissesssss) To teenmommy(a very big hug) and to all of you, I LOVE YOU ALL. thanks.

nallica_89

I am 19 years old and having my first child. I am very excited about it and i 100% agree with the girl who said she would rather a young girl having a baby then aborting the baby. A baby never asked to be born or made why would someone just kill it thats wrong in so many ways!

princess dilana

Happy holiday to you as well, sweetie. I am so happy for you and for the decision that you made. I was with my daughter and my grandbaby yesterday. She is a beautiful child in perfect health. I love them both so very much. She has getting more on her feet as time passes. I couldn't be more proud of her. The baby, well... think of her all of the time and would give my life for her or my daughter. The baby is a strong spirit. Things are working out well. You are right, there is always time for education. Baby is most important right now. The best of luck to you. Keep me informed on how you are and such. A wonderful weekend to you. princess dilana

teenmommy

i felt like i was on top of the world right before i got pregnant. i was 17 years old in my freshman year of college. but then my period didnt come, and i knew my body wasn't feeling the same. sure enough my pregnancy test came back positive. at first i was excited, i figured i still had enough time to finish up the semester, and ill just take two semesters off after the baby was born. then i started failing my classes, and got dropped from my sponsors. stress kicked in!!! how was i going to support this baby, formula and pampers are so expensive. and i didnt want to raise a child in my mothers home. thats when abortion came to my mind. the baby's father went ballistic, said im not killing his baby. that if i didnt want the responcibility, he would take the baby from me and go. he pleaded and cried with me, i didnt know what to do. I went as far as going to the abortion clinic, and while signing all the paperwork for the procedure, i cried so much. thats when it hit me, i cant kill my baby, i can do this, we can work together, my dreams will be put on hold but this is not the end of me for it is merely the beginning. now instead of graduating college when im 21 ill graduate when im 24. i walked out of that clinic, and from that day forward i didnt look back. i have worked throughout my entire pregnancy, my boyfriend has been with me every step of the way, we found an apartment together, and we just finish setting up her nursery. my baby girl is due in 2 weeks and we're expecting her with anxious open arms. we're ready!!! its not about how old you are, or what you have at the time you get pregnant, i believe its about your mentality , your strengths, how you use your weakness to benefit you, and if you're willing to do the things necessary to be ready when that baby enters this world. never do anything you'll regret. and Mothers of teenage mothers: support your children in any decision they make, for at this time they need you more than anyone else. oh and princess dilana..your daughter is still young, but someday she will realize that she needs someone in her life that will elevate her, and when that time come is when she will firmly lay down the ground rules, but dont remind her every second you're with her, just keep doing your part. she'll come around every woman realizes one time or another that they deserve better. and glopride congratulations on deciding to keep your child, when you start to feel the baby moving inside you, you will become overwhelmed with fear but also with so much happiness....there is a little life inside of you. and when you are ready to finish your education, you will do it with great dedication and enthusiasm, because now you're not just living for you, but for that little baby. good luck everyone... and hope that my labor is smooth lol because oh my i am terrified of the pain i am bound to feel lol.....happy holiday

princess dilana

I think that you have made the right decision. My child stopped school in high school. An abortion was not even an issue for my daughter. My daughter has figured things our on her own. I help her as I can. Her boyfriend still does not work. She is on a very tight budget and depends lots on the help of social services. She is paying rent right now but is on the list for Section 8. My granddaughter is so much a part of my everyday. When she smiles at me I forget every single problem and think how fortunate I am to have her. I love my daughter so very much as well. We are close, very close. It was that I was so worried when she was pregnant and not taking care of herself, sleeping in her car and letting herself be controlled and abused by him. So I am happy to say that all has worked out nicely. Wishing you all the best. Please keep posting and let me know how you are making out. Happy Holidays, princess dilana

glopride

Hi princess dilana, i can to search for a site and met your blog. Anyway, i understand your plight is not easy as a mother to have a teen daughter that is preg and knowing that that the father of the child is being iresponssibe, well i believe in God alot and i know there is nothing he can not do even as much as a child offence the parents not matter the grieve the love still exists that is why you care for her so much that you have to write these blog for advice,you did the right thing.i most tell you that now i have the strength after reading all that every one has said, i am 23 and not thru with my university education not even started at all but i find myself today preg even with all the things i took to stop it from coming. like the others side life is a gift it does not matter how is comes all children are blessings from God. i feel really glade that you have to post this blog because it has help me alot in my decisions i was really confuse on what to do if to keep it or to abort it but to i will say that i have the strength and courage from all who have spoken about this issues and i am taking a decision today to keep the pregnancy come what may for the sake of God and of humanity and for the love i feel right now for my child. you are a good mother dnt worry keep doing what you are doing for her and pray she we come to understand the kind of love a mother have for a child. take care.

harvardlaw09

Whats this nonsense about being educated and what not bout if your pregant you'll drop out? WHAT? that's not true... but im 21 pregnant and getting ready to graduate from harvard law school if you ask me thats educated i have a 4.0 gpa alright just because your pregnant doesn't mean you can't finish what you started and follow your dreams and have a better life for your baby and yourself

kahra_2003

I was 15 when I had my daughter, my boyfriend at the time was 17 and we were not ready to become parents so we opted for an abortion I had told my mother I was pregnant and she was ok with me deciding on abortion but didnt agree with it at all, so she decided to tell my father without me knowing. She took him to work one day sat him down and spoke with him about it he came home that afternoon I was scared out of my mind.He came into my room where I was already crying and said darlin if you want this baby we are there for you 100% I was over the moon those are the best words my father has ever said.So I decided to keep my daughter whether my boyfriend liked it or not, his parents didnt approve but we thought about it long and hard and made the decision to keep her. We ended up moving out together when she was 6 months old and she is the most loved baby in the world ,outright poppys angel lol my father is so attached to her its not funny. But we stayed together and today we have been together for 8 years married for 2 years and we have another daughter that we tried hard for, for 3 years due in 4 days. Life is a blessing and I wouldnt change having my daughter at 15 for anything, it kept me out of trouble and away from the people I was hanging out with , I think a person at the age of 15 can be as good of mother then someone at 35-40 years old. My parents were only 40 when they became grandparents but they love it and wouldnt change allowing me to keep her for nothing.

CoalMinersWife68

I am a mother to 4 teenage daughters 13,15,17,21... was a young mother my self... and my 15 yr old daughter is 17 weeks pregnant...i am and always have been a responsible parent and raise my girls in the same manner...we can give them the the tools and guide in the direction we deam appropriate. once they make a choice and it's usually not what we want...they choose their own path... so i know first hand.. from both sides.... those of you who have opinons..wether they be positive....or negitive...don't condem or verbally prosicute someone because it's not what you would do...you never know it might happen to you..so heres my opinon ...they are like buttholes everyone has one...and walk in my shoes a while you might change you mind!!!!!And to all those Young mothers and mothers to babies having babies...Stay strong mind and soul...Have a blessed life to you all...

lexi29

Hi i am 19yrs old and im 18 weeks pregnant with my second child! and well all i have to say is that i dont really think that it matters how many kids you have and at what age you have them. I would much rather a young mom have their baby then for them to abort it! Plus i dont think anybody should judge anybody, i mean unless your supporting that child then talk all you want and then some but if you are not buying diapers staying up late, working hard for that baby or making sure that they go to all their check ups then i say Keep You DAMN mouth shut!!!!

jabie1987

Dear Dilana, I'm sure it must be hard for you to watch that happen- your daughter's reputation crumble right before you. Her life in jeopardy. If you want to help your grandchild though, you are pretty much stuck helping it's mother and father too. That man is now going to forever be a part of your life because he is the biological father of that child. Even if he were to relinquish his rights to the baby (which it sounds like that will never happen) he is still the father. That baby is going to look like him, have personality traits like his and so on. You have to realize that whether you agree with your daughter's decision or not the only way to help her it seems is to help him too. If you are giving them money than I guarantee he is benifiting from that. Would you rather have your daughter close enough to protect her or out on the streets homeless? If she is willing to reconcile but her terms are that he comes to stay with you and her and the baby, you may want to consider that if you suspect abuse. Making amends could allow your daughter to see that you respect her as a person and that you want what is best for her in a way that she has not yet been able to witness it. If she is in an abusive relationship I can almost guarantee that she is scared- too scared to challenge the authority of this guy. If you welcome them into your home and you witness him being abusive- in any way- then you have the power to notify the authorities. You have the power to stand up for your daughter and grandchild. Otherwise you are leaving things to chance. If he is physically abusing her, she could end up dead in an alley. Please, coming from a woman who has been taken advantage of and has helped other women who have been too, help your daughter even if it means humbling yourself. She will thank you along with your grandchild someday. And even if she doesn't, at least you did all that you could.

princess dilana

actuality. I don't see well anymore. princess dilana