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12 Marriage Killers
2009 Copyright E.Umana
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 E.Umana here, with some major marriage killers.Make sure you are not guilty of causing this in your marriage. Or if you are not married. Read on, this will help you to recognize the signthat your relationship is being undermined by these relationshipkillers, once you are married.
 
Lack of finances/Debts
In this current economic downturn, a lot of couples are strugglingwith a lost job, rising costs and mounting debts, in fact there arenumerous stories of people actually taking their lives (and tragically,that of their loved ones as well) because of being deep in debt, losingfinancial investments or because of a lost job.It goes without saying that debt and financial issues can put a lot of  pressure on even the strongest of marriages and is frequentlymentioned (along with sex) as one of the top causes of divorce.There are certain things that are beyond your control, like rising costsor the lost job; but if you or your spouse made lots of purchases thatwhen you look back on it, you feel that you could have really donewithout it, you or your spouse need to take responsibility for it, not blame each other.Pray and seek GodSet a budgetStick to it.
 
Get some credit counselingSend out those resumesSupport each other in this very trying time.
Excessive Criticism/handling disagreements:
Don’t let your marriage suffer from feeling the need to set each other off or letting your temper get the best of you.Yes right now after that huge blowup you just had, you can’t standhis guts; but you married him.
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