Tamil Culture(1). Unit No. 1, Lesson: 1, GreetingsGreetings are a very important part of the Indian culture. Likewise, Tamilspeakers take greetings very seriously. People take time to greet others even ifthey are strangers. The most prominent way of greeting is by sharing a smile.Saying
வணக்கம்
is more popular in urban and semi-urban areas--usually among thosewith higher education--than in rural areas. However, when friends andacquaintances meet, they generally stop and exchange an extended greeting.The general greeting that can be used by anyone is
வணக்கம்
(greetings),
எப்பட
இரக்கங்க
or
க்கயம
? (How are you?). When one says
வணக்கம்
with head bowed orfolded hands the respondent is expected to perform a similar gesture. When askedthe question
எப்பட இரக்கங்க
?, the respondant is expected to reply either
நல்ல
இரக்கன்
or
க்கயம்
(I am fine). In extraordinary cases, some might respondwith
ஏ இரக்கன்
meaning 'sort of okay'. Like in English, usually therespondant is not expected to say for example 'I am not well' or 'doing some whatokay' etc., as their initial response to
எப்பட இரக்கங்க
?. The proper way is tosay
நல்ல இரக்கன்
'I am fine' and after a few exchanges bring up any unpleasantnews. People who keep in touch regularly normally keep track of any good orunpleasant events in each others families, and during greetings they respondappropriately. For example, if there was an unpleasant event in someone's family,no one is expected to ask him or her questions like
எப்பட இரக்கங்க
?,
க்கயம
?or even
வணக்கம்
. Rather, such encounters would usually begin with a head nod orsmile.The length of a greeting exchange depends on the level of familiarity between theparties concerned. Thus it may even take between a minute and longer. Even whenpeople are in a hurry, they will take time to exchange greetings in a properfashion. Most men would shake hands when greeting one another. Shaking handsbetween men and women of any age is not appropriate.When greeting each other, people of the same sex may SHAKE HANDS. Men more thanwomen will initiate a greeting with a handshake. Women rarely greet each otherwith a hand shake. Rather they may use body language such as a nodding of the heador smile. Influences from other cultures have not yet become fully popular in muchof Tamil culture, especially in the case of women; a hug, a kiss on both cheeks,and holding each other's hands while conversing etc., is not common. Suchresponses from other cultures will most likely embarass the Tamil speakers.
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