to see them as much as possible, so you make yourself available – that’s thekiss of death! Do the opposite. This keeps him from being satiated andkeeps him wanting – and that’s where you want them.
Think of how you behave when you’re not really intosomeone and behave that way with the person you
into. When you don’tcare, you take your time returning calls, texts and emails. Sometimes youeven ignore the texts and emails and don’t respond. You may even get upsetwith them if they text too much!
When you like someone, your attitude is: I
to have this person. When you’re not that interested, you naturally hang back and have await and see attitude. You think: We’ll see what happens; maybe they’llgrow on me. It’s this attitude and the above behavior that makes you mostattractive.One thing people mess up is that they think they have to mistreat the other person. No!! While you want to practice limiting your availability, having await and see attitude and throwing doubt into the mix, you
treat the person well. People like you because of how they
when they are withyou. So compliment, appreciate and praise – just don’t seem too eager toseeing them.People find this hard to do – they think the other will be mad if they turnthem down or if they end the date early, whereas with the person they’re
interested in, they couldn’t care less if they get mad.PPR is not an easy thing to do because you naturally want to see/talk to theone you like – it feels unnatural to avoid them, not see them and/or not talk to them every time they want to see or talk to you.One way to make it easier on yourself is to see other people. Don’t tell meyou can’t! If you want to improve your chances with the one you reallywant, then you absolutely
to do this.You can stop using PPR once the one you want has declared their love for you. However, you can always bring it back, if you sense they are starting totake you for granted!