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Realize Your Power - Estimating your worth
 Take a small seed in your hand and look at it. It appears so lifeless, tiny and almostinsignificant. But with some soil, water, sun heat, air and the fusion of cosmic spark - that littleseed transforms into something thousands of times bigger than itself.Note the scale and see that there is a large tree hidden in that small seed. Quite similarly, inyour almost invisible, quasi-forgotten soul - lies a huge universe that is hidden and inherentlike tree in the seed. You are capable to do almost anything you can dream of; you carry the whole universal energyin and around you. Many of the low times in life, we think ourselves worthless, incapacitated,virtually enslaved and at times surprised 'man what am I doing here? what is our mission onthis earth etc'.I inform you - You do have an important mission and you are already contributing to the visibleworld - through your talent, hard work and pool of energy. Never under-estimate yourself norfeel lonely. Your world is created by your work and creativity. You only have to act - the BESTyou can, the real DOER is the creator - who like a prompter of theatre delivers you the script.
Something that holds your growth? IS IT FEAR?
 When you get up in the morning - make a point that you get up like a lion - sure of yourself,bold and fearless. Before that you may have to work on the fear.Fear starts from 1st day of life, out of insecurities or of feelings of losing what you have. Fear isNEVER of unknown but the known and what you 'possess'. You fear, of what you already KNOW quite well. Fear resides in deep pockets of mind like a bug- hidden but lively. Fear can be one of the basic reasons of failures of life.Fear creates walls around us, forces us to take incorrect decisions, on the other hand,fearlessness will give you boldness, peace, preserve energy.BUT NEVER run from fear - running from it IS real fear. Stop, think, and follow the track of fearback in your mind's archives. Find it, face it, and deal with it now. You must REMOVE it by surgery of deep meditation, by ceasing all knowledge stored in mind. IRepeat that fear resides in knowledge not in the unknown. Your life will be on the super fasttrack after this silent process.
Should you be waiting for that perfect great moment? How to dis-attach from aconditioned life and get going?
 While it is important to plan with prudence, wait for the right moment to take the decision forimportant and not-so-important things of life; many times we forget to enjoy the present,thinking that one fine day when a certain thing happens we will do so. Expecting that a certainthing will happen at a certain moment and then a certain idea will come to mind and then fromthereon you will start enjoying life; is nothing but a deception that actually take us far fromreality of life. This conditioning of mind in reality makes our life conditioned. Anything thattakes us far from reality is unreal and one cannot live waiting for the unreal. How many greatworks of art are conceived but not created, how many great relationships start but die animmature death, how many great decisions of life are to be made by us but missed and thusare missed great opportunities of life. It is not that opportunities do not return, they do almostevery day, but they are not the same. Apparently, Time passes through us, unknowingly weassume we pass through time, although in reality time neither passes nor moves but our ownreality does passes and moves to another reality.If you are able to see the big picture of your life and can plan at least certain things as per your
 
desires, and take the right decisions in their right time, it is fairly good. In this case, even if youmiss few opportunities, it won't affect your overall actions. However if you are stuck in onefixed place for long time without moving anywhere and feel that life is nothing but a boringroutine, without any joy and a repetitious exercise that never ends, you need to do someintrospection and look within carefully that which is holding you from taking importantdecisions. If nothing is happening in your life and you find it boring, it means that you are nottaking your decisions in their right time but keep them suspending in an interminable unknownfuture that swallows all your good times. Lets make our mind cold, warm our heart up toevaluate this important fact of life. If Earth waited for better and more, it would stop orbitingand soon collide and disintegrate. Each atom all around you and inside is full of life, vibratingat total noiseless speed, enjoying the music of life, living right beside you. You live a conditioned life whereby you say, that one day you will have this and then you willdo that. This conditioning of life is in reality self-framing yourself in a box where you put yourself and cover with the lid of excuses. The excuse to NOT live your life is a serious denial of life.When we deny the reality of living, we are not living but lying like a vegetable that expects tobe eaten or be disintegrated by microorganisms, in other words we are letting nature take ourdecisions and remember that decisions taken by default or by nature are neither going to befair nor as per your dreams. If you don't live each moment of life now, you are not living fullyas you should be doing. Please be good to yourself, review your life and straighten out all looseends and define your living. Once you do define then just reverse the course and undo all whatyou do. This is the precious moment that you have been waiting for. Each impulse of life thatmakes this moment precious is worthy to appreciate wherever you are, whatever you do, inwhichever state of mind. Remove the self-imposed conditioning and start living.Once you change your attitude of will-do-when-that-happens to lets-do-now; the surroundingsand ambience around will change instantly. Do not attempt to store this fleeting life. See theessence of life that is pure love. Try dehydrate your resentment, guilt, anger, frustration tofailures of past and let them dry and disappear. Water the fruits of love and compassion andsee how your life grows wild like a tropical tree. Do not block your present for a beautifulfuture. It is ok to save some money and resources for future but don't save your love,goodtime, hot foods and your smiles for future. They are only good while they are fresh. Stalelove, times and foods make you sick. Reverse your attitude and DO whatever you want to dotoday. The horrible people will become friendly, dry will become green and bored life willbecome interesting. Do not wait for the BETTER or MORE. It can't be better than now. Acceptthe ENOUGH in hand as optimum and stop chasing for more and better. You will start livingwith joy. Feel the joy in you and everything will be full of joy all around you. Now don't hold life,let it live please.
 Your real you ? Are you really aware of your genuine personality or you are justliving a quarter or half life? Personal Growth � How to really achieve more andgrow fully?
Every single living human being is an extremely complex yet a complete and perfect creationof this universe. The enormous synchronization of billions of cells constantly keep creating usand giving us new life, renewing us yet how many of us live a total and complete life?I find that in the entire humanity only about 2 or 3% of people really LIVE their life to theirfullest potential. Majority of us are in reality living from 5 to 30% of our potential. People givezillion causes like poverty, environment, government, god, religion, education and socialconditioning and many other ready made answers to their situation to defend their partialliving. If you start thinking NOW you will also find many excuses to justify your situation. The truth is that the majority of humanity is lost in so many self created webs and threads thatwe become like spiders running around the threads but the tragic thing is that instead of getting out of the comfortable webs, we weave more and more silky threads to create moreand more prison like encasing of our soul and our personality.Without getting offended and being as realistic as possible, sit down and think if you are reallyliving a life to your fullest potential? I do know your answer in advance.
 
Let us find out what exactly happens to us once we are created and why do we volunteer to goto the self created prison and hide ourselves there. The reality is that most of us do not sproutthe seed of real self or personality properly and in many cases its growth is hindered by ourown mis-actions and lack of understanding the totality.I am not talking success or failure here as those are totally virtual, rather unreal states of mindnor I mean any achievements. Our real personality means our true potential and how do weliberate ourselves from the self created web and RELEASE ourselves from the closet or seed.A personality that is not totally liberated or free is in reality hidden in a secret box. What youexhibit, show or demonstrate to others is only a very limited view of our total sum of personality. Why? Because we inhibit our real self. You may have noticed that we keep the bestdresses and personal things in closets self assuring that we will use them on a certainoccasion. Likewise we keep the best of our qualities hidden in our seed thinking one fine daywe will unlock or manifest those qualities. However the truth is that those beautiful dressesremain most of the time hidden and become part of your private museum and likewise themost beautiful of your qualities remain hidden in your private mind which later on becomecumulative guilt and unfulfilled desires and the consequence is that we remain unfulfilled andwe live only partially with casual dresses and with 'casual' qualities.A semi-grown or half growing personality is an inhibited and imprisoned personality. The wordInhibit also means choke, constrain, constrict, crimp, curb, diminish, discourage, dissuade,forbid, hamper, hinder, imprison, interdict, oppress, prevent, prohibit, quench, repress,restrain, retard, snub, stifle, stop, suppress, veto, withhold and forbid... Trust me this is exactlywe DO to our personality and we lock our true potential and never can really grow. It is like aseed planted in a small pot in a nursery that never actually is re-planted to really start growingon its own.IF you sit down today and observe you will see how many of these verbs with the samemeaning apply to you and the sadness and frustration that will engulf you by knowing how youhave been restricting your own growth is exactly I want you to feel because if you do realizethat we have diagnosed part of the problem and thus we can go ahead and find the rightremedy for you to remove those lids and let you grow and let you re-plant in the open skieswhere you can grow like a wild shrub, unlimited, unhindered and to your fullest potential.Whydon't we develop those qualities why don't we wear those dresses? I will unlock the secrets of developing your personality now so please read my message very carefully.....
How does it all start?
  The constrained and repressed personality is inhibited and while it attempts to express itself tobe ITSELF - the failure to grow adequately or fully expresses itself as frustration. The frustration is the lost steam and dispersed energy that should have gone into therepressed personality to contribute to build it but the inhibition causes it to evade and get lost.We will review the secrets of the half baked or semi grown personality and try finding somealternatives and solutions so that you can draw the best of your resources from within andgrow as a giant that you are.What exactly happens when we inhibit ourselves and our personality. The first of its symptomsare timidity and shyness. From very young age we need encouragement and constant supportof our parents, teachers and other adults to express ourselves but the truth is shyness ismainly caused by our self inflicted restraining. Some overly protective parents keepdiscouraging the child by saying don't do this, don't do that, stop, you will fall, you will fail oryou must not do this or that. This excessive negative protection cause inhibition and the child thinks that everything it doesis wrong or it is wrong to do anything. Most parents do not realize what they are doing. Theywant to train their kids instantly and expect them to behave like them. Many kids in place of opening up, start growing inward and start repressing most of their expressive feelings. If yougrew up in this environment you do have residuals of these inhibiting remarks.
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