her schooling here. The loss of familymembers and friends, however, is anongoing source of distress for her,causing her to feel despondent andunhappy.
1.
Humor
: Gradually, the newcomers work toward resolution of their feelings, and their sense of being torn between the new and the old. They begin to accept their new home. They beginto find friends, discover that there are good things about wherethey are living, and adjust to their lives by coming to terms with both the old and the new ways of living. This is a long process,fraught with feelings of great anxiety in some, because to many,accepting the new means rejecting the old.
2.
Home
: Finally, the newcomers become "native" in the sensethat where they live is their home and they accept that they arehere to stay. This last stage may be years in coming, and forsome will never take place.
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adapted from Law, Barbara and Mary Eckes,
The More Than Just Surviving Handbook: ESL for Every Classroom Teacher
(Winnipeg:Peguis, 1990), p. 58.
Teachers working with newly arrived ESL students should also beaware that they may sometimes respond in unexpected ways toparticular classroom situations or events, due to cultural conditioningor to the fact that their cultural values and beliefs differ from those of students with whom the teacher has previously worked. The followingchart identifies possible cultural explanations for behaviors that ESLstudents sometimes exhibit.
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