Being in love with psychology, I know that there are great benefits for people whochallenge their established beliefs so I decided to challenge the notion of attraction and seewhat would happen. To the envy of those New-Agers out there still struggling to see anyresults; the moment I stopped believing about the Law of Attraction, it started to work for me! When you finish reading this article you will have all the knowledge you need tomake it work for you as well.
My stance on the "Law of Attraction"
At this point some readers will be understandably confused. Does this guy believe in theLaw of Attraction or doesn't he? I take a stance similar to what Bill Harris (one of thestars of
The Secret
) takes.I believe that our thoughts produce our feelings and behaviors. I believe that when wefocus on some outcome in the right manner our minds will start noticing things and comeup with new ideas that will help to bring that outcome. I believe that we will also beattracting people who are likely to support our projects with the non-verbal language weadopt. Our body language, tone of voice, perfume, wordswe use and even places we startenjoying, will be the exact ones favoring our chances of meeting people who are likely to be inspired by our ideas and are willing to help us. I therefore also believe that a largedeal of our external circumstances is created by our thoughts even if we are not aware of most of this happening.The thoughts and beliefs you have attracts you to the people, knowledge, ideas, resources,circumstances and the right approach needed to get these on your side.However, I do not believe that some force in The Universe is doing it for us,I consider themetaphysical claims to be 90% baloney. Yes I have read Dr. William Thiller's 'ConsciousActs of Creation' too and that's what is keeping that 90% from becoming nearer to 100%.I also refuse to believe that we attract everything we experience, this is ridiculous.Sometimes good things happen and sometimes "dirt" just hits the fan! We are notresponsible for all that happens to us, but keep in mind that one may always make afortune from apparent adversity if one keeps an open mind and a positive attitude.In a nutshell, I believe there is nothing spiritual, metaphysical or quantum-physical aboutthe "Law of Attraction". It is purely the immense capability that the human mind has toinfluence and be influenced in a manner that brings about the results of thoughts and beliefs one holds.
So what did I discover about the "Law of Attraction" that makes it work?
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I appologise for some missing spaces between some words. That is what happens when one uploads from Ms-Word 2007 to iPaper. (huh... Microsoft X-D) Will upload fom another format if you wish - let me know Mark M