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Pradeep Maheshwari
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My Life’s Journey and what I learnt on the Way
1) ABSTINENCE or MODERATION
2) Concern, Candor and Critic
3) Assistance or Interference
4) Balancing Work with Life.
5) Beethoven’s Pastoral.
6) Bring back the caring charm.
7) Our children are us.
8) Contradicting Lovingly
9) Depression.
10) Education and Real life.
11) When we are in error.
12) When did you last do something for the first time?
38) Sickness
39) The Case for Taciturnity
40) Show some courage
41) THE DE-STRESSOR PAR EXCELLENCE: MUSIC
42) The Illusion of Honesty
43) THE ILLUSION OF VIRTUE.
44) The Pleasure is mine.
45) The Plight of Artisans
46) The Right to Remain Unborn
47) The WHYs behind the whys.
48) TIRED for Nothing.
It is so saddening.
XXX
Question:
Considering history and events that mankind chooses
to write/record as history, humans are a warring
species, a cruel species, capable of any atrocity. Yet
we have all learnt by experience that in relationships
a little appreciation goes a long, long way. People
who erroneously believe they can bludgeon or
humiliate a partner into some form of submission are
so far out of sync with reality . . . yet it is common;
why is that?
Response:
It is the feel of indestructibility and power at work.
Humans have a cruel streak. The elements of vanity
and arrogance make them vulnerable. Whenever and
wherever they get a chance to exercise their power
over others, they do - often with sadistic tendencies;
from Dictators downwards to the clerk, from the
patriarch to the cook, from Director in a school to
the bully… just about everyone.
COMMUNICATE WELL.
Well what makes you say I do not communicate well
to begin with? In school and college I used to even be
appreciated for my language and clarity of
communication. I was winning debates. Then you say
“Be persuasive”. What do you mean? Am I not good at
getting things done? Very few people refuse me what
I want. I have a string of happy clients to prove it.
You say; Try and adopt effective communication
skills. Whatever are they and have I not explained my
point already?
She has been trying to look for a job since the last 20
months with no success. Numerology had no role to
play here. Jobs are essentially a barter system at
work. You give in term of work and you get paid for
it. I wonder if parents realize what harm they do to
their children by over-cuddling and at the same time
over-patronizing them. There is also this over
dependency on the education system to instill all the
worldly, social, inter-personal and other knowledge
required to navigate thru life. Even if they are being
raised for marriage, don’t they see that marriage
requires inter-personal and household skills of some
level of proficiency?