the scientific evidences that love and intimacy are essential for our health as well as for our very survival as human-beings. This aspect of life-experience belongs to each one of us. We were left with hope for Caroline in “Traffic” only when her parents significantlyattempted to connect with her. It was essential that the parents themselves undergo atransformation in order to save their daughter’s life. When the channels inside us begin toopen for “improving relationships with people, places and things”, we begin to discover the reasons to find a place in our society and thereby help others find themselvessimilarly.In order to avoid giving up ourselves tragically to addictions, it is necessary thatwe have a fundamental outlook on life at every stage in our lives. Geoffrey Cowleywrites, in his article, “Fighting addiction” the story of Colin Martinez who stayed “free of drugs” after using it for several years. What Colin Martinez says about him and his life isthis: “I have friends and a job, and I like who I am”. Perhaps it takes a tragic phase in our lives to be experienced, such as through addiction. But the sense of fulfillment or thesense of self or whatever we might choose to express its essence, is what is required in allof us. We have to learn to give ourselves permission to choose the most positiveexperience in each moment as Gary Zukav says in his book, “The Seat of the Soul”. It isan attempt that each one of us should make in our lives if we are to prevent the problemssuch as addiction from controlling our society.To have a fulfilling experience, we have to create access around us to see the wayothers experience their lives. Therapy, counseling and treatments like ‘AlcoholicAnonymous’ create a positive experience for the addicted people among us. Butconnecting with our families and friends, neighbors and communities, is one of the primary experiences that we have to bring to our daily lives. What therapies andcounseling offer are what we need in our everyday life. It is said that people get addictedor relapse into addiction for a primary reason such as stress, loneliness and isolation. Sowe have to create opportunities for ourselves to reach out to others and allow ourselvesexperience life its fullest.While the developments of attitudes to experience love and connection is aneffective way that we handle addiction, the challenge lies in balancing our experiences.Dean Ornish says that we have seen our society swing its “pendulum” to the farthestextent of “mechanism”, “determinism” and “physicalism” and now there is evidence thatthere is hunger for nourishment and spirituality in all aspects of our lives. As he says, wehave to create a balance to carefully avoid swinging the “pendulum” to its other extreme, by valuing “reason and intellect” as much as “intuition and spirituality”. It is apparentthat “reason and intellect” plays a crucial role in treating the problem of addiction as wesee effective treatments coming on the rise mainly through analysis and intellectualexperimentation.As we take responsibility as a society and nation to overcome the problem of addiction, changes such as in “social activities, roles and beliefs” is certainly bringingdown the rate of substance abuse according to the book, “The Decline of Substance Usein Young Adulthood”. While this fact leaves us with hope, Colin Martinez’s realization on
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