Christ’s relationship to God the Father is the model for what should exist in thehome: that Christ’s work is a blueprint for the firstborn.A common and tragically erroneous concept of the father/son relationship isthe one which views it as a rivalry. Father and son are each trying to dominateor displace the other. This perverse notion, in its modern form, is a legacy of that fraud in psychotherapy, Sigmund Freud. Using the Theory of Evolution ashis premise
he saw the animal kingdom as the appropriate model to explainhuman society. The law of the jungle supposedly dictates how father and sontreat each other.The lion, for instance, rules by sheer strength and viciousness, driving awayall threats to his food and pride. But as he ages and his offspring gain strengthand become more bold, he is overcome, and a new lion inherits the pride andfirst rights to the food. Freud developed this basic rivalry in nature into what is popularly known as the Oedipus Complex, which borrowed heavily from Greek mythology.Popular journalism and cinema accept this interpretation as valid andnecessary. A young man is expected to challenge his father, to oppose him, to be opposite of him, to argue with him, to best him. It is regarded as masculinityfor father and son to clash. A man is not expected to "follow in his father’sfootsteps", but to strike-out on his own, to be independent. It’s the "Americanway".We can agree, of course, that when two selfish people come together, thereinevitably will be conflict. But selfishness is sin and was never intended by theCreator. The obvious error in this Oedipus Complex is that it sees man as madein the image of the beasts of the earth and not in the image of God. Until now,the remnants of Christian sentiment have restrained the complete working-outof this perverse belief. Today, do we not find here at least a partial explanationfor the rise in teenage rebellion, dropout mentality, incest and more? If youteach people that they are animals, in time they will begin to act like animals.Truly, man is a son of God, not a beast. He was made in the image of God.Therefore, the model for the father/son relationship is not found in nature, butrather in the glorious communion between the First and Second Persons of theHoly Trinity: the Father and the Son.Since the family symbolizes the Trinity on the temporal level, it follows thata man’s firstborn son should look to Christ as an example for the filialrelationship. And since Christ is the chief cornerstone (the standard) in His
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