Characteristics of the womenone should marry
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ARRIAGE IS FOR enjoy-ment and to build a right-eous family and a soundsociety. Based on this, the womanthat one should marry is the one by whom the fulfilment of these twogoals may be achieved. She is the one who is adorned with physical (outer)beauty and abstract (inner) beauty.
The physical beauty
: it is the perfec-tion of the physical appearance, be-cause whenever the woman has abeautiful appearance and a soft voice,the eye will become tranquil whenlooking at her. When the ear listens toher speech the heart becomes recep-tive to her, and it delights the chest,then ones soul feels at ease with her.In her, the saying of the Most High isrealized: {
And among His Signs isthat He created for you wives fromamong yourselves, that you mayfind repose in them, and He has put between you affection andmercy.
} [ar-Room 30:21].
The inner beauty
: it is the complete-ness of the Deen (Religion) and man-ners. Whenever the woman is morereligious and has perfect manners, she will be more beloved to the soul and amore suitable choice.For the woman who possesses Deenfulfils the commands of Allaah, pro-tects the rights of her husband, hisbed, his children, and his money, andsupports him in the obedience of Al-laah the Most High. If he forgets, shereminds him. If he slackens she in- vigorates him, and if he gets angry shepleases him. The mannered womanendears herself to her husband andrespects him; she does not delay any-thing that he likes hastened, and shedoes not hasten anything he likes de-layed.
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Inside this Issue:
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Update on New Property
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The Rights of Parents
Page 4
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My Family, My Home,My Jannah
Page 5
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Advice to Those Who DivorceTheir Wives Hastily
Page 7
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Polygny is the Sunnah
Page 12
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Keeping Relations with non-MuslimFamily
Page 13
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And much MORE...
Your assistance is needed to help us move quicker
Moving to New Building
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XCLAMATIONS OF ALHAMDULILLAAH echoed when everyone read the Albaseerahissue, which announced the purchaseof a new home for Masjid AhlulQur’aan Wa Sunnah. Alhamdulillaah, the paperwork hasbeen completed and the property isofficially ours. However, it still needsmajor renovation before we can fully move in.Since the purchase of the property,the Shoora has been very active inplanning for our new masjid, and last week alone there were a couple of executive meetings headed by brother Zahid Rashid to discussfuture plans to ensure prompt andswift renovation and to speed thingsup to move in by Ramadaan. The response to our appeals fordonation and professional expertise was lower than expected, which, if itcontinues, will no doubt put plansfor a Ramadan occupancy injeopardy.
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By the Noble Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih Al-Uthaymeen
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