you are the biggest piece of garbage I’ve ever met” and you smile, politelyafterwards. You are going to get a friendly reaction.If you say the same thing, but you yell it...you get an angry look on your face andtense up the muscles in your face. You are going to get an unfriendly reaction.Listen: In a job interview people aren’t sure if you
can
do the job you say you do.So when they say “We need someone who can work 40 hours a week, will show upon time and do the xyz job properly...can you do it?”How you respond will determine if they believe your or not.How you respond will determine if they want to
hire you right now
...or if they wantto see the next candidate.How should you respond?It’s simple: With confidence. A confident “yes”...is much different than a confident“no”.People will tend to believe your answers if you say it with a confident “yes” ratherthan a wimpy “yes”.What you need to is find your “physiology” of confidence. This is trickier thansimply smiling. For me, my chin raises. My breathing becomes deeper and morerhythmic. My shoulder blades are pulled back, I’m smiling, my eyes are wide open.When I am in the state I am unstoppable.Now, you may be wondering...it’s kind of difficult to remember to do this at alltimes. And..you’d be right. It’s a pain to remember and if you’re not naturallyconfident...you’ll find yourself slipping right back into your “unconfident physiology”all the time.So what are you going to do? Take a look at this: I found an email newsletter written by a man named HarlanKilstein. He’s a crack writer, and he teaches a simple technique (it takes fiveminutes to do) where a bad physiology (meaning bad state of mind you don’t want)can be used as a
trigger
for a confident state. Think about it.Let’s say you approach a member of the opposite sex and you’re feeling a bit shy. If you used what this man taught you then...as soon as that feeling of shyness crept inyour body, you’d instantly leap into your confident state of mind.In fact you can use this “brain hack” to replace any behaviours and states of mindswith a more desirable state of mind.
Leave a Comment