More than the problem, it is my reaction to the problem,which hurts me more or creates chaos in my life."
A natural question popped up in my mind, “then, how do I outgrowthis limitation?”lessons learned from the story: I understood,
I should not react in life; I should always respond.
, whereas the waiter
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always wellthought of or intellectual, just and right to save a situation fromgoing out of hand, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid takingdecisions in anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.
Between the stimuli (what happens to me) and the response(what happens through me)
if there is no gap
, it creates reaction.But, between the stimuli and response, if I use the gap to thinkand contemplate, then I can respond thoughtfully. Respond, not react!
“An intelligent person responds; a fool reacts”.
I felt, if I am not a fool, then I must respond :-b ).Brought to you by:Brooklyn Vijay - Founder President
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