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StyTe wriEes: Subject.: Rer Hazardg of dating 1OE

Fi!s!

off,

I was going ro pos! on sonerhilg are hawing lhis now qho sir

tike

this.

Many of us, v,ho were nor poputar wirh IEis us, cal]ed enlering rhe wortit of

wonen when we were younger, ho! women. We have lhese

new e*perience. in Ehe car \rirh

gtrls

and lhey

yammer away abour how lney mee! another . ,, And rhey begin rhis never so

hot Ehey are and atl gi!], lhey run,rp

lhe guys who l,ere hiEting

on !hem. And rhen

!o her and say, riluar of rhis

roh my godl r tove your hair/ehoes/be]!

weird comperitive seen or been par! lame and shallos

vrhere lhey keep complimenring each olher. ri,orrd unlir rhe rasr couple vears, anit i!

Funniry enough, r,ve

cracr<s me up because i!,s and awesone.

and insecure

and ridiculous

and weird and surreat

Now, as for

you and your

silualion a.t, "ar."" guy6 rrying

if

you allows

yourself

to feet

any jealousy

or insecuriEy, wirh olher

guess wha!? you 1o6e. I guys and watching end of crusl, the nigh!, and respec!. orher

ny girls, to hi!

I lowe going out and warching you flir!

on you, because I know and chey all A11 I require ts David x,s !h!ee

know Lhar aL Lr,e rules: honeery,

we are going

hone L o g e l h e r .

anvrav, jealousy beginning

lhe wav !o ger her for plobtine, to !o ler

good, and r nos know rhis, tike you,re raking

is

Lo be a tirlle granted.

ali6ran!, jus!

Lo creare as she,s sweer.

her feet friends

her for

And rhen,

complain fl.wers

to her or lake her

abour you,

you rurn

around and do somerhing her

super

You send her finally rel1

her ou!

on an anazing

dare or fry toves you).

somevhere .he wanr6 !o go or iimty

her you tove

(assuming 6he atready

And noll' you are a coupte

SeyTe writeg, Su.bject: Itlr eDtrlng a new phese Lrr ay P U A d e v e l o p s e n t - a r a n E

I'm in th16 new norlil conElantLy talk lnstantly

no!t. I am alt ays alound ho! chickB' And they do weiral chings like on lhen. Yet lhey beconE about hov hot lhey are and how guys are al\tays hittlng tucklng obseaBeil with ne, anct Bulcicta] because I donr! watr! to Live {ith life. and lexEiDg te her and reEcue ber

completely

I have one l,[,TR piBEeil off fron her sbilty deb!-filled

cotnpletely ln love wilh rne anal obsesslng over me, and calling I have another MIJTR every two fucklng tnlnuteg. reuurn her phone callE on tbe phone lha!

I have anothet MLTRplssed at ne becauae I'n liveB ln Florlda,

loo buEy

every d,ey.

and shers Eo fucking boring to talk ]lvely.

r get r i ! e d

so hard !o keep the calls

caLling to 9o I canr! gel any fucklng work done, because lhese glrls are codstanlLy me for it' for not Paying enough atcentlon !o lhen. Anal Lhe mole they fucking critlcize because a1l rhey do is give me grief' them even IJESSaltentio[

lt

somehow, someone exPerienced can give !rying to me 6ome sage advice. figure oul hon.

ou!

lhere

$lth

nanaging mulliple

relationBbipE thts

(zan, r need you), on nyself Juat

And the

sage aalvice is thal

I am brirging

The lessolr Etressful

nanaging

nulriple learnlng Ps.

be a fuck

of a lot

hardet'

more emotiolral

ard more

Eo aleat wich than

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.Style wrieeBt Subject! vlaLon craghE to a low point - AGAIN

lley Man,

I lotalLy whal lrve the Quie!

understand where you,re been noclcing Party Ehread.

a!.

I feel larely

lhe after

safte way. And t have a loE more pelEpeclive reading this, and your response to my pos!

on in

in your posls

Here are a few lhoughts:

1. You are only as good as your 1a6s Earge. Il !ime. If you go! like a ONg, you feel loser like

Eucks, buE lha

s how we all

feel

nos! of lhe nexr day flom

a PUA god.

Bu! rhen you can crash

and burn lhe

e
E
il

and feel

lhe biggesr

in the world. Easier

So the answer here is

to Eeparate yourself

ouEcome, and no! lake ir

personally.

said lhan done.

2. Yes, lhe self invesled, of yourself

awareneBs rha!

you get fron

lhis

community is a biEch. aggravaling.

afler

Eo nucb time and expeclations when you 90

t
il

Eo NOT be lhe are raised

moB! money guy in too high. ce! lid

a room is of !hem,

You! staDdards

and focus

on hawing a good time

a a
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Hele's still

the biggest wacillating

i6sue:

Y o u r N E l , ls e 1 t .

IE's

slill

NEw. It,s

not always there

for

you.

Youire

back and forth right.

belween your o1d model/beliefs I'm not explaining the deepeet this vel1,

and the new one. And it's bu! ir is a MAJOR Makes I

hard !o tell difficulty more lime knos for myself

sonetimes IiEICE is to make true

fundamenlal

changes a!

core of your

personality. of the

lhan nyself

just

six

n'onthE or a year.

Ard iE lakes and attitudes this

more repetitions DowNr bur a! the

new behaviors. I stilt see

t I

I have SOMEnew beliefs as ny onD AFc self rirh

same iime

sonetines

NEl{ Ii{ASK on that

can sonetimes

be lransparenr.

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I
rea1ly explaining this badly, but the point !o get the is: It's harder lhan you think to change patts of

your personality

and idenlity

results

you vant

coneislentfy.

I
answering/Ewing service-

4. with nakes i!

the

flake

problem,

l sonder

if

your mode of

connunication-

- the

!
I

hard !o gel

phone rapporl.

Try making MEET cloEes

instead.

Then juet

phone/message

I
!

o n l y t o C o N F I R Mi f

necesEary.

StyTa vtLCdE ! Sublect: FR: fh Be6t Otrporlunily and the Worgt garging

s o t o d a y 1 l ' a sr n y L a s t d a y w i t h

lhe gir18.

and all

en! well

Finally.

I am beginntng

lo ge! lhis.

afrer

being around for I've

a while,

nor lrying

!o quallfy

myself,

and getling

social

proof

from lhe

guys and lhe girl

befriended,

the walls

came down. The girls

\dere officially

opened.

Then phase lwo, which realLy the door once ir Ehem. And Ird

got me in,

aE learned here in this Ird prelend like

thread/

was NoT Leaping through !o lhe guys over

lras opened. In fac!,

I prefelled

to talk

slop my conwoe with

them Eo talk

to guys.

I I I I I I

I
Then, $hen I had then to the girls didn't rogether iD a group, the target I lreated then like a group set, demonstrating value and guys who weleD't and running Ehe rouEines (or similar ones) chal

work before.

Suddenly, tbey were MONEY inslead

of suPPLIcaTIoN.

I
friends and sould be inlo

T
So, at lhe excited girls). a litrle hotlest end of lhe day today, I at least made it so lhat lhey are all to Eee me again. I got a #close wirh one {not a ronantic rith my target. what suckE is IE's tha! lead because she's mostly sbe lefr shile

And r 90! HUGE rapport while, bu! so I didn't

1 was away for

,
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I
I

get to #close her. out of

too bad, because not only was she the By conweying value lo everyone else and so

she had jus!

golten

a relationship.

being tolally

cool and slightly

negging with her,

I finally

9ol her inleresled

in ne. I'n

rl

F
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bunmed, because a #close $ould have been Eoratly possibte. Bu! r didn,r ger ro do ir before she

No worries, thing in

Lhough-

I! is

was a HUGE learning

siruarion.

And rhey ALL say that (NOw that don'r

rhe mosE atrraciive and show a

the world

a guy who can go up !o

Ehem, atready rhey reatty

Er
lI :l

rhey HAVE rhem,

conplete

lack of needinesE when lalking,

as if

give a shi!. by supplicaling

(Mosr guys are so !ii!h rourlnes because wiEh their a!

scared to even lalk fir8t. lhis your I!'s

to them.) This of course was where r failed enough ro do lhis

hard to maEEer you! stale

wirh a porn slar toser, next

on HER turf, but if ex-gf if

ta
rI

is ALL lnner

game. You can Eay lhe like you are the

same bhing a6 every olher shit and they could be your

you alo it rhey ptay

INNER GAltlEdom,

cards right,

you are the man.

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Styla

wtlEee t Re! Venue Poacocklng & HeIp Flon

Tho6e I Have !{et

Subject:

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For your particular

look/ you have rwo choices:

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1. You can go rock sEar: model eomeone like boy, ar!ist, singer, rocker.

Mark Mccralh from Sugar Ray, like

a prelry-boy,

bad-

OR

a
il

2.

{Thle is my preference D A N D Ye l e m e n t . touch

and new style)

co !o!aL

o v E R D R E s s E D ,i n a n O R r c l N A ! c e e r y t e modern suirs. scarf dark

wilh

elight a small

Thie means wearinq like peacocking, like

wery well-cur, eyeliner Ehe

And lhen jusE adding around Lhe neck. One of

a a a

of androgynous that

and a btack a long

my favorite mld-lhigh, eLightly Anylray,

things

I uas wearing

before

iacke!

Ehar goes down !o

l{'ibh just out. wilh

the lop burlon

done up and lhe resr

open, and ruffted the devil, Lot. r,lf

steeves sricking rxy ro find coot, a pic.

my goatee, people said r tooked like you have !o go !o Ehe righr

a
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if

you do this,

srores/designers

and ger

originat,

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shil. WET-L-FITTING out of the sroxe

T h e g o a l here vindow of the

is AI,WAYS!o be l h e b e s t - d r e s s e d

at lhe

party,

like

You stepPed

cooleEE boutique

q
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gEyLe

wtiteg

t Peacocking & Eelp Flom Thoee I Hava Met

subjects:

Re: venue

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Here's my opinion

on peacocKlngl

It

is no nagic Pil]

(whar is?),

bul

il

is useful

The point

i s t o W E A Ra n o p e n e r '

Tbrs aav vou

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canbenolicedinlheclub,l]'omencanopenyou,andit'ExAccErATEsanysocialproo!youmay the image Yes' it backfires if have. AIgo, if you dress I'ike tha!, lt forces you to l'iwe up !o \"hich is vhy if you peacock vou t'on't a1low you hang ou! alone in the corner hugging lhe waIl, yourself lhat Eo do tha!. Also, peacocking isn'r a whole oulfilr it can be just wearing SOMETHING

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I

a1lov,s a {oman to oPen You.

! was at Myslery's puE on Mysterv'B ekinlighr walked aEking shitr, rhrough if they

last

week, and he showetl ne a video Eop hat, lhe gian! the bools'

of a London PUA FoT fun' the lalex panls'

lhe

London PUA lhe as he srleels and

clolbeB--lhe lhe

lhe eveline!' himself

arm banils,

and probably

underv'ea! ?eople

and he videolaped wele slopping

lhe

slreels

of l,on.lo!1. It wilh

\,ra6 insaDe. him

him in lhe

could

be photographed a pelsonal ily

and he becane RE;ALLYFUNNY and FUN' because ne image'

had to come up with

!o live

up Eo lhe

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Furrhernote,

MYeEerY's lalest

MLTR (Iim 6ure he']l

poel a vid the

soon) is

s o m e o n e q ' h o o P E N E DH I M (it vas during a

when she saw how he ltas dressed

and thaE he vas leading

cooversation

Now, fot

nyEe]f,

I do not reatlv

pea'ock

I just

dress

VERY cooL and sTYLrsE,

so that

chicks I'm not

commen! on my cloEhing. advexEe !o peacocking--I

I have mv oton look, just like to do it

which I'm refining witn

ewery dav. That eaid'

' c l o E h e s L n a r a r e C o o I Ja r d n o ! s : m p - v L o U D

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StyTe wtites, Subjects: FR: The Best Opportunity and the Wor6t Sarging

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A quick storv: Tonigh!, r wenr ou! wirh a girt r mer wirh crimbre ar a bar las! week. she 6aid
Eo neet her a! a friend'e naned lJara who was wearing charming searched self, and teft house l,ho she had ro cheer up. I natked in, a see-rhrough lop rha! and iE was some aclress r was my usual r showed her whole breasls. wilh

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making plans and figure

ro go .wimning

rhem borh nexr week. when r gor hone,

on Google Eo rry

our who Lara was, because rhey borh maale refexences for what ir,s worth,

!o rrara

berng well-known.

Turns our iE $as Lara Ftynn Boyte. A!d,

she rrovED rhe

StyTa wrltaet Sublect: Doubl IrRt f.wo new layE in a day and a ques!:lon about 1ock6d uD women

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You may wonder why you don,t have lons of responses !o lhese awesome nor glvtng us a 10! !o go on in lhese FR6.

It's

b/c you,re

wha!,E lhe opeoer you're

using when you \{ander lhe campus?

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!'iha! lE your phone game lhar

sels

lhe

frame?

Thar said, the date

wirh abruptly

I{Br,toody, since aDd make ir enjoying morning,

ir

was ctear i|s

ir

was j u s t

a brood sugar rhing/ you're

r woutd have ended her. nHey,

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seem tike my rime vilh

your

fault--1ike

the ol1e dissing

F F E

HBMoody, I'm really me. I had plans great terribly connecLion offended this

you, bur L o t e l l

Lhe ErL_h. Eodav's p*e!Ey crazy lor r realty rhoughr we had a

and r have a lon and r wanreit to

of vrork to do tonighr.

on rhe phoner if "

see y o u a s s o o n a s p o s s i b l e , I jus! want to be all

bur would be with you

v
F E
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r pul1ed a disappearing

ac!.

here when |m

and nor distracted.

It

would l-ave -tef! you wilh

Lhe pIGsT E\D oI Ehe tedsh.

That 6aid. Nicole

who cares show) .

shers goal

on your

frane

or not?

Sone women {i11

never

be (ever

6ee

Snith

iE to make her

feel" CoMFoRTABLE, and lhen ATTRACTED, and {Hey, lbal'E what SS is fo!. lsn'! it?)

AROUSED. You can do this

r{lthin

ber frame !oo.

glyle

wrlteE ! varLou coclEy ald Funny suljects/fr.!s

gubjqfr

shi! There 1B Bone AflEgOME j.n the fleld, beca$e

here. A IJoT 1n one post. al1 {orkB.

Ilnat I can tell

a Io!

of thla

was developed

I kno$ i!

I'm deflnltely hilarious. posti4g

golng to start

uslng tlre ndon'!

cry

notdn joke.

And keeplng

a lab

for

lbe

gitl Keep

is

and uslng the Phole nI never liked tht6 stuff,

you any ay'r frame 18 awesome. G r e a t B h l ! .

of course, there a l e b e t t e r

"job8'

to nenLlon than the ons you have ]i8!ed

helel

Anong then:

"slawe trader...you know, inpor!/expott"

(from l4IL PUA)

"disposable

Lighlet

repaiflnan"

the irhole

"ass modeltr gadbit

Profe66ional

hopscoEch player

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Profcc6ional

boy roy

r r F
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Style

wtltest IrEortant for me lateLy - rethlnking chaslng & efficiency

SubJect:

TD,

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I haven,t read rhis whole rbread ye!, Just your originat lwo posrs, bur lhis curs !o a to! of things on my nind roo. r!'s nor jus! one issue yor:,re wriling abour. Here are Eone rhouqhls:
l Yes/ \de give up verv easily. slop calling if like

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or a! leas!

r do. rf

ehe does!,!

hawe boEh beauly and brains, h lhe meartime, you and caLted,

jus!

ONEphone call women --

is no! relurneit a.1d rhe girt

or whalever. 6ays !ha!

CoNSTANTLYhear of guys daring evenlua]]y she gave in. But it

always

he catred

and

a e a
ET

r,m no! a chaBer. Never have been. Too proud, works f,or eome.

too annoyed by rejection,

and too lazy.

clearly

2. As far

as these girls hir all

reEponses !o you ln your examptes, ir ThuB, lhey are leaving yes, ir's

seems like

chey,re

inlo

you blr

you baven,! again, but not rhem for player.

Ehe switches yet. is safe

the door open ro seeing Eupplicaring

each oEhex

it
il

bur in a way rhar It you juEt

(such as at work). a sec, say you're I! may b e t h e I o I

ro see rhem ar work, and insra dale

stop by for nighr.

on your way somewhere etse, rhey need ro prove you,re

afler

work rhat

serious

and no! a

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3. As far

as the idea rhar gaming is onty for Bur r onfv nor give her

aftracriwe

women, r disagree.

r feel

tike

r can

game anv girl night other recentlv, than just fronr

as much as she rNsprREs in me. For example, and was introatuceit (Ehree girls, !o an average inclualing Lalin gir1.

r vas our one r did NorHrNG

Z D
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ewen Earging,

being sociatty of her

proofed

the barrender, anit r lotd

handed me rheir slood bv rhe

numbers in

r meE a guy and he asked wha! r itid,

him I jusr

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barforalivingan.lt'ookgirfslphonenuibers,I,oL!)AndIi'asnatulallyfunny.Tbat'sil--no walue denonEEration6, no qualifyitlg/challenging. Ard by night's end we *ere bolding hands and

makingoul.No!onlydidlknowl.tidn'tnee.ltodoanylhingelge,BuIshedldn'lin6piremeto bolher to do anyEhing else.

4,

I notice

a lo!

of your

recent

PoelE have one thing

ln conmon, and this

ls

sonething

lrn

thin]<tngaboutlately:ThewAt!ogetlheno!desiredlqomenincheroonlsVERaelmple.Auyou have!odoisHooK!HEM,butwlTllou!I,ETTINGTHEMKNowYoU'REHITTINGoNTliEt"l.Andthisisa challenge, waB hanging inllml.late.l opens his because of,ten out with !o !a]k mouth. Jut giving starE, Bu! lhe lhen ANY speclal they fact sald iE, lhat' they're atlenilon they is an IoI hit rlrs crazyr tthen I

the Poln !o !hem.

NEVER get

on becauEe guys are too guy

shooting

do!*n guyE as aoon as tbe {1!h then'

becaue lhey -agBune tha!

he just

$antE to

leep

5.ofcourse,lhecagegyounentlonofgil'lyswhohitonagi!].conslantlyandlhenlakei!al'ay-anal then sualdenly the glrl falls for them. Tha!'s a chapger rlghl out of Aos' a glrl is cbaBlng you, and lhen you ]e! her

5. Ancl, in regarcls to your olher maln point, calch you, ln sone casea Bhe will she w111 lose lntereB!, like

lf

you more becauBe she's worked for you' In olher caEea' ENJOY 8he iE STARTTNG

you say. The anEner here ls to Ie! her Lhink that r',on. The!e!6 mole wolk to be done--you're s!il]

TO WIN YOUOVER, bu! hasn'!

nor eold yel'

gtyle

wtltea, KilLor Bee gtyle

SubJ6c!! AfrLcaDized

I love

your

f-ing

fteld

reports,

bro.

Do you tatite

fiction?

You 8hou1d'

Note for

the Thin-skinned:

I am aot

implving

Ehat this

is

ficlion

al

aU'

taughed

ny aes off

when you Lold

her,

dI'n

noE coning

fron

a scarcitv

frane

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A160, .tlaix Any{ay, as just socially for does well for he rakes L I F E S T V L E a n d R O U T I N E ,A c l u a l f y , Ar,r, rhe girls rhrough. and ir is that'E two reasons.

tl :t
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he has a RoLTINE tha! ringing proofed, i!

TEN TrMEs as effecrive axe I{Is TURF, shere he is sith his roommales

or doing a coffee where he can perfom

date. for

Ee rakes them to clubs that them,

and then has a whole loutine this...

when he bringE then home. Everybody should have a syslem like

r| rt t
El

roreplay

lS goocl. congratulations

on making Lhis discovery

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StyTe wtitae t SubJect: Conveyl,ng Acllve DlELntErsgt

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I'11

reply

more on thLs late!.

Thie is

definile]y

a high Eociat

proof

scene. It

was much smaLler

a
a
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and scene-intense malerial

lhan \,,here I look you guys. And it's but until

exacEly whar TD said: disinteres!

qe have lhe we won'! even be

!o blov, lhem ou! of lhe water,

c'e convey aclive

You a16o added an imporlant loast. feeling AII

point

he!e:

if

ar any momenr, you falrer

and give

IOls,

you're no better

of a sudden, yourre I!'6 like

b a c k t o E q u a r e o n e . T h i s i s S A R D C O Rg Ea m e . A n d t h e r e ' s gerling buClons, through one of those really

lhan winning.

hard video games where

lherels

no rsaven or ncontinue"

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Le! me also add to Vi6ion,s nole, and don'! apologize say,

pos! for it.

is !ha!

y o u m u E t R E E L T H E MB A C K I N . total for.

I!

was okay to insu]E her

Bu! conlinue--giving so upser

mixed messages, complimenls and I didn,t say anyLhing negatiwe or

nege conlcined-posilive

'rHey wha! ar:e you getting

about it.

cindy crawford

has a mole. I think

I,m going to call

you Cra,rfish.,,

Then when r

she gers upset again, called ny sisf--

eay, 'lrhat are you talking ln tacl,

about? That'6

the nicesr

compliment ever.

F F t F

crawfis\.

I sL.i1l do.1 corslarrly

retrame:

The way tha! rnew sirln with

most PUAS I know {includinq on the scene sees you talking or oulsiCler, as fuck.

myself

and Gr:imble)

pu]1

from lhese

places

is

lhac

the

to ewervone and starls who are reallv terrorists,

hitting

on vou.

so vou caa leave Also' guvs

i:he new girl

bu! the girls

IN are nore closed-off. and all lhev do is lalk

here are boring and their

They are conversation

about {ork half_

poseesEions. They're (probably

no! too haxd to befriend,

but thev also trap

vou in like

hour conversarions

because they're

so coked up).

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1 q'i1l definilely

try

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follow-up "Is that

opener after tt}e best you can do?'

she asks "wha|s

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lo lhose girls off mid_ I wasn't solution

even lislen

when r la1ked and juar Irn

senlence and walked avay. Etrong there I'11 lry --

no! going to \,taste my lime. failed lhe shil !eB!.

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lhey won and I

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game and had won, and tha!'s disinEerest_ only takes

vhy rhey were

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convey active nomen! --

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BETTER in person.

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cool

style

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1eE vou know wbar

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the

FR on meeling guy.

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prcperlybeginuntil youHOOKthegirl ln caneven No sarge in hereyes'from a friendlystranger you musttransform, otherworals,

to a guyshedoesn't wantto leave. Thismeans havingvalue.That's oneofthe first thingsI learned aboutin this corununity.SoI tauglt myselfthings liketheCube andmind-reading andrunes andsoon.But those arelongioutines thatrequirea womat or $oup,stotal concentration andattention. Theydon'tnecessarily work well ifused right afterthe opener. (Whoa, I'm starting to getwordyandoverly basichere.Bettercutto thechase before I beginto sound like the DatingWizard,)

SowhatI'vebeen doing nowis INSTANT NTERACTIVE VALUE DEMONSTRATIONS. If l made a livingoffseduction, I'd callthemMs andsellane-pamphlet andseminars.(lfl wasFormhandle, I'd call them"PosFpAIm pre-iso ilVD in vitro."j/k.) These arequiok ways to naturally andcasually HOOKa girl intoyourconversation. Atd they workwhether itrsa coldapproaoh or you're introduced to someone. These have become CRUCIAL to my game. In fact,it hurts to givethem awaybecause I usethemALL thetime.

Whatinterests a stranger arethingslike telling hersomething aboutherselfthat shedosn't know,leaching her something that benefits her,making her laughandhavea goodtime,and,in general, making herdght suddenly betterandmoreinteresting thanit was beforeshemetyou. SoI haveaboutfive routines I useto accomplish

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Style:Smileagainfor me. llB: unLokay. a U. she's Stylc(to wing)rSe, HB:???? to bc a popsbl' And shehada &girl whowantd I dated StylE: perceivd 8sunfiiendly' ra'ere with U'slupedsmil8 thorythatpcople asfriendly' wereperceived smiles with C-shaped And people a U then? HB: Sowhat's backin you mouth(eanadd Style:A U is lvhenyourtceth8o sbaight ftere'sa big row "kind of like a ho$e" ifshe'sa SHB).A C is when of pearlywhitesin the front.And to my e& it ri'asmorethena ftom a U to a rcshapd gotherteethsurgically theory.sheaptually

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Style:lt's crazyhowmanyplasticsurgeries theyhavefor celebs now. Shehadhereyemakeup andher lipsticktaftooed on,andwhenshe changed herhaircolor,shehadher lipsre-tattooed, (lfthe HB seems open-minded, I continue withthefollowing: ) Anddoyouwantto hear

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And coolwaler fo! you qives greaE easv lo Because it'E {i

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write. Ewerything rs lhe answer_-but i!'s uDdersland not !ea]1v

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We are all going

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anil anyone you approach State tso is that you'le

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here is TD,s: Focus onty on rhe opener. each girl to meer your expeclarions

If

you erar!

thinking

of how

of yoursetf, you \ranr !o lesr so you don,t

you,tl

ato much berler. you go

down lwo of your Every tine

nomal

openels

anal one nev, one rha! have openers prepared

out before

you Leave the house.

have ro lhink.

This brtngs ne to lhe moE! imporrant poinr: tthat beliefs/feafs/mi6conceptions experience, and lm Bure yours,

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of an opener, and ihefi you rhtnk of how !o do i! that you can't do it.

or say i!.

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HB, you walk towards ber, and you throo out an opener. I!

Yourve afready approached. you can'! Btraleglze anymore once you,re ro lhe fierar. you musr jusr

Anl'way, r'|al like !o conlinue lhis diEcu6si.on. so if and fears and enolions have lhese nightB, and even feetings

you can, r,m curious: whar are rhe beliefs r STILIT seen

that preven! you frorn approaching sonetine. and I've

And Ilwe been ou! with TD when he had one of rhese nighrs.

Mystery have lhese nlghls. unconfortable

And we've Ar,L had them for DIFFERENT rea6ons. For ne, I geE ior TD, he blanes someEhing exlernal 0n his own 106s of srare; for

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l'm Eure it's happene't to sinple:

This isnrt you.

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my gamet but iL 1s a problem a few days latet. to make he! feel The object confortable'

You get

the number, a slorv

of tbe Phone conwo is vou fluff for

you hawe prepared minules aflersards,

with

a couple

and lhen

You nake a p 1 a n . E a s Y . reallv noE THERE nor so \that

Bu! wha! haPPens \then You call' Things are going on in lhe

on her mobile'

and she picks

up but

she's

background

or ehers driving i! makes that

or people

ale

around' firs!

and she's call avkwatd

REALIY paylng

a!!en!ion.

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all_importan!

1, Tell her you'I]

(a lit. e suppticating) call her back when she can focus flee (but !rha! if she doesnrl) 2. Tel] her to call you back nhen sbers
3. Barlel 4. Pretend through l.ike and nake a Plan' someone jusl arrlved a! your wltl house and vou nave t o g o r a n d lalk !o her

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day rhev

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LoL.

okay,

some adwice:

1. Get a Mach 3 razor and do i! rr's

thar l'ay. Ctippers don,r ge! close enough. JuEr rry ir once. r rined ir. rr takes 15 ninules. Hawea frienit

a grea! razor and vou non'i! cu! yoursetf.

inspec! when you,re alonero nake sure you dldn't

niss any spols.

2. Make sure you shave (or cltpper if v,e11-groomed.

you srick !o !har) every orher day. Ir ts par! of etaying

3. Get a !an. Seriou8ty, find a spray-lanning ptace firs! experimen! and see how vou r{ork. Then report back. rt,tl up one full point on lhe allracllveaess scale.

and go lhere. Just do i! make a woRLD of differencet

as an vou'l] qo

4. I don,! know 1f you vork ouE. you don'r have to go crazy wlEh i!, improve your shoulders and cheEt jus! a LITTT,E. Starr

bu! get into a routine anat

wtth lhe Dconslruk! torkou!.

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!o lhe mass of skin rhar

is now your head.

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welcome to lhe c1ub...I'11

put my before

and afler

pics

up here one day.

Style

lrriteg: LR-: Jtaix,s Big Fuckl!, Saturday Night

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PASSIVE lgnorance ignolance. flon

wereus AcTIvE ignorance. igBored but jut her. thac

For exanPler was passive it coolr or

when you dissed igDorance.

her, sure ro

rihen you just

and I'm !a1k

she sEEs thar

guys trho are attracled

dplaying

trtoo shy to

so, the

IMHO, your

attitude wilh

wieh EBNlne, BBTexaE ghere,

lhough

it

$as probably best

lbe

beEt game you could play.

play

under

circumstances

!,tanrt lhe

gane you could

I B!it] lypes in

don't

have lhls are

nastered, falrnlng

but

I l.!tto!t I've

been much more effeclive tollowlng ln this

wich these orde!:

suPerdodel

Eels tlrat

over

them when I alo the

1, Acllve

dlslnterest

2. Hardcore neg 3. Chlck gets upaet and confrongs ne. 4, I Erlck up fo! nygeLf, donr! apologlze, and reel 5. She 1B reeleil in. 6. I reward h6r wlth a compllmen! based on cold-!eadlng 7. I nay NOwbegln the game I nolmally uae r19h!
away. her ln.

I'm s!i.11 wolki.ng on !hls, hear lhought s.

and as far as I knov,, it

doesn'!

get digcusBed. Bu! wouLd Love to

oh, aE fo! your,,I lo!-verbal Jlaix.s

wanna tick

il"

line,

trled

l!

once and didn't

$ork for me. so I'n

sllcklng

lo

connrunication lhere,

Maybe I'd

have to see you do 1! ln conlex!

to undersland,

LOL.

I!-Bed t{orkshop: you can have 6ix Eludent6 ove! for $500 eacb'

Sqle Ntites:

subject: What most people do wrong when approaching

I workshop, I tridan experiment. WhenI lventoutth first nighton Mystery's

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approached a set,opened, andthenDlved. And not a SINGLEsetstuck.I didn'treach thehookpoint.Everythingjust sortof seemed flat, until I excused mysellThisis because I dropped TWOimportant pieces outofmy game. Ifyou knowwhattheyarealready, thenyou areobviously already successful in thefield.

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Thenextday,I did theexactsame thing,except I added NEGSandTIME CONSTRAINTS to theapproach. Everything flewopen. I waspulling girlsoffof guysleftandright.

So,ifyou areapproaching, butnothaving getting success lN withtheset, go outtonight andaddnegs andtimeconstraints to thelirstTHREE minutes of yourapproach. It makes a HUGEdifference.

Forthose whodont havethis material, here's anexamDle:

TIME CONSTRAINT: I canonly stayfor a minute,because I have to rejoinmy fiiendsoverthere. NEG:Oh my cod, is shealways like that?How do youroll with her?

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And,a third point,which I've made often.In orderfor anapproach to work in a baror club,youMUST enterthe setwith anenergy/fun levelEeUAI to or SLIGHTLYgreater thanits cunentenergy level.lfyou walkingin not smiling,

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Hopethis helpssomepeople...

gEyle wtlEeB, gubject: A few good lLned anil n98

NEW NEG A great neg I used rhe other day...,for girls qrhoaay Ehey work al trendy bars/c]ube...

HBNon-rarger: Hey, did you hear rhar HB gor a job a! Lolus? Style: l,lo\,r.As a barback? only guys are barbacks lhere.

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really off hard !o gec jobE at lhose as a barback. n

HBTarger: aB a barlender.

The oprional ending to this places, and il

is: Afler,

I satd, "oh, I know il's

you don'r have a Lot of experience you have to slart

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funny,

becauge i!

putB a model/aclress/lrannabe LOL.

in the posirion

of having lo

say,

rrl have a

1ol of elQerience...

(as a barlerder),rr

NEW C/F I,INE My new favorite Then, after liDe is ',Newer heard ot it." a fe$ seclions, Said really stlaight letting and dry, with eye contacr. kidding.

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pausing fo! break into a 6nile her knolr yourre

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style:

Never heard of ir.

HB: Yeah, we v,ent to Slyle: what mowie? Retoaded.

see a

EB: Matrix style:

Never heard of ir.

TATTOO C/F NEG I just did tbis once and it

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anused me, but maybe they ger i!

aI1

rhe Lime. .l\n)4vay, use if

you

With FBs with latrooes, say, 0I was trying

just Etart rubbing It i! cones off.'r

wilh

your

finger.

Then, when she looks

a! vou.

!o see if

! !
-

?hen Ehe,l] say j.t,s real. already), we! your finger

Don't believe her and (if anit try harder rub 1t barder.

you have altractlon

or have

d o n i t t h i n k s h e , 1 1 be confor!able

si.!h you. saflva

on he! arm, jusr

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Then aay,

,,!ook, ir's

coning off.

Righ!

there.r

A NOTE ON FVNNY LINES: They don'r personality rdorktr to

ge!

you a nakeout

or anylbing. enjoyable

They contrlbute to say.

!o your lhe word

and sense of humor, ard rhey a girl i6 nor going laler

can be realty

But saying

to geL you a naKe ouE or n u m b e r . l t u s r r e m e m b e ! ! h i s . BIG CHUNKb a s i c s dom of inEernat

Theee are all body

fun lhingE

!o add in

when you have lhe of a sarge.

stale/

language, and the progression

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ll if

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some Ehoughts.

Not' on tbis

post,

but

o! the Photos.

one:

The btonde fron

girl.

what happened? Irm lrondering frlend, tn lhe

photo.

only b/c Ehe body lang]rage waa a little

btll,l, in Ito l,llay

distanl, only

hr

and her

Th16,

reflecta

on your gane,

reflects

on my ablUty

!o read body lang:rage.

T!'o t You alreEs llke

RoEE ifefferles.

go,

a. No necklaces leadB me t.o.,..

l'oin

OmaIDE of

shi!83.

They ghoulal AIWAYS be flueh

agalne!

your chesl,

which

b. No collars

llghl

agalnat you! thtoat.

$ear form-filtlng

Bhlrts

thaL are utlbuteoned, and tbu

Bhow your chet aDd necklace.

c, No !-Ehlrts

unaler button dlownBhlrtE. Try 1! TruE! me

d. Go !o a place that glves Epray tans,

tshe healthy allernativ

to Iry rays

e. In genelal,

change your Elyle.

You'rie a gooat looking guy' Your sgyle of dleBsr yotr colol a 9ir1 wittt

vllh selecLl.on, adal lhe way you wear yout clotbeB are holding you back' Go Bhopplng gootl taste' buy wha! Ehe Lells:!'ou to, don't 6ay "but thatrs tlot me'"

gtyLe vflEeg, subjecl: LR, ds9ttg

a cB'lsg

fri,nd,

followod

by . thtg

Tost

Quick

IrR:

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one l{hole bellydancer

year

ago I wenE ro atso. s o I did the cologne

bellydance. oPener,

There was a young, and then just flirred.

thin, Tha

cuEe e it.

there

Anyway,

it

seems sherE been asking warned, howewer/ that

her

friends

about me since is a reat

and they

ser us up lwo nigbrs

ago.

The ff,iend

HBBellydancer

man-killer.

Awesome, r lhoughb,

r love

r did the usual dav lwo reirh her: look her our wilh a buncb of friends. r had an 19 year olar kiil l,i!h me. Anal the kid was a Eota} CB. He kept asking togical quesrions, like. rttey, whar do you And rhen he,d say, "remember when you were hilling 0n lhose lwo 9ir1E. doing rba! face reading sht!, and they loralty dtdn,r believe you.,'ne was doing rhia accidenEalLy. tte,s Jue! an tdio!. Bu r did NOTIe! it ruffle ne, I jusr laughed abou! it vrilh hin and lhen made fun of him for putEing bj.s foor in hig nourn. rhink of the net, )qxxx cDr and sruff.

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Finally, isolared

I grabbed lhe gir1,

EBBellydancer, by rhe hand and satat, 'IJe s rake a watk.i r my frlend drove her friend

her in the bar, dlal the cube, and made ou!. AfrerlratdE,

Haff

an hour of rapport figure

and making ou! out.

later,

I suggesled

we leawe.

We haat Beparale

car6,

so I

needed !o

somelhing

Style.

Where do you live?

l.IB: XXXXXXX Slyle: tlow far is that from here?

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HB: 10 minutes. sEyle. (saying nothing, just keepirs ovelt 2:30 lhough, becauee r have a tor of work !o do. eye coDracr)

rlB: Are you inviting styfei I can only

yourself Elay unril

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so went over, leawe at

nade our,

shirr

off,

ny panrs off,

bur sropped by LMR. No worries

since

I,m in.

4 am or Eonelhing.

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Tbe nex! nake out, norning, drive

day, start

I tetl

her

I neeil to ltalch anat lhen full

a novie

for

work

She cones ower, she's that

I show her the

h lhe

che novie. lake

close without her lhe

resislance. befote

awesome in bed' hawe time

t hawe her

a cab home (I told M L T Rm a t e r i a l .

light

r did!'t

her) . she's

deiinilely

Lowe this

gamel

StyLe wtitea t Subject: The Tr.o-Part KLas Openr

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and gelling gounner to i!.) confused therel by the guru wars and jus! repos! thal loutine You should

Ipogleilrhi6onAsF.I'mtrylng!oependalilllemoreljmelherelalely,becausetherealeso many nisguialeil Bcreamrng for hele ne$bles help, there fucking likeal proslituteE junk-food

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Kooper,

your

(as weLl as lhe reeponse that

adds mole llnes

anway,

moving on !o lhe

PoBt.

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Yeah, opinion

I knov,, new oplnion openerE, and lhiE

openers one fills

are getting ir'

ttred.

Bu! chere iB thaE lhe who lies

IS a hole

Tbe problem

mos! commonly mole, eEc)

uEed opinion appeat moslly

openerB (jealous

girLfriend,

david boltie,

to ltomen. And most of us are approaching

MIXED er6'

so lhis loalhe

neq one, which I've to give aqay bu! juEt lhings. anat it

been using consislently can't help nv6elt for

for

months now {and am is designed super-

some reason),

do seweral into it

1! appeals prowides

to guvs firEt

and foremos!; front

vonen ge! of sonen '

also;

a wav !o Al4oG guys in

So, without

furEher

ado (okay,

naybe a litr1e K-sE Opener.

more aalo),

I bumblv present

for

your coneideraEion..

Tl'e Tvo-Par!

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something. one night

If

a guy is

daring

a girl, a guy jusr

anat she goes ou! for fun, is ir

ro a bar lrirh chearing?

her

friends

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and makes out with chealing.

C R O U P :Y e a h r i r ' s PUA. Okay, lhat I'm asking in

makes sense. so here'E lhe real rf she goes our and gels

quesrion. drunk

And r,1I

rett

you why

a 6econd: is it

and makes our walh a

GIRL for

fun,

cheaEing? vary/ bu! if any guy6 say,,no.,' you can bus! on

GRoUP: (Ehe responses lrill lhem for

having a doubte-srandard

etc.) asking is because my frienal over Enere anal ge! drunk anil make ouE and he o u ! w r 1 ow a s

PUAj Okay. lnteresring. haE been daling with thinks 9ir1s. i!'s Ehie gir].

The reason r'ft And sbe tikes

to go ou! !har,

Now, some guye mighr be inro chealing. She says it isn,t.

but ir

pisses

hin off

go we were lrying

to figure

GROUP: (dlecussion your slale nex! lhe piece toplc

ensues,

which you ottl because lhey

have !o wilt

t
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soon cuE off

and move inro rhtE and

of marerial and convo)

go on and on about

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Ir,s of it.

a nice change of pace for

lhose $ho tove Jeatous Gtltfriend

but are

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StyLe aatd.a,

Asfor the guyswhoworryaboutthe opener lasflng not longenough or too youworry long, too much. An opener ls simply meant to open. Andit only needs to lastuntilthe conversation or energy levelbegins to flag.Andthen you hit themup withyorrrnextpiece. If you,re a newbie, yournext here's piece (creditto Mystery):

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The subtledistinctlon with this kind of talk is: it's okay to come off as

sexualBUTit's not okayto comeolf as hornyor perverted.

Seyle wrLtest SubJec!: A lant on sballgwDeFg

YeE, you ned outer game to apploach succeE8fully. belteen/ gll1E ale looktng tor value dd staluE,

Yes, you need ime! tte,

game ro close succeEEfutly. Bu! I norlce

But ln

rhlE soundB houibte.

rha! when MyEteiy

o! Eomeonegi.veE me an AccoMpLrsgMBNT INtRo {o! r do so fo! then) , the g1!1s afe all I 6anrr get ltd and theyrll of them. orhe! !1re8, ohen I do lc for orhe! puAs, r' . notice thel!

ove! rne and sometlmes whole demeanor change

1lEten to any bE he haE to say. irrd I've It doeB no! nalte!

Eeetl rhe way womenbehave around celebE hele o!

backgtage a! conceltE:

whethe! rhey have a bf o! nor.

Thls pot is not in any aay b1tler.

In fact,

r've been having GREAT EuccesE 1are1y, And o! coulge Ehe your game if iE's righr can ourrelgh tbose

Ehings I mentlon hele ale ju6E FACTORS ln a g1!1'E decislon. factols, But, Ia!ge1y, E1!ls ale attracted

!o theEe elenenrs of HTGHER STATUS,and if

rhey ale hrgh @de out in6Eanrly she lusr eanled

enougll, you can circumvent the6e rules.

Remembe! rhen I was nigraken fo! Moby? The 9ii1 rhar nighr. I{hy? She wan'r even a fo.

and wanted lne to .one ove! to her house lare! blagging alghrs or the validaEion.

of coulse,

rhi doe6n't mean glve up all

ltope oD the game, because chicks will

inveEr in you. h

olher

FAME is RICE i6

the the

sare

thing

as the as lhe

IOTEIITIAI,

TO BE AAMOUS

sane thing dlfferenr

POTENTIAT TO BE R1CH girl

eooD IJooKING is

ro every

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These are

all

considerarions

that

I believe

uitt

make pRoJEcT Hot Lti,{ooD wolk

fo!

Ehose of us doing

it.

For evelyone have your {ing

e1se,

rhen,

make sure you have loutines to! you,

bhab demonsrrale

this

porenrlal

or,

much berre!,

do then

I'd

be cullous this cities, he'd

to hear o!he!s' is tlue evellrhef,e;

thoughts on rhis, rhele i6 lusr

esp tf a louer

you are riving rhreEhold

in ciries

like

Miani,

Ny, and In. in

Fowever, maller rhereas

ar which

someone i6 in

famous/coothich a smal1 tom.

You know: a SCREENiTRITER fo! be lust anolhe! screenw!fte!

an Adafr Sandle!

movie woutd be a cereb

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Style

wrlEeB t re: Shallowness

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subjct:

Nice lesponses and thoughls. sarging luEt

In general,

fty molivalion wilh

for

wriring

this

p o s ! $ a s L E A V I N GL A a n d girls everFvhere were an

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elsev,here and seeing !ha!,

when confronred

lhe opportuniry,

ae slalus-seeking And, yes,

and i.mpressed by the bs as in LA. Not a negalive i!'s lrue what Toecutre! says: you can,!

by lhe way, just or quaLify

observalion. yoursetf,

brag abou! ir

orherwiEe you lose.

You must carry

iE triEh you ae parr

of who you are, afler

and olher you! wing

people mu6t te]1 scops lalking

her who you are for

her !o be impressed. Try an experimen!; say, ,,Do you kno{ who rhar

wirh an HB or even crashes & burne,

was? He's the heix

Lo Lhe caapbeLl's soup forlure'

or whaLever. See wrar happens.

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is

saying here is thar

every girl

has her !)'pe. True.

Bur 6he oflen

witt

eeII

our

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i n a S E c o N Df o r

a shor wiEh a limired-edilion

ceteb or a chance to be on the am ot a happen att rhe rime, and nor jusL in They

mega-millionaire

or a ridiculously loratty

handsome guy. I see i! weak-kneed, srarsrruck,

LA. A11 of a eudden this juBt donr! ADMIT it,

caughe-up side coneB our of girts. dom a high sralus

and like

!o BIAG sometines they turned And, sure there are exceprions:

mate (because it sorrs of 01:

makes them seem even cooler). celebsr nillionaires, about

peopte have rurned all ii's

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and loo-altractiwe PERCEIVED STATUS, Hett,

guys down. And, again, took a! who fenate

no! abour wealrh, date and marry:

tooks,

money: it's

cetebs

cI]uB owNERs.

In fact,

celebs !hen.

kis6

aEs to uler-nerd

PAUL AILEN, because of his Paul A]1en.

extreme

wealth

he is

of GREATER

STATUS than

Fuck.

Mick iragger irA.!4S sith

Bur Irm getting irriting this

vray off

topic

and into

a langent

I don't

nrant to 90 into.

I guess the

reaeon

I|m

is because!

1. Once again, e8pecially,

it

reaffiiM

the importance of llfestyle vlll go for lhe Lifesryle

over sarging pick-up guy over lhe solitar"y

barE. Those girls player with game.

lhe party glrlE,

lmporlan!: lone of high slatus maleE do not 9e! laid. But rhere's a hierarchy of value a guy can have for a glrl, anal gTAfiIS is near the very rop. Tbus, the ILIJUSIONOF STATUS i.s PARTol game.

2. Same's 6tll1

3. It's

a reallty

check,

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can be devetoped around rhls. here, r leally

5. There are new routineB,

Iike

lhe acconpllshment' lnlro,

!ha!

6. Engineering 6ocj.a] proof should be the next flonlier

for PU.

I dod,t klrow wttere exacrly notice that

atl

this

ls leading,

but I was hoping to post lt

lhe CREW I hang out with affect8

lhe DEGREE of ny success when I'm in rhe club

sEyle

adde,

Righ!, target dress,

Toeculter.

The life6tyle

i6 conveyed not A rich i!.

by yourself

direccly.

It

is

best realth

told

ro your

{hen you are out or lavigh

of earshor.

nan does not. have ro flaunc

hi6

iE words,

ependiDg;

he enbodies

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Lifestyle lhen is conveyed not by your words bur by vhat,s you. r! facr rhar is around you: itow women rrear a girt you, whar

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your friends out abou!,

say, how the club manager lrears on her own. 1! is conveyed by lhe

somerhing roo !ha!

jusL finds in

you don'r

need ro and have no inreres! and slep inro your exciring

being part

of her world.

she must abandon her unfutfitting

rourine

? fl

world,

[NOTE FROM STYLE, 2006:

IF YOU,VE READ T11I FAR/ EMAIL ME AT I4ANOFSTYLE@GMAII]. COMWITH

THE SUBJECT HEADING {FRANK IS WRONG'FOR A FREE BONUSSURPRISE TO REWARD YOUR DEDICATIONI PERSEVERANCE, NND COMIIIryENT. ]

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Roulines

include,

Ehen: {as discusEed), lines and having orhers like lett Erories about you. abour how

1. Accomplishment inlro 2. Pivols,

\dho are plepped lrirh biggest

lhe ones Nigh]ighrg

posteil way back {hen,

crush on him for being iollowed

so long,

bur he,s atways raken. bringing headshors ro

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3. Myslery celeb autograph/

ideas:

around by a r/ring vrilh a canera, you. and dress.

having people slop !o take photos wilh

4. Your body Language (geslures,

the way you hold yourself)

very confidenr

and setf

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= -

5. Going ou! quickly).

ln environmenls where you are known by lhe staff

(or if

new, can befriend

rhe sraft

6. Krowledge of what,s going on in !own, especiaLly vIP Lhe be!!er. 6a- Irere's parties. In olher words, you're r re]l her ticket.

larer

!ha!

nighL,

and the more exctusi.ve or

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a rnoney Line.

HBs tha!

people in !A always rry

to befrrend

me Lo go !o rhe I,11 rake her !o

So she ha6 to hang ouE lJith fre three

EimeB and do normat thinge

before

any of my cool places. ?. Appearing lo be the leader who people of your group: The leaders, a6.ruggter (I Ehink) said, is Ehe one

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are TALKING TO and trying

ro irnpreas. schedule. tine I like to tel1 lot.) styte). Thar EBs/ ,'My dance card s futL.' ir

8. Berng busy/ having a fu11 social kno!,ra few of you v,ill 9. Having an entourage/ be using this oflen

ronigh!,

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eeared (as opposed ro aandering rhe ctub tone-wotf with thern att rhe time,

doesnrt mean you hawe !o be silting club where you,re

bu! jusE having a home base in rhe

sulrounded by a protectiwe

enclave of hangers-on.

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asD Eriggering)

soulal have gone for

And, ves'

oNE prEcE in

Ehepuzzle.Bu!it'sapieceldon'!thinkueehoulitneglectb/cit'sbigfora}otofgirls. AndleElsnotfolge!lhatgirls.ton'tsAYwbattheyMEAN'l,ihenshesaYs,,'t{ekeptbraggingaboul quv I'm Wha! she means is, rI would love to ride around {iEh a ho! his ilaguar. Whal a jerkli about il !o inpress me "l alaling in his Ltaguar, bul DoE some lose! who feele he needs to brag

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S o , w e g o h l h e h o u s e . No! lbe Locati.on lool Eerers

one Papa posted

piclures

of,

bu!

a differenl

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lhe old Ra! Pack houae.

Saddle Ranch and

It,6

five

sleps ofi place

gunEe! Boulevard, can rhink of in

walking

distance scene

from Skv Bar,

Barfly,

any other

Lhe lrollveood

rr,s

four bedrooms, wirh a huge ouldoor pool/jacuzzilbar

deck overlooking sunset BouLevard' I!

is fucking beautiful:

lhe nicesE ptace I've ever lived in or seen

of privacv

The plan is !oo.

ro live

the lifestvle. open. flrs

rt's not

also

big

enough lhat

yourll

hawe irhe option for

tJe hawe one bedroon

cheap. But it's

noE expeneiwe eilher

whaE you're

9eL!ing. from record labels and

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nice

enough to

rent ..

out

for

afler-Graftly

and after

preniere

Parrres

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Subjecl:

I christened

rhe houEe todayt

snuck in with

one girl. liEtle

(a iirs!

nreeling) slairs

and nade our flom the

for tiving

a \rhite. loom

Then snuck ln with lo the dtning a!ea. lhat

a FB and had sex on lhe She also

calpeled

leadtng

happens to be an lnterior design for

designer.

And she wrole exchange for

me up a foltowing otle sushi

con!!ac! dlnner.

saying

Ehe would do inlerlor

rhe house in

sounds f alf.

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Wow. I can,! nake it whores lras really dlsses, 9ir1s.

rhrough lhis

whole rhread.

Bu! catting hurtful.

lhe glrls I don'r

we me! in Canada coke reatly nind the personal rhoBe

fucking

wrong-headed and, frankly,

bu! those girls

DO NOT do coke and coke had nolhing

to do ar atl

with pg'ing

Dude, Mysrery doe6n,t ewen fucking drink.

obwiouEly, the review is leposled from nighr. That

elsewhere, bul I just

lrant Eo emphasj.ze thar not a drug waE touched or menrioned att

may be in Desting'B realily

(if she sees people staying up lare oi louching t.heir no6e), bur noE

That

6aid,

lhe

video

was in no !^'ay neant nigh! and nex!

for day.

PU or promorional

purposes.

It

11\'as iusr

a fun home

movie menerro

of a crazy

Itope rhose

who sas the

leaked

wideo

enjoyed

it

anlaay.

ugty bald one" -of my looks novr. )

1ol,

at least

this

wilt

keep people fron

rationalizing

lhat

I get

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a few morethoughtsi Now thatI've readthewholethread,

is RIOHTON,asfar asI'm tonality onvoice thecomments 1.moever made taking gotten past, even despite theoneSPI haven't lt's really concerned, hurtme,butI'd likeit to bebetter. lt's never voice lessons.

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interest in thevideobeingpublic.And obviously no onesigned releases for a home movie, Soplease takeit down, espeoially because notonlydowe show the faces ofthegirlsbutwe alsomention theirnames. Hi, mom.

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5, Do youknowwhatmy favodte partofthe videowas? No onementioned it. It's thenextmoming,at breakfast, whentheblonde girl tooksat me.She looksat mein a wholedifferentwaythanshedid thenightbefore. Like, she's in lovenow.It wassointeresting to see thatchange ovemight whenwatching thevideolater. She wasa reallysweet girl andbecame anMLTRafter this,so that's really whyI found Desting's post sodisgusting andhateful.

6. Onthebright side, at least some ofyou here canstop rationalizing thatmy looks getmelaidnowthatyou'veseen whatI looklike.What's reallyinteresting is thatI hadjust anived in Canada thatday. AndI hadn't shaved my head or cleaned up or prepared to PU at all, And afterwards, whenwe watched thevideo,w9 wereamazed thatit didn't matter, thatit wasstillpossible to gohome witha cute girl whowasabou! I 0 years myjunior, thatmaybe whatwe leamherreally is (gasp) true.

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Subject.:

so, a follow up to ny personals experimenr. I wen! ouE o n t h e s e c o n d ever Personals neeEing of my life. The firs! one r did, r ended up steepins wilh h e r . T h i s E e c o n d
one \{as slrange.

The girl

was realt"y cu!e. And she reEpondeatto ny asshole profite.

Then r made her jump lhrough !ha! was under a dollar to the

hoops, lraded insutrs via email, and tolat her !o bring me a gif! meeling. She rnade me a CD.

So we sat down at a lrounge, and 6he never reatLy opedeil up. I did ati Ene usuatEr spetls, Es!, r'Ds, etc. Maybe x lalked roo nuch, but she never realry conrribureat to anyrhing. Then r had her qet walk me to a wideo. And ir was jusr clear in my mind lhe whote rime, ,rThis jusr isn,t working our.' r! llas clear ro her atso.

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The Ehing is: rhat nucb I,d

I can,!

figure

ou! wHy. r don,t The bes!

knot^,. rf

I had !o ito ir

over again, lhere's nor for

do differen!]y. for,

r can rbink

of i6 rhar

s h e h a d some sort of criteria

rhe guy she waE looking

and r didn't

march bhar crireria_

so, with lhrough vibe

the failure lhe personats.

fresh

in my mind, I,m curious the girt

with

orhere who hawe been alrracErve, is lnere ever jusr No

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Ewen lhough

nay be physicatty

between you,

no nalEer

whaE you do?

Does anyone have any other Ioulines rithout reatly

ideas

as ro wby she never with her, bur

reatty

opened up? At wors!, the opporruniEy

connecting

r was newer qiven

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have lhis

feeling

as I write

this

rhar

she reatty

wanred !o into wow,ing sruff

latk girls

abour her vrth

favorire

novies

and

booke aDd camping trips, that I didn,t just relax

and I'm and ratk

so brainnashed

r F
a

rvDs and ESp anal alt imporranr

abou! rhe boring

!o ger those at]

COMMoNALTTIES going.

I wonder if

my boring

nerdy

pre-ASF

setf

woutd have connecred

wirh

this

girt

betrer

lhan

sryle?

F It F F F EI
il

oh we]1. girl

Live and lealn.

I!'s

a problern lve

seen orher have: you forger

to reatly

]isren

to the

and sense l,hat

she needs.

I guesE l,we answered nV own quesrlon now, bur would be curious to hear olher thoughtE?

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IT TUPIIED OU! TEAT THE GIRL HAD RECENTLYMET A BOyFRIEND THROUGB TEE

PERSoNAi's, Bur FoLLowED TIIROUGH oN corNc our lVrrH MEaNYwAY Nor our oF RoMANTTC rN?EREsr aur our
OF \CURIOUS]TY' BECAVgEMY PROFII,E WAS SO COCKY.]

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go I l,en! girls

out

tonlgh! all

with

the

second 9ir1

tron

my asshote

profite. r did

SeriouEty, ir torally

of lhe diffelent.

TIiREE

I emailed,

responded. ThlB one had a happy ending.

I met her a! a trerdy neet me tbere.

bar,

{here

I knew rbe wailress

(Myerery's

new Mr,TR) proof.

I also had a friend

So now 6be was in my world,

where r bad sociat

As soon as I sar her, new vave haircut. got IoDs.

I was atLracred. energy

Better

than her photo.

a lhin

btonde wilh

a loral

Bo,s

,fu6t a great

and sense of style.

Anyrcay. we sat

down. And INSTANTLY, (Tha s lhe

Eer body language

wa6 REALIY bad and she lr'loutd NoT look

ne in rhe eyes.

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IoD.)

So I lurned

aeav and talketl

to mv friend

for

a fell

minutes

and just

let

her

sit

Then, when r was ready, routine, Aftetwar.t, I used it to

r turned

back to her'

we ttid

lhe

cube

Bul a lot

instead for

of doinq

i!

aE a

convev mv personalilv co geL rapport. sudalenlY, her

- fractionating Then, I Pointe.l

jokes

and things' bar, and we joked was nv

{e were Starllng

oul

a guy in lhe l rold

around making fun of him GooN {lhanks ,luggler),

bo'tv language

\das changing

her my fliend

and that

he protecEs ne and makes

causes anv riouble'

on lhe couple

way out of -being

lhe

bar,

anocner

thing

lhal

gor me poinrs' also'

was inleractinq

wiEh a randon \{e had great she

reatly

funny

and reasiEg

Ehe 9ir1

introducing

mv HB ae lf

rapporr.

I realized

that

lhe asshole; she EXPECTED

inslead,

she 90! sEyle

And' slo$l"v'

discardedherExPEcTATloNandgre\,tolikeslyteevenmore.Irealizelharwon't'happenevery !ine, bu! il did in lhis inElance.

I a
I

Aflerwarit, happeneal to rhe place.

r wen! !o $eet love lhe band.

chrlBtophe Perfec!

a! a concert

jusE happened lo

be going

lhere,

and she

The venue change w a s g r e a ! ,

and no$ lhere like

wele IOIS aL1 over rhe$ the cube tasle 1n nuslc

I knew all proof

the phases had been passed __ she didn'l of lhe bar demonsllaled value' The fac!

me a! first,

anal lhe Bociat and joked

lhah we had similar

t t

around a lol

During cell

the

show, I

leaned

in close

and brushed

cheeks or pu!

ny arm around her {hen me klno

I wanred to Dv

her something. Her reaction up against me a lot.

waE tolaIly

po6ilive'

she was giving

opporlunlrles

brushing

Afrerward,

at lhe

bar,

my fltencl

wenE !o

ernoke a cigarelle

Time to Pha6e shif!

r did

mv

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of the night, 20 minules

Ehe dropped ne o f f and talked abour

at ny car. surprised

we made out we were lhal

like
idvi-a

I said,
i h-

you're
t-s-

only
r.er.

as good as your
rric

lasr

sarge.

.t\nd now rrn

in

a good mood. Thanks

-rrni n9 lrom You! misrakes, works.

a a

correcling

yourself,

figuling

ou! a method tha!

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Altnvay, I really

like

rhis

girl,

add wilt

nake her an MLTR.

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Someone had aEkedhow I could !e11 wiEh an HB, afler saying \r,n lrying so hard nor ro kiss
you/' eilher whelher I lra8 in or not. comes up wirh off When a girl does NOT wan! to kiss gives you afrer you say rhis, WTF? took was off. she alray or jusr

a
I

an excuEe righ! right away. Ellher

you an unconscious your calibralion

or her body

Language closes

way, you rorow if

a a a

If

a girl

you to kisE her, WANTS she lurns

she eirher

lays exacrly and Emiles. did or,

as Bhe is afre!

you say it

and keepe says

up Ec. Or, "You can if

her head a'ray demurely Anolher girl me to kiss recently

as happened recenrty, lhing: didn'r

a girl

you wan!.r

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the firsb

move her head or change

her BL. she almost {anted

her rhen.

I was rrying I'd her, didn't

ro experiment wilh

David D'6 sexual communicarion sruff and be very far ir uttinarely

when we were on rhe bed. put my am around rhar r

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then rearrange my posirion EEc. I don,t though it know if

atray. r,d

and Ehen be dlslant. ge! any LMRor not,

conrribuled

!o lhe facr

could hawe.

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go sh tells

You sher8 married

on the Eeconal meeting

(91u4 3Eome

so, I'm out on ny second neeling hours, Iine. i!'s hold hands, make out,

wilh

EBNewave

(from lhe

personals)

. We hang out

for

a couple

and t h e n a t 1 1 , r d o l h e o 1 d "whal ine shers rnarried on lhe

do you have in the believe )

refrigeraEorr but

she is hesitant, rrue.

and then she lells c o m e s lrirh

l don't Personals

her at fitst'

(I suppose that

che lerriEory

l$y$ay, Il

so HoW would you respoDd? I ius! Fuck, she's jus!

sot!

of

ignored for

it

Bul

it

felt

a liltle

weird

afler'

also made me realize:

in i!

the sex; I feel

eo used and dirlv'

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PHEI'l'l

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BONUS Q U E S T I O N :S o I r I n g o i n g lhrough and llying !o flgure inlerest

my elable

(which girls

is

fucking together

big for

righ!

no11', bu!

o!.1! how I carl get

lwo of lhe

a threesome' !li!h womenAND a 35-year-

show rhe nosl old brunelle misftatched.

are 1 1 9 v e a r o l d b l o n d e w h o ' s v e r y c o m f o r l a b l e

w h o ' s n e v e r b e e n wi.th a wonan before. Problem is: would You try !o do it

Thev jus! 6een so d i f f e r e n !

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any1ay, or keep searching for a better

malcrr w i l h e a c h g i r l ?

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exact

same problen

And it's

a calch

22

You

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A. Not encourage more this fuels

her wilh

poEitive

feedback

and rewards

But !hen'

the nore you v,ithdraw,

Lbe

her obsession

B. Be eweet back to her

and plav

along.

Bu! then,

this

onlv

leads

her on and fuels

her

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to know a way to get right nor.

out

of

this Eaid,

situacioD "I

withour

hurring

rhe girl.

I have a FB

I
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:.

r{ho's olher

like

thac

She actually to you la!er.',

lowe you'r before

we hung up on rbe phone rhe bu! whar else waE r

day. I said, say?

'Talk

IE seened so cold and caltousr

Eupposed to

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The orher

problem

i that

shen a girl and I lose

(who r do nor interest

towe) --

does rhis sexual

and gets

loo

ctingy

& needyr

she becomes SO unacLractiwe

in her

aDd other\rise.

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Now l,e know how girLs

feel

(and irhy Davld D's non-wusglness

stuff

works).

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l'tyslery read about lhe,Je!.ry

Seinfeld

movte Conedian eilher is GREATlnEplralion

here or on ASF, so c'e renred it. for sarging.

I!

i3 a GREAT netaphor for the game. And it

r,BD askedt When are

you good? The anave! j.n conedian is NEIER. Evely set is a new one.

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An)4\'ay, I nanted to write

do$n my though!6 before I forget

then. Eerers wha! I learned:

No one wants !o go lnlo EhitleE6.

a Bet. Thele's

tha! moinent right and do ir.

before you walk in !ha! you're

scared

Then you jusr push youraelf

And once you r^'atk in,

there is nothing you can

do but perfonn youl best.

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Srlck co field-lesled lbal you vatue.

malerial.

Don,! inprovise a new rhoughr or rouline or opener wirh a se! have to keep comlng up lrith nelr materiat.

scick to wba! works: you don't

continue !o refine your besEnaEerial un!i1 iE,s Lorally kitter.

You stat! rhem over yourBelf

over fron

from square scratch. time. If

one \{tith ewery set you have social it.

You watk into or are

each 6et tith

NOTHING and mueE win

proof

incredibly

handsome, navbe vou can buy

a liLtle

But tha!'s

You have NO adwantage because of who vou a r e . a chick isn't g o i n g t o l o w e y o u . Y o u r r e judged

\tust because you're on ho\,, you Present

Mystery

o!

S!Y1e

You are only as good as your las! your control; differenlly.

eet.

SoneEimes you botrib because thete have done beller your next

are circumslances

bevond

somelines you bonb because you could Either way, you alvays
lake i! hald

or done sornelhlng

unril

eet.

It

never slops gelting

ilifficul!.

It

ts always a challenge.

Your self-esleem v'halsoever

is always on trial' lo Judge vou

And rhe6e people

who are lolal

slrangers

l4'ho have no credenlia]8

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nuch polrer. But lhey alo, because !ha!'s

rhe game vou're

pLaving

AII

of

the

above apply

as $.lch !o stand-up

as to

lhe

PU arcs. on slage

And it to lrv

ltas great

to

see Jerrv another

Seinfeld

just

a B nervouB as an amaleur

before

qalking

to win over vet

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every

girl

this,

sometimes wben I

firEt

neet

her:

I
at ib is, cod gave nan the choice sbe

ON CHEATING: belween good

"I and

an not evit.

a jealous

person.

The way I look

T g-ve any gir_

T ' m w i r h L h e c h o . L c e between good and ewil

also.

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That said.

I really

DO NOT care if

my FBs are steeping

wirh olher if

peopte.

r expec! lhem Lor sleeping,irh and !ha!,s nor

because I'm not giving olher people,

then ewelylhing

rhar they need. rn fac!,

Ehey areD'!

then they become obeessed with ne and get unreatisric

expeclaEions,

good or healthy.

Style

wrlteo, More on my onllne aE6hol xpe!1ttt6nt (wlth rEpec! to Lovedrop and

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Subject: ,t1a1x)

z a a

This

is

a contlnualion

of an o1d thread. also hard for

I still

jusr

do no!

understand

vrhy women respond

to my

asshole profile. response fa!e. with

And lt's And any gtrl

me !o be congruen! wi!h. I had that

Bu! so far of !h!ee

I have a 100 percenr meels, r,ve step!

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r'we wanEed Eo nee!,

option.

lwo of the glrl8.

Bolh very cu!e.

So yesrerday another girl the girl

I did

an experlment

I I sent

one 9ir1

an emait

flom

the nice

guy profile.

r sent Onty

an email frorn the asshole profile.

cuees which one responded? Tha!,s

lighr.

who got lhe asshole email responded. It i6 lhat she SAYS !ba!

bog91e6 my mind. Here,6 here responee. what,s ye! sritl she responds hersetf (ror), 6ends

intereEEing

she hare6 me in lhe email,

a n E X T R Ap i c l u r e

(IOI 2),

and playE along with

my frame ot qualifying

Lo ne (IOI 3).

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She !,ritee: pricks' following wilh girls, like

"You sound like yourgelf Ehings, all

a r:eal asshote over the world. beliewe

actually. I $i11

I am gtad your

you !,arned me rhere fanrasy by adniLrinq

are

,setfi6h

indutge

Eo rhe

three

I don,!

nen can be monogamous, I hawe been knoldn ro have fun

I ea! raw fish

in the moming. "

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RESPONDED; lIoliEvER' lEE GIRI' wAS AWAY IN EUEOPE WI{EN SIIE

WE GOT ToGgrSB

A MON]rH I'ATER'] WHEN SITE CAME IIOME TO I,OS ANGEI'ES O\TER

SEyTe vi.'Eeq, gubjeqt: sttcklng Polnb3 TranEltj'onj'lg to the close

For llumber, SEEDthe convelsation

sheru be idtelested in' r! Ptan lhat you lhtnk on Thursday' that you'I] be going lo sone concett othe! worals, if she's lnto muslc, ne[ti on trHey' you should hits a high o! nears lhe endr say'| Dorl't invile her. But as lhe conversatlod you exit' sherll hav !o geL the nulibe! Before done !{1!h r If she agrees, you 'lonrt even nlth a futule usually lus! glve 1t to you' once you ge! the tequislte IoIs evolution ol DDB' Just ito lhe money_back-gualanteed

For klsses, phase shift.

sEyie

wtltea, lRt I.PR (LeEl PUA ReElgtanc')

Eubjclr

okay, this

one was where the whole pua thlng

really

backflreil

in a !tav' llerers lhe story: r me! her lltrough nry 6ocial' I took i! as an tol' sbe ]lves rn

l'ho t reaLly like' EBblaceB ls a supe! cuee blonde wilh braces out of lhe blue' anal Ehe sent me a shore emal] one 'Iav circle, NY, so r net he! !he!e.

abowe virh gexvlibrarian The vthole exact bo'ly ranguage lhirg 'lescribeil during a dlld Lhe cube andl lols of ceaBinq' Ueuallv' was i{hat happeneal. t nec het aE a bar a!r'I of rry tbrough an'I iust sot! of rake a surveY neeling, r'lL go to the bathroon halfway first qoing well or icrs noL' pit of ny stonach thal elther iE's fee1ing6. r'll bave a feellng in the goirg good' she plav6 her car'I6 close to Antt the feeling $46 EhaE it sas rt's non- in!el1ec!ua1. her cheEE, so ic va6 hard to tell_

venue-changed

!o another

bar,

where I knew ewerybody. and make ou!.

great

social

proof.

lhen

we sat

down on a

couch, evolution

phase shift,

I talked

abour a short

novie

I had nade,

and tried

to get

invited

back to her hou6e to watch

it

on DvD. tuxns out shers ln a really it sits pretry in my horel roon. Of course,

sma1l aparlnren! wilh well

a roonrnale, so I !el1

her wer11 {a!ch lhere. buE it she

I know full

Eha! I don,t

even have a D\.Dplayer She spends rhe nighl,

in my lap in lhe cab, and we hake oul al] much slays abowe the vais!.

lhe way lhere.

Alrvay, PU thing tully

she visils

LA a tew 'reeks later. with. So I9e!

IE,s

awesome!o Eee her.

But she knows aboul lhe vhole She s no! rrusring like ro! her. herself we to

and \rho I,m living go. ltts

T O N S o f I r M Re a c h n i g h ! . really

let

annoying as fuck,

esp because I aclually ge! lnlo incredibly i!

So aMough

lechnically borh nighls fault.

had sex, we never real1y lle spend EogeEher. IE's -- and slllf

because she,s just

relaxing,

This happene it,s my

a noylng.

And do you know what? lerhaps freeze-ouls !ha!

I never did

hawen,! done --

the hardcore

Mysrery has 1I rly

maslered.

Ir11 be seeing her again lhis

q'eekend, and if

she,s still

not comEorEable, I

Style

wtlt6s, Questlon for Style and othe! travellng PUaE

Subject:

Pma. T reve- aralyzed rhis doing the right thing, too much.

par! of my gare berore. iJer re rry girls are ca11in9

to brierly. in

-!

'eels

lrke you a-e

because the6e

you and staying

touch,

so you don't

have to vorry

There are Two kinds

of long disrance

siruations:

1. Gills

you bave already

ha'I 6ex oith'

2. Glrl

You haven't '

If

or ere risk losine her attla:tron -l --" montlrs' - fel,t to see he' l,ithin a neeclto you vou neecr :"T']llh.m r rbloti that can run
do thie by perfonnlng Styl'ers EV via mail This glves lhen a "pIot"

you havenrt hact Eex wilh a glrr'

chen vou needl to keep ber ll,atn unliI

vou see trer again

Adt

tor

l,l"T"i six ltee*j

i.f you 1et- lt,

belr'een the gvro of vou' ancl keeP everychLng fteh an'I evotvldg that

lheY are in a Ehe 'loo! is aL{aYE open whelher wiEh girls There are sorne {ornen trv been Eleepiag and uhey dontt lelt a6k t dolr't no!, or relatlonship talk !o lhen ol email lhem them once evely six montbB an'l -se only nay anal yearB fo! lrith I w111 be in and out of their becaus I traveL' they know that t$ice in beti|en. t thlnk that rl'm going to be or call or !ex! tha! BayB' enail get tsha! lfl11 they polnt, llvee. Arlal at sorne do the Eane when F!i'lay' troubLemaker?i An'l lhev'll on you doi4g are lfhat ln to!,,n lomorfovt. you BAVEhad sex lrIth' I feel theyrle in $Y to$al. i6 a routine, a! BomePolnl' I rdl] telMen tltat lheY ate the

I think

have to talk be fliends ltith. llndl we donrt kind of Person I know t'11 aLway8 connectlon. it's alwaYs there' reninal each olher !ha! we have a LhiB heIPE either:

a16o, and I suPPoEethis

every weeR Eo

I a!o!'t kI!o$ if

and I never assume that lle ale $ich another girl, 1of) '

rrtho else they may be Beeing, but I never ju'tge lhen o! care 'Io -- unleBs I happen to D golng to have Be:' (lhough ite alwavs

Don't be!!er.

kno\t i!

this

helpE

at just

all'

let

me know lf I.n

I sbould elaborale

on anyEhing or try

to explain but

I Ehink

therers

che frame tlrat

a busy guy anat dod't

have time to maintain'

I appreciate

thern atrd \te are good in bed together

when our live6 and we enjov seeing each olher

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The rules, girl lhinks

of coulse, she's

are enrirety

differenr

for

a ]ong_di'rance

siruatlon

in which case lhe you,re serious leading her

going ro be your girlfrienal. i!

Tha! Eakes mainrenance, and if r e c o n m e n a l e du n l e s s y o u / r e

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on in lhat

respecrr

blows up in your face...nor

abour her.

Style writes! Subject! Re: Date Flake, Why did this happen?

Formhandle's right, She gaveyou her reason, Thenyou want all loglcal on her, and suddenly foundyourselfgotngdown a dark ally conversation-wlse,

I've done thls enoughto knowRIGHT AWAY when a conversauon is startingto take a bad turn. And if you get lnto a i'flght,, ltke that thls early, it wlll destroyyour chances. So what you haveto do ts lust CUTIT OFFrlght away,WhatI'll usuallydo lf a conversaflon with someone IJust met (or In your casehaven,tmet) starts golng downa bad path ls just sayi

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"Youknowwhat, we'rejust tlkeCybjlShppard and BruceWillison Moonlighting.r'And then change the topic, (Alternately, you can use "Samand Dianeon Cheers,,,)

It's a GREAT reframe.Because now suddenly your bickeinq has changed from 'noL gettingalong, to "romantictension,

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meet subieqt! Re: On of the KEYSto sex on the first

here'Hardcore' Gottastandwith Cassius A flrst meetlng' for meespecially: it's comein handy where Here's of lt' but I don'tknowthe WHY if ifs fromthe personals' especlally go from I c,n seher bodylanguage It'strue. ln the flrst locatlon, Butthenlt hitsa celllngSowetakea off to lnterested, ctosed or bar),andon the walkand (a lounge walkto the nextlocatlon for somereasonso In the second bullds the rapport arrlval, ln the flrst lf we hadstayed Is nowposslble a *close locatlon, staledandwe both wouldhaveeventually too long,the mood locatlon uncomfortEble' wouldhavebecome changes but locatlon lt wellenough' I don'tknowlf I'm explalnlng rappon' for bulldlng are GoLD necessary) (though not ALWAYS if you makethemat the rlghttlme' Especlally

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t Ellall frlqk for lbo RePeltolte

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Oue of my ULTRg aloeB this

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Cute thlng

to add r.o the repertoire.

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Wow,lots ofgood responses hre- andhonest ones. I think this post ftom IN I oSEactuallyanswels a lot ofyou questiols, especially with

whathesays aboutPUA beinga skillsetandnot an identity.

Ard he is correct on theColdReading bookI mntion: Completely Cold is thetitle. It's abouteightpages long,andit aptually works.

Londonasked abouta solution; Besides whatINI oSEsays, youhaveto leamthis all like you'dlealnbodybuilding. It's notjust about weight-liftingin the glan,it's alsoaboutealingandsleping right Io otherwotds,traking careofyourself.

SoPU,asI see i! is actuallynotjust aboutsarging, asIVe said

lt's aboutlifestyl.And it's notjust aboutgirls,it's bfore, yowself. about

theprogam' And the Robotleams is thatthe Social Theproblem only reallylasts,asbestI cantell, for the first I 5 to 20 program andintuition' or so,After that,you mustrely on charactt minutes to leam' taketime andexpedence And thse

EXACTLY whatto In otherwords,I cantakANY guy' And I cantell him in a shortamount sayandwhen.And hecangeta girl VERY interesied hewill havea No day2 game; oftime. But a socialrobotlt'ill have FBs' but no gfs or ovnregular lot ofphoneflumbers,

houlsto daysonhereis thatit iaksroughlyseven Thetheorythese a lot of time for a HB to tell if go tom begimingto end.That's moregoingfor you' andhavesomething youre CONGRUENT

Herearee few thingsI canthink of offthe the solution? Sowhat's top of my head:

-MakeASF a hobby,rct a lifestyle' ofASF elsebecause thananyone -Realize thatyouarenot suprior knowledge

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andyourself-- all thre- youwill women, Ifyou don'tlovepeople, nevergetgratat this

human a complct You'll find thatthemoreyou groomyourselfa's And' 8t the same to sarging' bing,thatit's ALL ultimatelyrlated keep hereandyou should keepleaming time,YES,you should backverysooftoq andask Facticing in the field. Butjust step robot? yourseEAm I tuminginto a soai8l
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And abov' thequestions Hopethis answrs you do evenAFcish' but nothing maysound lookingb&ckovI it' som for yourslf"' will everbe AFC ifyou aremakingyourchoias

Styl.

vtlgea, oPlDionF on Ul Gtrt (plus velbaElt! routj'Deg)

gubJecg:

so I'm online,

antl a gilL

I donrt know rMs me' this

larelv

tha! she's soliciling

for a \tebEite or vebcamor someuhirg. gel is great' But I'm posting sarge her anFay. The respone I
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happens, andl by the name r asaune But I 'Ieci'Ie co assune the be6t' Ehis for two reasons:

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show You how I

my routines. EV rouline to

if

t haven'!

alreadly'

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a bunch of men to lry after reading this, rhing,

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seem reat? Do you think drann inro the

she ',,as originally thi6

going out,

me some

sex website off. Also,

gor

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bur somerhing seems

see her pic

I posred.

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she,s sucked inlo

it.

and

suggests exchanging pics_

she is supER cure-

style Style

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we're

no! smiling pouty

our pics.

shame.

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scyle

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Your RouglneE In The Tra6h

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subject!

here Is a r o u i i n e . Wait a minute. Bul vhat You Post I ! nay nol be 100 Percenl s c r i p l e d , rourine.
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r!'e but

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9ir1

lo buy ne so

a c/F frame \{e use here

from stalling

oul

in tluft

on rhe orher

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lhere

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wtLtea, Help NeedEd t{tth glEh-proflt garge

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a busidesBperso[ r,ho r aort of know the olher alay, and afieri?arat, she Eaid Ehe wantd !o se! me up vrlth a sort_of hlgh-profile pop Elnger, I cantt say who it tE but sbe,E vefy reorlhy and lf i! work6 out, 1r1I post about 1t. My friend Euggested havlng a dinner ac her house, and tnvitlrlg lhe two of us. Bu! I thorrgh! lhat r{ould be awkward, and i! mlgh! be harat ro ge! atlraction golng in that forced_dinner situation in a bright house vlth bableE anat at1.

I $as hanglng out nlth

she sent me the pop BCar'B mall address and asked ne to enail where the Lounge comes iflr what do I Bay ln tha! firs! emalt. The challenge,

So inslead,

ber. anal HBREis

of dccepting her because she rs famous, so r neeat !o wrrle a SHORT enaif that has SOUEetetnent' of push-puU/quallfying (without being a totat asshote) . I once I ge! the meet, it'll be easy. But f!ft stunped oll lhe icebleaker emalt. chasing her a''d perhaps just Suggestions?

IUO, ts tha!

itrs

a vely AgC stluaeion,

because now I,m in the postlion

gtyle

{rites

3 With High_profile garg6

gubjects

Eelp [eeded

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the

enBil

r eniled up senaltng her

(thanks

to

all'

{ith

big

credit

to David

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sone of

IMutual passover

Friendl atinner.

seens to think i{oweve!,

{e''I

hlt

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off'

an'l auggestedl geEting nore casuar. ger-together

togeLher migh!

a! her house fo! be a betrer idea'r

r lhought

a ehorrer,

Thls !qay, if

you're

escape !o go i{ax $y dog'r or somethtn'' a complte freak shon' I can Just fa11 na'llv

relallonshlp' fron here' lle could star! an enait I giuesE we have a couple of oPtslonB ' plle6t to inatry ua in a live chat celemony in lova. and naybe even get a

conversatlon for a cup of lea and Eome'stinulaling Then agatn, mayb we coul'l get together tuln ou! to be all !ha! werlL makc planB' And then' if'you mer or Eend me your nunbel, and go fllrd that online prle6t"' lfrienall saye ]|ou arc, $e can

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you are a fleak woul.I be gogil- that \'ay lf psychic' taBc nilrute neeting $ith my caLs'
the fact

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Lhac 6he'6

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meelirg

with

rhe

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salge

that

you guys helped

me our on.

Thanks.

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fl il

gave lhe lreateal house,r

manager there we]l., lhat

9100.

I told

him ro make Eure we were all our drinks with were ion lhe

we got

a cotne!

and that

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Then he could Eplll

whalever money waE left-over

afterwards

the waitress.

My plan

wa fo!

gelbal,

Myslery

and hi6

(gulp)

wife look (l?)

to meeE us lhere, loo long !o get

then get ready,

us back Eo rhe

house for Inslead, on lime, introduced initial

rrhome vldeoE. tr Bu! MyB and the mlssus Eerbal looktng her, and a gay friend quile and did cute. of MyE's wife in her early

so no probten.

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came to rhe bar.

HBpopchlck arri.wed exacrty and is very sftar!. I

the's

3O,Er and looks

fantaslic

an ILID I nane nemorizing,

which wa6 a grea!

l,ay to avoid

an}-way airkri,ard

convo,

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real.iry, felt

and rold retievedr

her it

!ba!

this

waE my first connecling she a6ked,

blind

dare

like

rhi6.

(t,ihich is eir dow!.

She definitely -you weren,t

\das a gieat

momen!. tte then lrenr !o ,,Are you like babysirting

supposed to

FOILOW tJS, LoL.

chen or

a a
I

some!hing?'r)

Did Spells

to start

up the

conversation

lrith the

a slory. ]ying

She started Herbal

to relax. and his

When I did gay buddy, it

a rnini, was ALL sirh

easy mind-reading over. her. but I had hi! One problen

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game, and then played the hook poinl. she ra6 star

game lrith

realty

brighl

and ajOT sluff, inI go! lhe

I lras really social her?' proof ouch!

impressed b/c

cane when a rock at my date

I knew walked

he knew me,

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then he looked

and 6aid,

"Oh, are you inlervie\,ring

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she lras hungry. abanilon lhe rhought place planMYs and the wifev That'e one of ha'tn'! sbown up ve! to {ing flexible us back to the bouse' we dexe comfortabfe !o move around the so I had to now' so I a

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the kevs to this: rt buil'ls

being

a venue change woulat be perfecl nearbY for we1l. the best

so fruch tapporr

i're wenr to which

creserE 1n LA (she has a elreet tooth) accutacv ltas a 9 ou! of lO vltb inLo"

I ilid

cube lhere' old

I do

so fucking Bu! lhey

she said at's

Then Mvs an'I his

ladv came bv' lt

had HerbaL and the look like I

gay friend njuel tan

chem (and Forrihandle) MYs and his bitch'

' which was REAI'LY veird {hen rhe olher

was supposed to v-Eh Ehem, it

bul

lwo guYs were

seemed real]y

cleepv and planned'

Anyway, they

go!

che hint

and went to

tt1e Srandard. ir

EBPopchick

and I met lhem over Eons of rols

there

iI
i!'E

wanteal Mys !o watch our vibe, and Ea! next !o ne on the

and he said

was oN. J

as getLjng

she cane around

coucbes.

l,{e Ealkeal, and got a liltle been three LTRg forever.

kino gotng

she's only b e e n o n O N E d a l e i n h e r 1 i f e . thing

ls new !o her, and t!

Olherwise' !ha!

So the nhole daling

was clear

norhlng poinled

I I I

crazy was going to happen. so I walked her back to her car, !o my cheek for a kiss, and nade a plan for Friday'

had her

drop me off

at hone,

There was no way l was Do! raking

coul.d have gotten sone point

a rnake-out near tne

session or anylhing crazv, end of Ehe night,

IMo Mv onl-v mislake

her hand a!

and SETTINGa which mademe feel a Iiltle

romance/conneclion/BF bela,

frane.

People yelled

o u ! her name a feq lines,

which q'as inleresllng.

As it

is,

r know i!

went \te]1 lor doesn't

HER and for nave obvious

ME

r reallv

dig her'

she's

emart'

comes iron with other

a good family, guys

"baggage"'

and she's not easv and I just ree't !o make A GF PRESUMPTION

seens trustworlhv

so vhen I see her nex!'

and proceed

accordingly. her nv !lr'

Iu*l.lay,

it

wae interesling.

she's

an aweEone cbick,

and I reallv

hope I can Mke

sEyIe wrileg,

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Subjecl: A Note to AIL Sargers

r F
F
F a a

te!,s

make a new ru1e.

D o N O T discuss are sax9in9.

salging

or give

FRs !o orher

pUAs when rhey

are wrTH or in

a group with

a voman lhey

It

leads

to MASSIVE rrMR when rhey jus! be another erory like

see how rhe guys are ratking cnar.

abour girts,

b/c

rhen rhey

rhink

lhey,ll

This has happened to me on ny Thunderca! come to the lable lirrle !o elarr discussing

One nigbr a! rhe srandalil, game when I,m with a girt

crinble

and

wbo is atreaity a

freaked ou! bv rhe fac!

thaE my roomnare teaches Ehis stuff. abour it. weirded her our.

rhen she sees mole quvs wirh

nlcknames coine up and starr

ralking

turcEher nighr,

I,m in beatwith a HB I haven,! stepr wirh ye!. And Myslery comeEup and sEarts

doing a breakdown.

a a
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Everyone is no! aE coof h,1th lhis conneclion wllb us. And i! told will

d6

eEp if

lhey Ehink !hey're she doesn,!

formins i'jusr

a special anothe! binrbo,

l e a d !O LMR s o ! h a !

seem like

as one of rhe girls

ne 1ater.

so, ar lhe VERYr,EAsT, ask game/ or give a breakdolm. I love hearing

if

there's

a girl

around !o give a FR, di6cuss

rhe

b u t n o ! v , h e nI , m i n s e r . . .

e u z z e
-

Styie

wtiteBt Some N6w Lines

gubjectt

Notice

lhat

I haven't field.

p o s t e d m u c h nes marerial Now rhat |n

in m o n l h s . I t ' s is flowing.

because I havenrl h facr/

I

been active impossible !o

!.

enough in

the

back, new stuff

find

it

i
!l

a
E

beliewe Playboy's

that

anyone l'lho i6

in the

fietal

regiulaily

i6 NoT coning

up witb be jusl

nelr naEerial a fen

Look at

shouldn'l !'RB. So POST ruE S T U F F Y o U ' F E U S T N G T h e T e

of us shating.

AMOCS

By lhe !tay, Irve gtartetl

lines using sorne of the AMOG Al'toc line I've

otr girl3

X'm sarging. It's ir

anazing' Ilerera

an exampte lrith ny favorite can't use it

come up with'

I hate givlng

away, because nol]llI

{hea You use lhe female on you guys. Afld somen get che nos! anesome expression

llonen love hln' (a11 Baid compllmentarv For a guy: Check lhiB ltuy ouL: rIe'E so fucktng funny' he's stlL1 a virgin' anal settouEly then pause ancl Bay) woultt you believe She,e Bo snart and !{itty and funny...rqould you belleve

For a girl:

ol'tc, thts

girl

ls anazing'

ahe'6 never hadl a boyfriend.

I{AYPOIM DISTINCTION

rrHowdo single set after the opener' Ilrs since Mystery laught ne LhiE L1ne, I u6e il tn every ou! lf lhe girl you're intereBted ln i B you all kllow each other, I lt's ao llulocent rvay to flnal notice't lhat if you use lhiB line lhe giuy laken or not. Iloctevel, ln naLe_ienale Ev'o-se!s' I INSTANTLYknowglhaLyou'fefishlngtogeelflheylrelogelherornoE.soI'vebeenualng lnslead ellher rHo\trd you guys meettr for n_f tito setB' Iet ne k[o!f'

If

you have a betler

line

- PIJLTNEG-COMPLIMENT PUSH

I
mav eoundl obnoxious ' but lt'

You l{ere fa! Pueh-Pulr neg noc. were you fa! when you ltere in

Style: middle

I have Eo ask. or hrgh school?

And thi6

nB: Yeelnol{hatewer.

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f

slyle: their rhat with:l

The reason personalities are

I/n

asking

is

because girls

who were fat

in grade

school

always had to develop and mannerisms continue but 9ol

to be popular. tcan inser! rhe bes! life, to get girls

And you hawe all 'beauly is

these cutesy little here if

gesrures desired,

e e
i

so original.

comnon' xouline

then school

You knolv !ha! laEer in attitude

!o dare are girls

who were fa!

in grade

altracLive and their

because they had to dewelop Eheir personaliEy friend6 and guys.

and their

sense of humor

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FUN I]ITTIE

NEG IL's so cuEe. toptional carloons. reference if you know it:l then go:i

OMG,your Ehouldera shake lrhen you laugh. You're There il like Muttley from lhe Dascaldly Il's awesome.

and Mullley

[Ehe'11 laugh again,

goes again.

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=

Sty16

wllteg TR:

! Anolher Threesome

gubJect!

so herers

an updale on a lor

of Eluff:

t
3
Firsr, period and most important, was too lough. Af,le! Ty and I lhrev in lhe Eowe] on lhe in sl.eep experiment. naps, The adjustnent keep our a so rnany days of Eleeping 20 minute we couldn'E eyes open and vere sEarEing Eo have rhese strange microsleep 1o! of il, so maybe MyElery will make a WTF episode hallucinalions. we wldeo-laped

or somelhing.

INOTE FRoM STYI,E, 2006.

HERBAL

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I,ATER TRIED TIIE SLEEP EXPERIMENTAGAIN, AND NOWSLEEPS ONI,Y TWOI{OURSA DAY IN SIX TWENTYMINUTE N A P S .]

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speaking of Mystery, her. r am in total

I haven'r

talked

ro him yet,

but he didn't like

ju6t

wing the CB, he lclosed

shock abouE that

one.

sounde nore lhal imporlant

someEhing I would do. And, by rhe way,

dude (and I'll

say it

here because i!'s fine

!o me): ALWAYSusE a coNDoM THE wHoLE even.)

TIMEI (That 6aid,

the cB is

and disease free,

and has a boyfriend

i !t
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I
And I',ll killer going p o s L a full routinesrl on in lhat after Mo afler they I field ldork jus! situalion. tes! it one note lime l hate vrhen people posls 'rnew were tes! '

oNE !ime,

becauEe vho kno\ts what olher this

variables field

I T I

one isolaled

Ar leas!

is going to be a fun one lo

Finally,

and somewhat imPortantr

is that

it'e TEE REASON

so 'tifficult

to ger girls

Lo do lhings

I I

likethisisttlereareCONsEQuENcEsForthefirstthreesome,itturnsou!!hat'slncelmelmv MLTR through Gabby (lhe nutly girl who Mvsterv was brieflv sleepiDg {ith) ' lhe guys in the house

TonDGabby.whoevertoltlsabby,pleaEeletrneknow'lwillnotbemad'Bu!obwious]yi!,sVERY bad form, qill fintl and bad for your buddy. Girls wiLl only do this stuff s!i11 if lhey lhink it thal no one elEe

ouE. {Tha! saial, I talkeal !o nv MITR and she's

glad she did

and enjoved lhe

As for 9ir1

lhe

second experience, and neilher

I talketl

!o my FB veBEetday

Sheid never

seriously

been wilh enjoved iE'

befole,

hail experlenceal a threeeome before'

They bolh reallv

Ho!'ever,lheoTl{ERgirl!ol.lherBFaboutil.Ihavenoideawha!shewaslhinking,bulregpecl thal will her for being hones! $l!h him. Now all he]]'s breaking loose, so I doub! with !hem. Antl I doubr ny FB will toI. brj.ng any of her female fliends lo the Projecr

I I I I I

happen again Holl] vood

mansion again,

Style

wrltE: LR: ThleeEome Attellpt (wl'th feealback)

Sublect:

This

rnay prove

to be an intetesling I got logic. an enait

FR, becauEe I was lraweling from lhe girl

the

olher

day and bried while

for

lhreesone.

Afterward, chick

who backed out,

rationalizing

she did'

A good peek inlo

anlray, al]

l was lraweting befole: lhe

and I inviteil one in the succees

three

diffetent black

FBs to the hair,

partv

You'we seen pics lhe b]ack-haired

here of gir] who

of lhen

T-ounge with

EBBigEyes; v/ith braces

t as my first

conmunity

(HBFirst);

and lhe

blonde

(HBBraces)

Then I invited

oneqitlvholha.Inevernet,bubhadbeencorlespon.lingwithviaemailon]ine(HBPersian).And

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then HBPersian brought EBFriend with thaL nigh! and saw it all uniold.

a fanrasric,

sparkling

personaliry.

sickboy was wirh me

a
:I

The party ihe

was pretty I liked

crazy.

I was alt

ower the ptace ratking

!o peopte.

Bur my plan was to Lake !o bring rhem back

lwo glrls

the mos! and thoughr

woutd be mosr responsive,

and rry

to the place

I was sraying.

Atong rhe way, r mer Tera palrick tells

and her husband, and #ctoseal rhem

ir
=l

to hang in LA. Her husband, who was in Biohazard, sounded similar to Myslery'8,

ne he,s ihe bes! pUA ewer. His Mo his brain and pos! i! here.

60 when r see him, I,n lhis pUA lhing,

going to pick exptain

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I'm a! a whole new lewe] with

which r,11

in aroLner posE.

Anyway, so I got my group togerher, have ANY of lhe girrs. sas so fucking told too, powerful.

and we wen! ro a horet r!

lounge. Ar rhis

poinr, proof for

I knew r coutd of lhe nighE once. sickboy

A11 I needed !o do was pick. They AL! v,anred me/ and ir were gerring along wetl,

was crazy:

the sociat

z
a

was fun !o have the oplion

me HBBraces and HEFirs! I chose them !o work.

and since lhey wexe the mos! aErraclive

z a e
T

Firs!,

I went with

HBFirst

ourside in like

60 she could smoke. We made our prerry lvro years. she has an amazing thin, kissed a guy in tigh!

insranrty,

ewen rhough from lhe

pe hadnrl

seen each orher

body (scorr

Lounge,s L}?e).

And afterward,

she said she hadn'r

Like rhree monlhs. !,rhar a

z
I

Afteruard,

we exited

to a diwe bar.

r made ou! wilh

HBBraces rhere.

r atso venr into

rhe

b a t h r o o r T rw i l h pith,

HBPersian, and we made ou!.

HBFriend mer an Asian guy she was qoing ro 90 home for a shor with me. So r goL in a cab lhen Firsr. her in ro r rhough!

bul passed ic HBFirs!

up !o go back to r,,here r qas sraying

a z z z
a
I

uilh,rUsT I iurned me. Then,

and HBBraces. This was my isotarion. ratking/ someLhing,

r go! in firBr,

rhen Braces,

to face lhem and, as we laughed abour

pur ny arm6 around HBBraces and pu]Ied EBFirEr inro her. Even rhough

HBBraces pulled

HBBraces wa6 prude

and ItBFirs!

was advenrurous,

HBBr:aces seemed !o know what was uD.

HBFirs!

telar<ed into girls.

HBBrace's arms, lhen euddenly jumped up and sald. tike guys.,' r s ama?ing hov chicks pick

',Jus! so you guys know, r sruff. r acEed

don'b like

I only

up on rhis

a
t

z
!r

unconcerneal, and figuled what happens when we ge!

we']1 hone.

just

freeze

he! out a little,

let' her think

about il,

and see

Back at my place, Eventually, our,

we hung out. and her some point

Everyone 1eft,

was on separale disappointed.

couches and chairs The real could bumner is

watching that thev them

Tv' had made Bu! I our a way

Persian a!

Friend

as a johe,

in the

night, liked

so I probablv their

have been with

*anred the other !o isolate Ehem inro inpending myself

gixls, wilh

and 1really Firsl

personalilies.

Now r needed !o figure

anal Braces. So I said, scar uptlght

rwanna see something cool girls's a scar face.

" And I pulled sign oi it vou on

ny room,

anat naale a prosthellc ABFirEt lta too

on one of the lo let

(anolher face,

doom vaE lhac

me pul

on het

eo I did

EBBrace's inslead.) learn

I learned hotd to do Prostheric sarge.

scarE on lhe

ee! of a movie. any skill.

comes in handy in the

l
!o feel lhe vibe. I knew I didn't I jus! even need a

I,{e were all

on lhe bed nov. and r was slarliog

dual induclion !hings.

massage, because ttral \tould bave made it

too obvious.

needed lo start

But suddenLy HBFlrs! ou! lhe fronE door.

slood up and said, I chased afler her'

' r I have to go." In lhe hall., i!?'r

And Bhe rockeled 'I'm

lhrough

lbe

room and

Bhe Eaid,

nol having a Ehreesorne{tiEh I!'s

you. Tha!'s lare. I,d

what yorl guys want, her to

isnrt

I said, no. Don'l worry. Le! e Jus! go !o sleep Elc.

hale for

leave like

lhis

sosheconesback.Nowl'minbed.HBBlacesisonmylefl,vlthherbacktome.I{BFirslisonmy righl,sirhherback!one.I'mlyingintheniddlethiDking,v,tf?Hotdolworktbis?SoIturn llBBracesover,sosbe'sregtingonmyEhoulderandfacingne.ThenlturngBFirs!owelsoshels restingonnyshoultleranatfaciDgme.ThenlstarEmakingou!l'tilhHBFirst,figuringsheneeds the altention first.

Bu!gud.Ienlyl'BBracegstan.tsupan.tleaveslheroom.Fuck!solmakeoutwithHBFirslalitt]e nore, tben te! her go to sleeP. IErs like 4:30 am at this point. I go outside, and see HBBraces

steepinginanarmchair.shesai.t6hefeltbadfolEBFirstanddidn,tknowif6he$agwanted,so

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she left out,

the

room.

I lell

her that

it's

E E R I w a n ! / not

the

other

girl

then go !o the batrhroom and hawe uncomfortable

sex on the linoleum

a a
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After,

I bring

her back !o lhe away. she'6

room and v,e all

steep I've

logether bloi,n

in peace. mysetf

rhe norning, her.

HBFirsr

leawes righ! tnorning with

wery huffy, cool.

and I figure

out sith

r spend Lhe

EBBxaces, and iE's

a
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f,

In retrospec!, should

I give my6e1f points HBBraces up trith her i! looks

fo!

rrying

and pusbing it. olher girts.

My only misrake $as Eetection. seriousty personaticy would have done

have palred

one of the are just

HBFriend

anyEhing. been fun. being ll'ith

And even though The fact anolher i6, girl

okay,

Ehe had a rocking you can,t a rarger:

and woutd have

until

cornes doun to lr, I!,s like choosing are,

alirays telt yor.r real1y

wbo's going to be up for CAN'T te]l !rha! lheir act, unEil i!

a
I

or not.

ae:(].ral preferences comes down !o lhe

and nolaLs

and rules

no natter

wha! they

say or hov lbey

momen! o! ttulh.

u a
I

Anyway, a fun experimen! . . . and lhe funny thing have even thoughr oi ttylng

is rhe pUA mentatity it again...

I have no\,,. I never woutd

lbis before. and I WIIJIJ lry

T
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StyTe wtlteg t Subject: TR: Ulxlng and ldatchlng FBE

a a a e e e
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For lhe pasc week, I've

been thinking

about a nelr MO. The orher

day, r decided !o try

i!.

TEE FIRST GIRL ARRIVES I invited ower nBlibrarian, a really thinr cule FB rho gives amazing deep rhroar.

She came ower, !o get hot, she asked,

and lre t,'ent up to ny room and fooled her, rI,m going to call

around vith

our

c1olhes for us."

on.

when she starred

I told

ower a 1itt1e

ptaFhing

'You think

6o?n

a
!t

I told

her,

'Eer name'e EBTats. You'11 like he6ilant, her, so I !o1d hex, we']l

her'rr 't,ie donrt hawe to alo this. werll inwite her ower, aDd

she was a little if you don't like

no worries. gir1,

have her teawe' she worked at U r b a n O u t f i t t e r s . were mv the you' only reason 1 was with lhiE gitl in the

She askeil how t knew lhe Laler, Ehe said,

and 1 eaid

i'The only girls ear, "Let

I'we been with

l whispereat tirst place

in her is that

me Eel]

vou sonelhing: for

I thoughE she'd be perfect

she's very open and sexual,

and has

amazing latlooeE. r' ThefacEis,IwaBworrieil,becausetheotherHBigreallyyoungandhasgrealskin,buEhas some baby fa! Anway, she said ,,I juEl chunk going on. anal called EBTats 0where are you?" I aEked'

r wen! !o lhe

batbroon

she vas nearbv want !o ]e!

and coming ovet. rlhat r have Eomeone over hele soon.rr Atld hung up. fo! us lo plav trnor is wilh'l

yor.1 kno!'t, r' I tol.d her, so I addeal, caseE.

she didn,t agreeing in

say anyrhing,

Not eaying

lheBe asD lype

THE SECONDGIRL ARRIVES I,ihen HBTars came upBlailE rune reading. I broughc r and gave them a rune reaillng lhe bouse, anil I was worrieit and did Ryans and NaturalLJ and all all' the nale enelgv these it otber up' !o ny room, I said, "Hey, I waE jus! on mv way !o give HBlibrarian a

rhem downslairs, a1l' over

guys were running But I ignored ir,

would fuck

nade lhem gin like

and lonice,

a grear

rune readinq

l kepl

accidenlally

naking double enlendres, This wasnrr game: i! Afterwalals, I eaid,

lelling

lIBTats, trIr11 'lo vou too" though' left lhem alone

(in reference

Lo lhe runee)

waE kiDd of funnv, nlrlt be ngllt

back r I

for: a godd fiwe

minutes

to qet

when I reLutned, was at Me1's ltilh

I !o1d rhen, courlney

r'HeY, I gor paparazzird.

You golla

check it

out lrll

"

(It's post

true: the link

I at

Love and we got

descenited on by photograPhers

TtlE FUN BEGINS

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I brought them lhe

them up to ny roonr phoroE. rhen a coupte

vhere videos

a cD vas atreaaly on ny computer. silring far

playing

and rhe tighrs the only

eere

tow.

r sholred in my

My beal is

ptace

to Eir

room, so they I could feet

were boEh on lhe the energy srarL

bed bur !o bui1d.

aparE. just naEuralty said, rurned irt is !o lhe ropic of So r

The conwersaEion

sex. At one poinr, could lell lhey

HBtibrarian

F
F F F F F F F F F lr
ir

slapped my ass anat lhe orher girl wa.led me !o srar! rhinqs.

a nice aEs.,

were ready,

and jus!

so the onlv obsEacle lefr up lhe hookah and shared

v,as srarEing the sfroke.

lhinge:

so iDstead of lhe dual inducrion

massage, r lir NOT

INoTE FRoM sTyLE, 2006:

T1{1S ItAIr RrcuLAR TOBACCOIN IT,

DRUCS, FYI] As soon ae I nade a move for Then I made out wirh off rhe bed and look one of glrt. rhe girts, everylhing happereil so fasE. r made out with her.

rhe olher off

Then rhey borh slarted excep! her panlies.

making our passlonarety. r removed liBrribrarian,s

HBTars go! shlrt anai

aLL her crolhes

thev were so into fire. It waE total

each olher porn shi!.

i!

wa. ridicutous.

r!

was as if

elecrrrcrly

haar se! lhe room on

There were rv,o lhings discussed tn his slrllng Afler

I wanted !o rryt

The firsr

was lhe ltke lhing rhing i!.

famous Triangl_e poEilion,Jtaix The probtem iE lhaE when a girt

has is ne. said Ehe

FRE. I,e! me retl vou can'! Ehem both,

your I alidn,! see. The grea! I dia! the other

on your tace, I had sex wirh

abou! a threesonre is rhe vrsual,

for

I atways sanlear ro do. HBlibrarian r gently

u a
I

sbe wanted rne !o other

cum in he! mouth. v,as grear: firs!

So ehe !ren! dov,n on me, lhen ooe was jacking me off

pushed Nhe head of

one down. I! lurnE.

rrhite lhe orher

sucked nre, lhen rhey

were lakins

I came in EBlibraria.,s girl ower it.

moulh (r know, graphic),

rhen mid_srream she pu. rhe her) juer spir my \dad I can,r

head of the olher inlo

when r vas done, HBlibrarian Anat they slarced betiewe !m

a e z

(god bless

lhe mourh of Ehe orher girt. this

naking ouE in my mess paseionalety. sharing i!.

beliewe

happened ro ne...andr can,!

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THE FIJN CONTINUES But the fun lrasn't over. we fooled arounat a lirEre more, wenr domsrair. and qor sone drinke turking rhe house dudes. and

watched the begidring around: knowing Tolaf cB shir,

of Napoteon Dtmanice because Sone rules r didn'! nust

on my compurer.

Some of my roommaEeE kep! by guys in wirh

a a
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!ran! Ehem !o be nade unconfortable esp in proEo no!, that i

wha! was up.

be ser,

s cra{ting

There are times times Ant'{ay, thei! for the

for

guys to be axound bo have privacv Jacuzzi

(to make lhe

house seen like

a fun par:!v)

and there of

are '

girls

jn the {!o keep away ASD antl keeP lhem in' and lhe girls went to wof,k

bubble I kep! half

intimacv)

I warmeat up lhe heads awav fron

and we got

trying

!o lurn

Papa's

bathroon'

because Thomas Crown (an'I probablv out' orobabl/ lakjn9 picE'

a dozen otner

guye) uae sP/rng on me k-i!h the lighls

Ialsospie.IGeoff,sHBflont}isliwe-rninutes.to]ayreportlookingatusflomthekitcben,gol I'You'!e {elcome !o join us' if you'd 1ike " I figured wen! do!\,nstairs, anit said, get something ctazy gotng on {ith lells i.t. they the girls' up the staira !o join us' bu!

mavbe we could

l{oll'ever,

as Geoft

were watking

she chickened

out

\,{hengheheardmylwoEBsmoaningreallyloudly.Theyqeregoingclazy:fingeringeachorberup and giving me double head on the side of lhe jacuzzi' the ass, eallng each other ouE on the side ThoftaB Crown walching ny Lily(but I couLdn'! ger hard enough with lhe image of of the jacuzzi whire nakeil asB f,lom Papa's tols of fun positlonB balhroom' exploted lol) ' jacuzzl l even figured out how !o use a condom

AnF,ay,

in lhe

The nex! lhreesone. aga1n.

day,

I made Bure E o c a l . I o r r e x ! wanled to make Bure lhey

each girl, know they

and jus!

la1k

I didnit

menlron lne could happen

Jus!

were in my good books so i!

I guess lhere perverls.

are not a loL of lacllcs chreesorne post

and lechniques ior lhe Mo for

in rhis TR. r!'s

slrictlY

for lhe

see ny other

repear expe!iences

Style

wtiEeq t ltixtng and matcbtng

may make more senee logica1lv' have alolher threesome sirh tvo

Subjecg:

Hnm. A11 interesting this is WORKINGfor sec up to*

coftrnents

BuE' filsl'

though

eome of this

me, so I'm not' Soing satlrday aidhr'

to change it'

I alreaaly

new gir]6

aE for

getting

not,

ae sensei anal Nightbtue a little

sav, r think

it's

betler

tha! that

we're

all

COMPLICIT. I lhink

maybe I Ehould explain

nore: I hawe the FRAME!ha!

is nornal

Itrs

somethirg

I do aII

the tine.

It's

like like

saying, i!

trI'n in rhe nood for is not' inertioned

Mexicd unt.it ire ea! ir.

horr caEuar it

is proposed,

and then.

a meal,

again

{n]loa ! Good metaphor. )

I thi.nk if resistance

you JuEt asume aucceaE and Bet it to deal vith, e8pecially lf lt

up, ar Eofte poinr, you,re beilg

sith

some gtr1e,

you may bave

seems ttke

sneaky.

Also,

geneei, irhen I scteen for biEexuallry, you'le talklng

lt

ie SEPAIATEfrom lhe lime uhen r ptan it. it,s JuB! going !o become clea! you just

In lhat and

othe! uords, lf Ehe,e either

leith a FB, at some poht, or tB culious.

had an experlence with a glll later, make tt

make a rneatat nole of it, line.

lhen at aome polnt

happen $lthou!

dj.scuBslon other than the trp1aylhingi

gtyL.

wtlte't Ul:rlnE rld [atcbLng

Subjcl3

will

read your TR tonlgh!.

Psyched. I don,! have lntefiet

coffrection

where I'n thelr

at' right

now,

Irm clouching

outaiale soneore'B blalg in the cold.

Holr paLhetic.

gtealing

bandiridth.

llnyway, if

a roullde

goes nrong, one of lrrro probfema haa happcneal I

1. You inade a[ error

ln ch atcp BEEoRB the loutire,

whlch ls usually

the case.

2. You ditlntt

deliver

its wilh

confldedce and congruence, ot an under8tanding

of

it.

tbi6

case, I'n

betllng

It yer.

wa6 one: ellher

you berrayeat your inlention

ahead of

!ime,

or 6he

just

wasr' r comforlable

A tlp: really

The frame cool

is

that

it's be into youtu

a lun il

ching I!'s

you .JuST experienced a quescion' It'e

an't are exciled like saving' "ney'

about'

an'l il's

anal they'dl so cool.

not

check ouE nY net,

shoe6. Thev're

love chen l

geyTe writee, suuectr the Dual rDduetlo! gtrtke aEalu

Ivent!oNlrfo!tha$eken.l,al]'owillgmetlme!ocalchuplfltb6omeFBarl.Idogomesalglng.I me' had a fucklng amazing e:q)ertetrce that Bur?li8ed I happened !o flln lnto a well-hnown nusician I kllovr' white I !'tas ln his ho!t roon' h13 daughler

walkdtn.An.lshewasamokinglto!Afllcanllmerican-.tall,thtnbu!thick,wilhgleat snooth Bkin AB soon aa I aa$ her' ny hearc hlgh ltr her Blteacer an'l pelfectly breastB lifled !o B!a!! a Girlfllend anal I krlew I llacl !o have her' I ran JealouB starteat flultering the lvaB 21' Pe!fec!' converBatlon, and also to fltr'l out her age' her father tel]1ng and norl{ she !'as 6cuck in a holel room with pumplng he! bad guy -- another whiie tnusic fan Eeories Ehe was ltred of. I felt llke I ltas lhe go shopPing l hyped her llp on from fi.tty yealB ago. go I snggBle'l $e all farhe! for rrivia lunch' lthen her fatber vas Llre'l' I goiog to my lavorlte clothing store in NY Atd' after offeril gallantty to take het tlrere to 'llan her out l{hat !*"o!ked the besc wag for each other' and lelling ber

gberal never been Lo !{Y before,

She $as super guleE. cocky/funny

anal shy, attl I kept trying

role-playing

lvhtle Bhopptng' Choosing goofy oulflcs

that6heha.ltoconebacktol,Aanclbenystytistandltdgela$onograffinedbeanbagchairfor I also ma'le sule not to fotlolt her around lhe her (TD 1i4e -- firBt tlme usilrg ie' money) subi{av tide afeerward ilus! so sr}e for ber first 6tore, buts to ato ny own lhlng' r took her .liihtEthinkltlAshittingonher(tooearlyinrhe6a'ge)llhadberhelpnebuyap'esentfo' though' lhere waB liqht kino' ny !TR. She aial she hatt a b!' No needl to BF deslroy' working' ye!. I began to think thaE lhe maEerial wasnrt but no 1016

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Our lasE Etop was a record tisten to it and giwe ir 6tore. I boughL a CD for myself, nexE. gawe it ro her, and rold which I'11 hc! Lo back bo me when she (Great lechnique use in rhe

a a
il

lrhen we parled, extra licket.

I told

her

I \ras going

Eo a concert an FB ld

thar

nighr,

and rrd

call

her

if

r haal an fiwe

Unforlunarely, spending all

r had pronised

see he! rhac day, and was atready HBDaughler r couldn,! like heroin...at1

hours lale Licke!/

after

day wirh HBDaughrer. so r lotd

ge! an exlra my friends say

=t 7

and ven! over t.o rny FB's house. The FB rold slarting into. ro fall

me, ryou,re

!o stay aeay fron you because |m off wlth in a gill you,re just nor rha!

in lowe with you.u wow, is

Lhar ever a rurn_ I imaqided beinq

Shame. Each rime I had sex wirh her,

llBDaughter.

z
T

on ny las! Lhe falher's Aflerward,

nigh!

in Ny, r had plans wilh

like

four girts.

r ner HBBigNosrxits

and took her to

z z
I

concer!. I told

There, FBDaughter ran up !o fty table

anit gave me back ny CD. Nice. She said she and Eook hex ro

her we wele going ro some fun parlies,

and she shouLd Join us. ad hour La!e!

had !o go home and change, and so we picked her up half to an electroclash her bovfriend I look lt for party lhe

a! her horel

a t a f a n c y N e w y o r k h o E e t . o n t h e w a y r i . t B D a u g h E e rs a i i t s h e r a t k e d lifte in a week, and was bored and fer! rike she haar nolhinq

r
a z
il f

first

ro sav.

as an lOL

a!

1 am, I9or

a call Ird

from EBHarlequin,

a perire

btack-hailed way back.

girt

who,s lhe noatel fox tlartequin as

ro'r'ance novels.

hooked up with looking wilh it

her once before, in a riny do drugs, teasr

r had her meet me at lhe horel. rop, she asked if I,d r wanted ro palm iL

soon as she arriwed, sp]lt a! Ecslasy pi1l to lake i!

fanrastic I don'!

leopard-pallern

her.

but r Baid yes and figured pur her in a rouchy-feety

just

and prelend

- because ir into

would at

mood. Bur as she inside.

z
3 3

broke lhe pill, I lhought, spilring

shattered I don,!

dusr and she jusr

opened my mourh anit dumped rhe pilt

,,Oh, fuck.

wanr ro trip!" it_

so r prerended ro lake sips of my dr:ink and kepr r was scared shiltese rhat r,at slarr x,inq ar anv

lhe dust and pilt

powder inro

moment, but fortunarely

r never did.

a a

I dldnr!

have a plan yet with

these girts,

and things

were gerring sith

confusing

because one orher ny number one

FB lras supposed to mee! me Ehere.

r nov, had FoUR options,

F
t

HBDaughrer being

F
l't

priority. more lols

t notice'I I 90!

that

the more girls at a cer:tain

I bad wITs Iner lhe monent that

noie

aitractlon

blossoned

and lhe

I realized

I could

hawe had anv of them' then and

An)4\,ay, we all she dlat rhar afterlratal, you donlt

qent

to another

barr

and eaL dosn togettler' game on nv arm

I did

rlouse race on HBliarlequin' rlo it on HBDaughter' qame (let

-- anotber childhooil fist pdralYze their I shoq'ed tbem rroi'r !o group kino' involved 411 of bhis' of course' l<now it) giving

childhood

'rroee gardenn

Then I had her

ne know if

Then HBnarlequin, where che nigh!

btees migh!

ber

bearc,

srarred

anil I flBDaughcer a massaqe, a lurning point'

srarled

Eo realize

head

rtle group kino

was rea1lv

Every now and lhen, didn'! wan! to scare

nBHarlequin

leaned

io and made ou! t^'ho waB very

wilh

!ie'

vhich

I didn'l

like

because

a{ay EBDaugnter'

shy and innocenc

and wide-eyed'

As the

nlghl

wen! on'

tbe otner foit'

girls

lett'

and just lhen

HB'arlequin they

and flBDaughler hail snall"

and I were IefE' lhere

I \tas Blaying every night

at a friends'

ana r lold ouE'

thar

usualLy

parlies

it and ''e Bhould check

so we gor

I sat on the bed $it!1 there around the corner' couches on q'ere B1eeping tlro oEher guys a ganitwich she had bought' 6aE on a labLe ealidg HBDaugbler and HBEarlequin, nBDaughEer over wilh it fitst fear' ro lhe fulon lo sho the her dual a VmF video induction on my laprop' nassage' I had

ro rhe

lof!,

and of, cou!6e,

everyone

era6 sleeping.

My turon

iB in lhe

corimon room'

and

After

a few ninules' wilh tie

I called

Afleflald, EBHarlequin EBDaugbter'

my beart

poundilg

I Eo1it lhem abou! I got one

dolln to receive

Afcerward'

And'

finalty'

we gave one co

r ferr

rike

we {ere nust doing

being all

a r*rle the like

creepy, time' the

and freaking out

her our. of here is r

r fiqurear

sbe was thinking' really n out' and

I'Tbese tvo predaEory te1l

do lhis lhis'

hot' do I get girl vou're

{Do vou ewer feet to iump up'

'Jlaix'

nassaqing lo

aboui rurned

a1I her

ftientls

abouE lne

two cteePs wbo tried

get her

on?)

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F
-Aryncay, aflerward, sBHarlequin didn,! I starled naking our {irh EBHarlequin a titrle ower rhe back of HBDaughrer. dislant. Anal EBDaughler But: lying know the p]an, so, and was being kissing \ras juEr on her back unconfortable. her Ehirt back on. while the I stopped tiBEartequin, and leE HBDaughrer get up and pur -r So lre she wen! ro rhe bathroom, threesone. She said r asked t{BHartequin whar she though! kne\r sIlE was up for decided !o just she wasn'r sure \rhar HBDaughler \,,as thinking. and if i! wasn,r on, we'd iusr

check out lhe wibe when she retumed,

steeD wirh

At thi6 the big

poinE, guns,

I was rea1ly and getling figured tbls

feeling

like

a lorat

faiture

wirh HBDaughter afler and saE uncomforlably

putting on lhe

ouE a}t 6iite of

nowhere wirh was an IOD.

her.

ghe relurned

r F
F
EI

Lhe bed. so I

rrl,lell, you should ge! some 6Leep before your plane lonorrow/ r cotd her, ',so le|s "

get you a

z
I

she lay down on the bed, hugged me, and said,

nThanks.n

r
il 3 I I I

As soon as ehe gave me that

tillle

hug, r jusr

X N E Wi r

vae on. She WANTED i!

!o happen. Fuckl

So I began ro kiss and starled

her,

and 6he respondeat. her.

lBHartequin

was tying !op,

behind

u,

so I pulteal

he!

over

making out lrith

Then we reftoved

HBDaughle!'s

and each look

a breas!.

Anylray, iook

throughour five

lhe

whole lhing, to find it.

lhere

was absotuEety

no LMR from any of

rhem. Ewen $hen ir lhey'd tose

me like

ninuEes

a condom (which

sucked because I l^'as vorr:ied and we pretry

Btate),

lhey vere Etill

up for

I had sex wirh rhem borh,

much aliat ewerything. tike thie before.

a a a a
ir

HBDa'rghter was near-perfect

naked. I had do idea wherher she,d done anvrhinq

These days,

q'hen I have lhreesomes,

r nake sure

r don'r

come litt

rhe very,

wery end.

r van!

!o

make sure I,m up Eo enjoy it

ALL, because r noEice rhe girls

N E V E Rs e e n r o g e t r i r e d . . )

a a
il

r|

lilyslery, Briu lhal

when he has 6ex ltith nt,{ha! the fuck?

great r car't

vonen' believe

Ehinks ' I'I de6erve this is bappening

thie

" Me' r

lhe stlll

other

band,

think, this

Eo meli

b1o!m awaY

is mY lifeslyle

nov'

to have rea11y enjoyed to her hoteL room in a cab. she seerneal back lBDaughte! took we afternaral, tor 6he reLurned home to t'he South Eo thar* ne the expetience. She calLe'l ne $hn ' of these girl6 IILTR 6ee he! again' I itt1l be naking both aroudit lW. I thtnl I'lt

I hear! litY. . .

gEYI. wtlLaa. gubjectt An Er.Y litbod for Eff,.cel've c/F PuEh-Pull

I've

slarted

at any Elage' aloing th16. florks great !01th any wonan

1, Say sonething loea]ly

AlC

with a PUA njndse!' 2. Try to recover from Ehe coflnent 3. Repeat you en'l up l0ith a really hilarious slring of pusb-0u11

If you do lhiB

like

three tineB,

x aliscovereal tlds tolal rne, her faiher

'Iaugbter ' (Bv lhe vtay' 6he rhell I $as ln be'l with the rnusiciatr's wTF?) askeal her: iare you black-lopping slyle?"
been saying lacelv' So' instead' tor

I canrt

remenber woral f,ol itot'l a po6gible to take

aJIy of the of

shit

I've

exarnpl-e, hete'B 1. I ltould love

Eerle6

gtatements: (AFC) ne up aE eight in a nice car that vroD'! enlcarraEg

you out

co dtnner

2. BuE you're me.

going

to bave to pav ad'I Pick

(PgA recovery) 60 mean" '

gB: Yourre

F F F F
F
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3. I'm sorry,

You knoe |m il

just

kidding-

{AFC) makes lhe hair on your arms sland up.

4. But you like

s o n u c h w h e n I ' m m e a n . I c a n see how it

Don't

know if

this

is the bes! example. Bu! lry

speaking wirh

if

you ever
i nci:ri

caLch

Youiself

making an A r c s L a L e m e n L , t r y

!o recover the fratre as a PUA, and i!'s

.^-Lv-

funny push-pu1I.

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Sty76 wtlEeg: TR! Tri6d fo! a Flvesom, but End6d Up !d.th a Thredome Su.bject:

PREAMBI,E 1. There areni! happen. 2. Afrer over lilrle reading Badboy' s parody of myself, details afEer every Eeduction. abou! lhis is tha! I reatize rt how neurotic in ils I am, consrantly o$,n speciat lrying dwetling going to be a 1o! of raclics here, because i! was rhe gtrts who realty made i!

a
il

ir
I T I I I

was eye-opening

way. ro figule out r,m

3. The funny lhlng

I'm home from a lhreesone,

and 6!i.tt in it.

whar I did wrong becauEe lhere happy--ecatatic looking even--bur Earge,

could have been u{o more chick6 pelfect

Don,r ger ne qrong, how r ger berre!: i!

I lrant to be playing add figuring ou!

game a1way6. Tha!'s

ar ny lasr

whar r would hawe needed Eo do ro take

one slep

THE MAIN INS]GHT All you need !o have all the threesomes, girl who isn'! a bed foursomes, afraid and orgies of your lritdeer drean is.

r z z
a
t ir

A. One adventurous bisexual B. A comforlable private

ro be sexuatty

predalory.

roon wilh

THE CRAZINESS one of going the reasons I vent up !o San Fran this {eekend wa6 because a good friend said she wa6 hatf

to hook me up wiEh her girtfriend

lqho gives

amazing deep rhroar

and has alone kegels

a
tl

lr

tler life.

to hook uP 1dilh rt lras lotal slranger r 1{as suppose'l this by uP picked ltas gan Fr.an airport an'l kjck-ass car and huge cleawage' o1'Ier blonile woman' l}iLh a slighlly hoL' a itas very 6tratge. She a cily boy an'I am never axound which kicke'I ass because I'm trasb-y' lthlEe li.tEle a Anit she 1das girls like t.hat ' is goo'l: t charrn her' we wj'l1 9o up co a! Ehe ltrs iue! undererood tha! an'l exceeil he! expectallonB her ne tlo' ar1't sbe lives uP Eo ny hotel loom and have sex'

{wetll

call

her ItB BiI ) Mv frien'I

actuallv

lives

in anothet citv'

so' I arrive'I

at the

any{ay, all

enat of the night, bi111ng

rrl lhe I to brlng alons a giruriend for night t-tdo' she's going trrat says 6he 60 sh's biseroal, t:::"::::t" bave also t"u" nt-:-:t " nish! Lef! itl san F!an' I onlv nv it's 6ince neantime, I me renedber wlll ltthn who was Ehele way back ' }nyone \{orkshop girl I net 'luring MysEety's five gllys cro{ited around and I style'6 Ev on her as like doing vtaE r lranlan' sarging the amazing all these guys hovered 'ltdnrt get unconf,orlable as she becauae tnpreBse'l' I waB listeneil.

around. The tlanian ltB ha'l enailed * *til""' preparect' ha'l I and lour6olne' a 1" Myplan was to go for lhal l emalled her back' and Baid
Tantra Rumi (the poet) and one on saicl she boughl a book on be fun ro al1 thle' an'l navbe iE would teacher a lantra with up by coinclttence r rvas $eetl4g go along wilh rr and talk pran, andl she sarar she'cr the BJ ltB tor.ar r have dinner rogethef. lhen

I I
I | !

ianlra.
HB Neurolic lrm not lhar

I
I

her frlentt' ac ny room on night lvo wtth so, an)'way, HB B'J slto\ts uD I the most neulotic *-t" of one a16o i6 Neurotic : l" :::: ::::"::" lo I excite.l, but nhacever' 1lB BJ tetls ne 6he's been lrying lIB ' none her give x of courEe' live6 oit Ehe pity of otherE' I co boqf to go fo! ir. r'we rord lhem night. the Eonight,B anar years, get FB Neuroric into beal ror ttl r er*n crazy group (probabry like "rtrr preurv a nake we 60 peacock, anat |in alressed up Loo, gTostiluEes, lol) l I {arn HB lranian that inv frien'IE are goi'g to be a lilt'le differFnt than the people *t ' *f

Last Tangoin Paris ie -* converiently' where' place a aE 'lirrner go to to. we

-"t"cled

""1

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F
F ir
a a a
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movie screen. I stay the cenler of attenrion ar firEr by just doing rourines--spetts, ana! a wery LITTLE but powerful Lhat all lease of magic. Afler I do rhe magic, HB BJ comes up with 'rf he can send his if a n A w E s o M Et i n e inagine you l,4UsT W I N G Ss h o u l d u s e . s h e r e t t s parts afler EB lranian, energy ro objecrer reading this, wha! he can do wilh have ivingE say this of your body.,'Awesome, huh? Mysrery, you do strav mowingt you're

Evenrually, with

HB Neurolic

takes

over

ihe

conversarion,

and ir

ie

jusr

exhausEing

rrying

to keep up

her neuroEes. I aclua]ly

ge! a headache, and just

wanr !o go hone and forge!

the foursome.

so, afler

dinner, r lel]

rhen rhar r'11 mee! rhem back at rhe horel bar, and go in the car wirh

a
=t
=

HB Tranian. I figure maybe r'11 jus! spend lhe nigh! v,irh her. The lwo HBs erop by a friend of theirs house, and gB Iranian and I go to a parly she knows abour. -t's all

elrange, because ir

a a
I iI

seems like HB Iranian regards me as a guru of some sor!. a nod-rnagic ESP routire; i! or noE; I will in it

She quizzes me non-magic

nighr abou! lantra and ESP. (I

we do a real/

EsP experimenE, wheEhe!you believe

post iE here 6oon.)

A6 we,re lalking, because I atleady a]t lhe

I can jus! feel llke

sense tha!

i!,s

on. Tatking lhe dinner

now jusr

Eeens tike

a v,asre of time, and

she's hor fron

a z a
I

convo. Our ]egs are ower each olhers, is none of the

IOIS ale there.

I go in for It,s

lhe kiss, ju6! polite

and she kiEses back, bu! lhere responding. I figure

paesion rha!

should be lhere.

maybe she jusr

doeen,c ]ike (raiEed

PDA, so we go ro the car. myself though! TOO high)

llowever, I ge! Ehe 6ane response. Either wirh rhe olher fel! girts this

she sees me as a guru (and she

or she lras uncomforlable

Ehe mer at dinner aftracrion,

lhey vere my sex partners).

I'we never before

and noE hait ir

tead

F
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lo an intense

make-out se6sioD, a! lhe very leas!.

Anyway, she drops upsrairs.

ne off

at my hotel,

and I donrr

really

lry

hard enough ro have her come

Maybe I could hawe.

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abou! rive

ir lr I

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kno$ lrhac the p}an is,

buL figure

room, and they they have one. {e 90 into the

h a v e G q B . H B B i r a n t l g B D r e a . t s n a v e g o l n e , b u ! g B N e u r o t i c a n d I . I e c } i n e . T h e n t hplaying e y a l l s E dress alt up is (BTw' rrve founit lhaE bags' overnlght othet's each of out clothe6 on trylng noo'l') to set a fun' ractile Dack at your place vtith glt16' youlre once alo to great lhing a up once bef,ore' 8o ar1 of, a eud'Ien' EB BiI anal l{B DleaalB have hooke't the be'l next !o ghen and \tagch DleaalB otl tlre beal' I JuBt tle on EB BJ is eallng out HB

ar1 r'r'1 since thrs rsnrt a .ex newsgroup, any$ay, bfat, avall.ble neares. r nove io, vra the EB Neurolic ls being REALIY inaginable conbo e4auea But every o! sesslon on fu1I a Bay iB tbat bul HB Neurotlc keeps saylng hel aIId inviglng her lo Join us' on hlttillg keeps BiI HB annoylng. Bhe neeals air and lranEs !o leave' we evenluarly t!1ne and she takes photos. Anway, canera rry give !re! r \rBefur, To rnake her feel HB Neurotic goB in !o talking an'l asoyj ng us Eventually' keeps Bhe becauge ItB NUrotlc ou! bDt HB Neuro!'c decideB to there, anil tlles !o get i! on, Ehe bathroon. tlB Bir follo\,ls her ln chill out alone ln Ehe bath' 'lecl'leB Lo pull a irLaix/Turnces I have a feelinE that lhere ia a

This is !,hen vour boy style

P A R T o f H B N e u r o t i c t h a t D o E S w a n ! t o J o i n . b u t w a n t s t o b e w l E h a m a n a n . l n o E a g o n a n . sa o lEoweL bathroon witlt lhe lnto valk anil !0h11e' a be'I for leave the tno gi!]s alone on lhe Then I just take off the ba!b' an'l talk to HB Neurotic of sicte lhe on sit' I me. nrappetl alound believe I'm {riLtng all thi6: en'l of EIle bath' (Fuck' I canr! other lhe into slip anat tbe !o\rel, on thiB') r aritkr'r even pl-an to wfiEe a rJR

But 1leach be!'/''een Then x suck her breast a tlttle legs' and arms hel x maEsage we Lalk, alal I have turne'I her or more before t shotid away' puLls it an'I her legB, antl she caEcheB ttry band gfrls ou! ilf I okay' no Problen' r've got lwo agaio' ucomtorLable Brlers leaching right fo! it' so to think about ithat shels m_i6sinq the ot'be! toon, so I leave lrer lnere l

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my ear off.

since she says she's

an insomiac,

r have her make me tea and iron

h It's

the morning, funny,

while

HB B.t and HB Neuroric

are

in

rhe balhroom,

sB Dreads and r have sex agaiD. we shouldn'r insigh! inlo be doing lhis menage

because when I slart relationship,

to moan, HB Dreads shushes ne, as if rechnically HB BJ's man. hreresling

since

I am, in this

a
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AIso,

in

lhe morning,

I an gelring

rOIs

from HB Neurotic.

she rubs my hanits and keepE saying

ho$

So, I check our of the ho!e1 wilh lhal eome crazy o tetl

three

girls

in !ow, and t!'s me ro lhe

clear airporr.

!o ewelyone in the tobby Ae they do, I ask HB ir in an is

eacapades have occurred. me !.'hat she waE thinktng

They dlive tas! nighr.

Neurolic envelope,

She wrires kisses.

ne a nole

and seate

\rhich Bhe proceeds to cover wirh

ltpsli.ck

r open ir

on rhe ptane,

and rhis

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'!I wa6 gelring rhinking mixed 6ignals. Firsr was inlereered in having sex wirh all. Bur rhen you were I needed some hetpl me nex! a turn week on of gewing to know me. Ya know 6ex. Bur rhan r read rhat you fet! INOTE FROMSTYI,E: NOT AT AtL, I REFUSEDTO pLAy INTO HER NEEDY FRAME,I you can catt was a retaxing, sexual feeting,

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#+#-+##+ or email ne. You turned me on, wery much. ft lhat I never felr. I would of really liked

!o e)Aerience

being wirh youl you diat.

r wan! to rhank you for suck

making me feel

the way you did,

and you didn,r

even know rhar

r sure vaDteal !o

e
3
ET

lltr6

inleresting, lhe

because thiE

pelson she's vriring

!o is

rhe Dew me lhat's he,s

emersed in rhe ]aer a 9. The guy sho evelyone. l

few weeks, can lean

guy on the pumped-up Dconslruk! ewen ftuff,

work-our worry

who now betieves abou! rrying

be back and be coo1,

and no!

ro inpress

ir

a a

F E

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Ieally

kno\' lgbat Ehe p].an ig,

but figure

lhey lrave one. lce go lnto

t'he roont aE.I they

Then thev aI1 sEalL and I decline have GHB. HB E,f, antl IIB Dleaals have sone, bu! HB Neurotlc I've found chat playing dress up 16 trying on ctothes out of each other's overnlght bagB {81'W' nood') place $ith girler to set a f,un' tactile a great chj.ng to ato once vou re Dack at your

HBB.'an.lHBDleadsbavehookeduponcebefore.soallofaeudden,qBB,'iBeallngoulHB and r"atch' Dreaals on lhe bed. I jusl lie on the bed nexE to then breaBt ' Anyx'ay' since lhiE j'e['t a sex newBgroup' all IrlI

I nove in,

via lhe nealest

avallable

say ls ghat a fu1L on seBBj.on of every tnaglnable annoying. llB Bir keeps hltLlng Ehe neeals alr on her an'l lnvillng

combo enaueB But EB Neuroulc l belng REALLY her to join ue' but HB Neurollc keepB saying

and wanls to leave.

To dEke her feel useful,

ve eventually tune I give he! ny canera altt she lakeB pholoB' Anlt{ay' us, Eventually, IIB Neurotic goeB ln !o ou! HB Neurollc because she keps !a1ki4g and annoying it on' but HB Neurotlc decl'leE !o the bathloom. HB B,l folLoNs her ln lhere, anil lrle6 t'o 9e! chill ou! aLone in lhe batlr. a 'Ilaix/Tuilrces ' I have a feeling thal lhere is a

This is v,hen your boy style PARTof ltB Neurotlc

ileciales Lo Pull

I bul vants to be with a man and 4ot a wonan' so {alk inlo Lhe bathroom nllh a tovrel Ieave the tuo girlE alone or! the bed for a !0hi]e' an'I ta]k Eo HB NeuroEic' Th'en I luat lake off rrappeat aroulld ne I sit oI! the B:lde of, thc bath' an'l (zuck' I cantE believe lrm wllcing all this: tbe tovel, anit sllp into lhe other en'I o; lhe bath' !ha! DoEs !{ant to joln, I atialnrl even plar to lrlite a LR on !hls') a little But r reach belween her on nore betore got tr"o girls out in

we talk,

anil r nassage tle! afinE andt legs'

Then r suck he! bleaat it

her 1e98, antl she catcheE ny han't an'l puus reachirg lighr fot it. So 6hers uncomfollable

aitay' I shoulil have luned again' OkaY' no probten'

I've

the oEher toon, so I leave her there to think

aboul !tha! she's mi6sing'

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More shenanigans fo1]ow, himself, talk6 tol. canrl and ewentually EB Neurotic both girls doesn't fall join asleep satisfied. us in bed, but sits (Sry]e, quite proud of and 90 to sleep.) in the windos si]l my shirt, my ear offSince she says she's an insomiac, I have her make me rea and iron

In the norning, Itts since funny,

vhile

EB B.T and IiB NeuroEic

are

in the

bathroom,

EB Dreads and r have sex agaiD. \re shoutdn,r insigh! inlo be doing rhis menage

because vheD I s!ar! relalionship,

to moan, HB Dreads shushes me, as if technically HB B!t's man. Inleresling

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Also,

ln

ihe

morning,

I an gelting

IOls

from HB Neurotic.

She rubs my hands and keepE saying

ho\t

So, I cbeck out of lhe ho!e] lhar aorrre crazy

wilh

lhree

girls

ln t.ol', and it,s ne to lhe

clear airporE.

to everyone in lhe as they do,

lobby

eacapades have occurred.

They drive lasr nigh!.

r aEk HB ir in an is

Neurolic

to !e1.1 me !rha! she was lhinking

She \drlreE re a nole and seals kiBses. I open iE on lhe plane,

envelope, whlch ehe ploceeds !o cover wirh

llpstick

and rhis

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rI lraB gelling nixed signals. First was intereEted ln having sex with I read that aL1. But then you $ere I needed 6ome help! me nexr v,eek a lurn on lhinking of getling lo kno1]' rne. Ya knov sex. Bu! lhan you felE INOTE FRoM sTYl,E: NOT AT A!L. #+*-+*** !ha! or enail felt. I REFUSEDTO PLAY INTO HER NEEDY FIIAME.I You can call t,as a relaxing, being with Eexual feeling, youl ne. You turEed rne on, very much. It I trrould of really liked

I never

to experience

I wanL to thank

you for

making ne feel

the way you did,

and you didn,t

ewen know !ha!

you did.

I sure wanled to suck

[It'E

interesting, lhe

because lhis

person she,s writing Dconslrukt

to i6 the new ne tha!'s who now beliewes about Erying he,s

emerged in the ]ast a 9. The guy who everyone. l

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few weeks,

guy on the punped-up

work-ouE worry

can lean be back and be coot,

even fluff,

and not

to impress

a a
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But, txutb is, mY onlY
here was sometbing and not care." Ross ileffries

l,ist about me: "You hawe to

be very forceful

Thanks for

reading

all

!his...nan,

life

has been crazY 1atelv'

gtyle

wtiEea: a lduglim Country

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SubJcC! IJR IN PROGRESS:SargLng in

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lotally changed my life I lhlnk r was jusr i!'

so the high

ihing

I like

moEt aboul

knowing

the

game is

!ha!

it's

just

school

and college,

when I wen! on vacalion, vacatlon girlfriends

I Dever ever hooked up l don't knol,' r could

serious

and uptight

!o get

never

understand

because !hat'3

when everyone'E Eupposed !o be hooklng up'

Bu! now tha!

r know game, it's

lucking

insane

r'm having

threesones

everyr/vhere r lravel

But

nowllminaMuEtlmcounEry,wnelelhereienoalcohol,noctubs,andrhemarliaqeEare would love Here's the story 1!'B nule and r fucking bave oplions. arrangeit, flom Lounge members wirh expeliences $i!h wonen r.n Muslim counlries'

sone advice

loo

lm

aLso wriEing

rhis

i n case anythlng

bail happen6 to ne or I disappear' shaily and is Eupposedlv

vou guys will wilh

know what

happened. miniscers

she works so!.

for

a guy l/lho's a tillle

friends here'

the prime

s o o o E n e very

6ma11 chance that

I'm breaking

Bome laboo

vou guvs knoq lthar

so lln

here for

tbis

weir.l nagic who's super

convention, and very

It,s fil

a long story. fron

And at firs!,

tly only option eince

1E

a chinese

nagician

cute

hawing been trained

as an acrobat

lheageoflhree.Butshedoesn'tspeaka{ordofEnglishAndlcan'tdoanvmagiconber'like amazing nLagictan a fuckinc do fo! non Englieh sPeakers, because' !te1t' she's I Nould normally anat has seen it all.

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Then T/a a! a preEs conterence ror wrapped up in thinks a sarong or whatewer and bald Lhe magiciars. anctsee a cuce thin they lrear here. slrange she speaks EngIiEh, and unconnon. gir_ in 9td66es atl !o her. she anal Ehe

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60 r ralk

my earrings

head are very I te11 her

I geE her phone nunber, next

says she has exams ttlis

$eek.

she should

F Fr
a
il il

come Eo rhe magic Ehow lhe

nighr.

The next white.

morning,

aE I,m leaving one of

my hotel

!oom,

Ehere,E

rhis

rea11y

cure vonan wrapped up in looking for one of Ehe

atl

She's t{i!h

the magic conference pre!!y, wirh

organizexs,

and they,re

magicians. sized nen i! fashion

She'e really breasts. countryr

long btack hair, ny earrings

6exy lips, and rouches

nor lhe besr reelh, then. Since

and nice

natural this

She 6ay6 she likes I assume it,e an IOI.

women newer louch me she,E a

Iler EngliEh i6n/! and she asks it

very gooat. Bur she tells I,m in fashion roo.

designer

and a magicians assiEtant, me Slyle (1o1).

I !e11 her no,

bu! my frtende figuree she's

call jus! I

LaEer, at the elevalor, which is really

she asks !o touch my head, So I r go tnlo an I\D on name who barely speak

super flirtations, lealn !ha!

rare here.

memorizing, English.

but

z
if

II'DE are way too

compticated

ro explain

to peopte

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Later,

she is

1n the hotel

lobby sellllrg

lickels

larer

!o lhe nagic

show {i!b

eone olherE,

and

every line labLe,

I walk paEE, Bhe gives me serious

eye con!ac!.

So r decide !o 90 down ro the ticket a guy. And lhe guy has just broughr

and ask her !o come eat wllh of 6picy rice dish

me. Fowever, Bhe i6 with s!ree!. r ftnd

back some kind lhe guy is.

from lbe

Eorreone I know, and casuatty

ask who

Ue says it,s

her cousin. lromen.

I figure

noir that

nothing,E

going !o happen, since nen here

I I I I I

are Euper-prot.ective

of the

Bu!...I'n

SlyLe.

I have lo

try

anFray and see wha! happens.

So r rell

lhem I,m hungry,

and rhey

offermeoneoftheboXesofspicyrice.Ile11then, the girl and lhe couEin. l get (Disarrning the oblac]es, and do rhe photo I have for righr?) rouline peopte so qe go !o one of wilh then, jusr rhe magicians, abour vet1. She

rooms and eat. the only

my computer, non-verbal

because it,s rhar

non nagic,

r
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rouline

vho don,t rt/s

speak Engtish slarling dish

i6 6iL!in9

next to rne, and I can jusE feet - lhal, going combined with

rhe sexuat energy. spiciness

to make me and lhe fear rbar rhis

uncomfortable stree! tood is

rbe brutal

of rhe rice

to nake me REALrry sick

larer.

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so aftel we ea!, 1te.L] lhen 1,m going back domstairs. her HlJsarong - thispers ilowewet, vhen the guy 9et6 leady to join In the elewator mv and us, the girl bank, I feel - we']1 calt somethjng to him and he slavs' kino

the lension, it

so I do the cologne oPener on her to star! at me. so 1 stroke but 'ton't, her hair' I've

when she sniffs

hanal, she kisses

and snlles

tacched some loca1 movies' thal a lillle'

I know they always cone close to kissing

so I tease her like

Then I !ef1

her

I need to drop mv computer comfottable. on the

off

in mv roon we hold

she folLows' hands

and I leave

lhe

door the

open to nake sure shers door. wTF?

be't,

Then sHE sets

up and closes

i,le lie

ilo1lln, and 11'emake out

for

a while

Then she savs somelhing she's

abou!

BilI

Clinton

and Monica or just she's too

Lewinsky, which !o!al]y lalking sensilive abouE Anerica. !o louch.

conluses me because I wonder if Every tine all I louch her,

offering

me a blot'job

she shivets

and noves ny hand away like

Bu! she's

over me, and lying lhrougb ny pants

on lop ot me, and ro\rching my baie chest' l 'lon'l push it loo far' because I'm jus!

anil leanlng

her arm against

ny dick

lotallyconfusedanddonl!knowhovlhingsworkhe!e'shekeepswhisperingsomelhlnglike trchula !e, realLv 6ensual1y in my ear' (I laler aBk someone what it mean6' and besl "chol"o" or means thangirlg out, it eilhel can figure her bos6' because he \"i11 be wery making ou!, she 6ays lhat llle can'! tel] anyone, especially upset.ItellherlknowwhaclhemenarelikeinlhissocieEy.Anorhe!funnythingig!ha!lhe she keeps saying lhal Ehe is a qood 9ir1' girl Ehing is uniwersal whole good girr/bad for coning in ny roorn v'i!h mer because she likes ne aqree, antl she's not a bad girl and I

Tharnight,IseeheratEhemagicshotl'.wesilinrhebackrow'whereit'senplv'andhold now and then hands. she puts her hanil on my inner thigh anit squeezes every of the conference organizers 6its next t'o me, anit like puts his

Then'

suddenlv'

one

arm around me

Tolallv

cockb1ocking.Thenheasks,"AreyoumaIxie.l?/Ite11hin, he!?' I tell him char se jus! meE

A]go,thejourna]istI*cloeedsho{supwhi]eI,mlalkingto$Bsarong,andsayghi'Igeta lilt]enervous,andrhejoufnalis!Icantel]isalittlepiseediha!1,nclear]yap]ayel,so she says she has Eo neeE t never see ne- agajr'

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Anylray, ne alone for wilh the rest of the They just night, lotally all these follow Muslin guys are cockblocking and stand ne. They newer leawe can, her. us around, between us shenewer lhey say sone Ehit not worrh it. and invade marriage. ny perEonal space as much as possible. fucking nerous, And every decide, nov, and then fuck it, it/s about Nolr I'm getling and jus!

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Bu!...I'm Style. wariation we']l catl

The next

day,

she,e

Bitting

at the

ticket

!ab1e

again.

I come dolrll and invent

of 80's dog. it

(This I lhink

iE the new ultlnate

llaweling-in-a-strange-country

opener:

the FORETGN CATSOPENER.) I lell her ca! (I figured

them a fr-end

aL home jusE emailed me, and Eaid a Bangladeshi nane/ loday and ask -rells

she wanled !o give if

a dog nighr lhat,

sound degrading)

lhey have any suggestions. her bos6 hae folbidden I sllp

AnFray. af!e!

HBgarong - who/s in aLl black the lable loday.

I I T

me !ha!

her from leaving loon key.

I !e11 he! !o tly

!o come up !o

my room an).ray.

her an exlra

Then, when I leave lhe tlcket Ieave - !o relurn lhen

lable,

I leave my sunglasses lhere, I,m lraitlng, I'11 I,]f I come up wilb reLl

jusr

so she has a prelex!

to

z
I I I I I I I I I

to me. While

a FORCEDMARRIAGEDESTROYER.If

she or anyone Blarls hone. Bu! if lhey self: can't

lalklng

abou! malriage, nun'ber four, becaue ir

lhem I'm Mormon and have rhree lrlves at I figure rhat way,

she \,rants to be wife force rne inlo marriage,

be glad !o marry her. for her

would be degrading

co marry me. (Note to

Whac rhe fuck an I alolng?)

Anway, far

6he comes up.

since

she Baial the

Clinron/Lewinsky

stuff

las! through

rine/

I decide

!o

see how it a

I can push it. I think.

l{e make oul, She kisses it

and I puc her hand on ny dick rhrough the pants. I Etart

my pants.

She calls

"baba," anrray,

!o uDbuckle, bur she stops me. So But she haE Eo go do$ngtairs nagic sholr, and she

I do some bieas!-Eucking he!, I'n

and she does sorne hand-jobbing. like I,m sick

soon. go I tel] should slip

going to preleod

and miss tonigh!,s off

ai!,ay and meel me in the and put it

room. She 6ayE yeE. Then I slip !o renind her.

one of my sEring

bracelets,

around he! v!is!

t rl
il

Suddenly, pump for whar I've

sbe slarts ten minutes, found is

talking

about

hor

local

guys sben they

have sex, it for half

jus!

open a woman/s robes, so I think n}frpho. now

then go to sleepa girl who {ants

She says she likes to trap a guy into

an hour. a rare

lr rl

not

marriage

bu!

l don/t

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fucking know. ALl I know is now I'm in mv hotel room with blue ba116, waiting for her to show up. I am iusl sneaking anat lhe totally confuseal because it's involweil is \'ith such a strange, gettilg hel alien a1one, culture_ There's so mucb around hoEel and fxustralion doesn't and making sure no guys knou acid in the faces of loose

staff

know. Tbis her

a counlrv

!''here they

lhrow

']\'omen. so I just

don't

wan! !o get

or mvself

in trouble'

I'11 their

update

you lomorroli.

Bu! in the neantime, is going on, I'd

if

anyone {iih it

a similar

exPerience

can tetl

me

interPrelation

of vhat

appreciate

I
Style wtlteE I Al8oFt IJR contlnued: Th PoEBI'bly Gay !firBlln cockblock (and lhe pov'er subject:

of, peacocklng)

so,

finalty,

r arrange

for

the looklng

girl

lo

eneak thlough

lhe

lobbv

and come up !o mv holel righ! nex! the !o her fi!8t is

loon

I I I 1 I

open the lhe i!

door !o

see her

maale up and radian!, ro sav lhis before

and slanding

one of

cockblocks. llas regu}ar

Not{, I neglecled

because when I wrote guvs oflen

FR I lhouqhl

Musl.im male frlendlineEE lusr

(slraigh!

hold hands bere) ' buE he acls flv and asks' "what is

R E A L L Yw e i r d a r o u n d m e . H e d o e s n ' ! rhis?" and touches

hug ne, he like

touches ny bulton for

my ass and massage6 my hand.

and he vorks

the magician

she a16o {orks

So, anyvay, kiss. do:

he will

NoT leawe her

alone

in lhe

roon wilh

me. whenewer he leaves

for

a Eecond, we nothing I can s' r

Then hers back again, because ehe's telf teally

and ewenEuallv walks her out of lhe holel. about these

And there's

worr:ied

guvs ox her b o E s e s k n o w i n g s h a l making her look like a slut.

shers up to/

can,t

him to juEt

leawe us a10ne tilhout

Then, the

whole car

ride

ro dinner If

lonight,

he's

gtoping

ne I'd

And I keep pulling smasil his face in.

nY hand or arm {l'rhoah -those

avay. I tolat his nartial arls

friends,

be did this to ne,

in ny counlrv, lot.)

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to

save me, becauEe she wants

to use me to get

a visa

!o Anerica

or

4. her

Is lhis

jueE parr

ot her plan follolr

--

to

fead me on hardcore on the sex,

buE have rhia

guy around

!o prevenr

from acEually

hawing to

through

because she has sohe sort

of ulrerior

Ae Versity
Ln^ui nd rha

sa1d,

lhe

gender/social

tbing

is

so complex here,

anai |n

a! a huge disadvantage

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ON AN VNREI,ATED NOTE...THE UNIVERSA! APPEAIJOF PEACOCKING

Today, Ehr!.

\re wen! !o a bunch oi

really

small with

villages a large

to

Eee nedicide

wonen and all

kinds

of crazy

And even though I,m traveltng in each toBrr flocks

retinue lhe

of locaL celeblilies

and foreigners, peacocking head. {a!

everyone leasl for

around me. EBpecially abou! my earrings

women. Why? Because |m and my bald a novelry,

here).

They keep asking IE's

and my jel,elry I rhink !m

And EEaring

ac me and asking to louch it. guys !e]1s and trie6 long

crazy. like in.

So at firs!

bur then one of Ehe ro exolic for lhe locales then -as

me, "A11 the womenreally to don naEive clothing vere is

you.tr And I think: Fuck that. practical. there

Everyone lravels

garb and blend

You night It

as welL be exoric here: a few of

as your

aE t'he Eane lime (Obviou6ly, taught

i'as crazy

women in wilhout

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the willage geEting

so beautiful. -but it really

was no porenrial standing

\,rharsoever fitring

ro inreract in.)

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so,

I had one insight

and one Problem: h othet lrotds'

Trle insighE: if

Structure

vour

entire

rouEine

slack it tilt

on vour throw

best you!

piece enlire

of maLerial solid

you are crying

a completely inlo

new opener'|

gane off'

because you jusE

lose your transj.lions freeflolr

eadb pj"ece

You have !o run a lighl bes!' r lhink'

set like

a comic

You canrt spellB

flom piede !o plece.

Mv gane vas aE ils

when I wen! fron

to EsP

!oDonl!lbink-feelpa!!ern,becausetheyvlerealloneconvergalionalf1o{. Ehe one rha! gels you lo the HOOK develop a

So lhe poin! poin!,

is

lhist

fi'gure out vour bes! ptece ot malerial'' an opener rha! nalurally leads

and rhen develop

you !he!e lhat

And from lhere' comes ouT of !ha!'

phase shi!

(or kino escalarion

pallern

or iBolalion

ganitl!)

You need !o have a tIGllT new material, escala!ing lo bur hit

se!.

Make Bense? Maybe it,s poin! each tine

obvious. Bul r waB playing greal gane' wilh have a transilion into

a Eticking

where I tlialn'!

iEolation/kino/elc' wilh ber

l.ly faworite

set

of

the flight

was lhi6

cute-as-a-bullon

rich

l'A girl'

who was lhere

sisreran.thexmom(11'holooke.tlikePamelaAnderson,burhadthreekidg'shewasdressedlikea guv (probablv her bf) was LovED ne But lhe wHoLE !ime' some Anlavay, this girt lrarnp) to!a! and qood-looking' ile was confident her hand some of the tinie just Btanding wilh ber, hol'ting either' 'tid not reepon'l to anvthing But a! the same line' ne and did not intetrupl Il\l'asn,Elikehe1,ttasbeingajerk,hewasprobablyjustaquietguy.Ifhe!,asaroo],Iwou]d But he was cool' but conplelely in tronr of his face have just atone ewervthing interesting IE was teallv ne an'l threw ne off Il flustered rapport. not open !o

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frame. I see your point,

but I DO applove of value ptans.

In other vrords,

Ehe knows she's of value to her because you,re tnvtling aEking her for a date technlcauy,

her Eo somerhtng cool, bu! Iou,re nor

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r{'an!. This keeps her on her loes looklng is tha! li inplies

SHE has lhe choice anat power to SEIECT you or not. And rhe game ts ptayed

beEt when Bhe,a unsure of what YOUwan!.

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pissed

rne oif, Love.

but

I like

lhat

they

call

i!

a mansion a d nake i!

ctear

lln

not

lriEh Courlney

Aince

everyone

has been pretty

discreet

here in

the

Lounge, girl tol.

r guess r can share l,ve

thar

|we

been a

6eein9 Courtney's year. It'6 ctazy.

blonde guirarisr. r told her tha!

She,s like

rhe first

had a crush on in a! teasr enough/ one night

she sas ,'ny oneiris,n (fron that otd

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when

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wiLh her,

I ran into

EBPopstar

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bake care of any lingering

approach fteeze...

EtyLe wrtEee t subjeclr Rer QuEllon on Ealanclng you! Llf wLtb beLng a PUA

Duate, lf anylhlng

you're

Eaylng that you never want !o have another LTR, then vou havent! featned conmunity, FlrB!, you will you wllf have olher 'TRE 1n your llfe. be slro[ger. It's a grea! and

flom lhiE

t/ronderful thtng.

Bu! in lbe fulure,

And you w111 sPenil the amount of line workiag tha! You want, and never enough

lrirh your lTR lhat you will

You want, and you wlll

spend tbe amount of line

Epend the amount of time {ith

your buddles lhat

Yov want. Yee, there's

time -- unless you use 1! wisety and productively,

and draw boundaries \there lhey need !o be

You,re being a slave !o lhe needs and denands of olherB.

glart

being you! own master'

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Though I have an rJTR, x can still 1. Faiehfulness -i6 it Possible? lhe

post

FRs. This

one oets

a! a bunch of

ideas:

2. The LA guys who get

HoTrEsT girls.

4. RouLine Dependerce.

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so I got

a call

from a friend

who's

a nusic

nanager.

He said

he vas going

our ro dinner I said: ',rs it

a bunch of top models and asked if - br-ng my glrlrriencl?'And

I !'anted to join liqh

him. As we vere ralking/ fo-go!.

ok.1 i'

he goes, 'thaE's

so Iget

there,

and the girls

arrive. v,as -

Three were top models/ one wa6 a hoc btonde friend ger Lhis -- one of rhe girls

of one

of the models, and the third compe!ilion with Eeidi Fleiss.

r salged when r had lhac pU

Now, here's attracliwe

the lhing:

This fliend

of mine i6 and his

like

6,5",

bur eftremely

dorky.

He is nor he,s nor

ln any aay whalsoever, or interesring. induslxy

personatiry

i6 extremely

boring.

rn shor!,

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(I kno\,,how ro pick

'em, huh?) Hovewer, he does hawe a into rhe mosr exclusiwe parrieE.

enlerEainment them ou! a]so,

job and can ger the girtE reslauranrs

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!o the

expensiwe

and pays for

chem. There axe many guys who

can do lhis (my ltr)

I uppose, bu! Ehis guy is because

always surrounded by amazlng Looking v,omen. Lisa x'ords caf,es enough Eo do aII rhis for rhem.

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ar the table

ro me. They're of atrention

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And rhis

is very amoying

!o rne/ because I can'!JuST

hang and chill

and geE arLracrion.

r sertl

need the naleria]. A11 night, this

As many know, this was true.

has been one of my greaLesL frusrrarions

over rhe years.

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we sen!

!o a Prada parly. out of your

Dude, for This

rhe guys here v,ho say rhere was srcK. looking

are ho!

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Eighlande,

you're

ninds.

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Eweryone was just

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sovealltookoffan.Irrelttoanotherclub.Again.atlboredbeaucies.!i6aan.lI]eftnynntsic lhe hand of the blonde I liked' bv four gorgeous wonen' lle lqas hol'ting SURROUNDED manager frientl if lrn curious to see if this {ORKS' or cloBing rate is I juel emailed hin to find ou! r"bat his Ee geEs to hin ls one thing' Ehe girl6 wha! atlracts he gets Looleit. Lisa and I think ultlmately (rtrs not enough ln I-a to jusc be ho! and waiting' rigtrt away, {lEhout rhem inlo the top parlies Ee brings himseu? Alld how 'toeB he get lnto the parties ropes') tenale to ge! paEt the velvet rockstarsan.lfemaleg.solinsnor!,lllsno!hismoneytheY'reattracledtoorhislooks, ihe coftnrunitv' tf he had game ! I may even bltng hlm lnlo his LIFESTILE. hagine it's NoL sure'

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HeyMan, I reread I wrotethe post Andthen,when halluclnaHng. Youweren't \{asoovlous' It, I sawthEtthe answer for the I have, I wlll wrlteup a FRonthlsglrl Forthe record, a glrlwhoI feela found I got Intothlscommunlty, flrsttimestnce Intelllgent' HSE, hlghly to. She's connectlon emotlonal sedous as fuck'ls a ls confident challenge, ls a constant to peacoc& loves the klndof girt Into She's anyroomshewalks andrules totalsnob, and the expednce wlthout ableto handle havebeen would I never the odds' andagainst here.Shewasmy oneltis, I've gotten resources 'oneitls'" lol' told hershewasmy up wlthher-- I even I ended sexwitha to have amazing tt ls sotucklng a llttlesappy: Tosound makes to lt really for andconnection girlyoufeelgreatemotion

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just lying next to her. And she everything else pale In comparison, constantly tells me that she'sneverfelt tiis way about a guy before. neverlet a guy h6vepowerover her before,etc, The questionI had askedwas: Whatthe fuck do I do with all the other girtsI was sleeping with?And the answerisr stop sleeping with them. I don't jt's so rare. want to blow thls, because

That said, I'm still goingto go out and sarge.And I'm stittgojngto be part of this community.I'm just not gotngto get physacal wtth anyoneelse -- because this girl adually FULFILLS me.

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Herbalhasan LTRtooi, I\4ystery's ex not-wife,adually. AndTD and Playboy have beenexperlenclng someshortltved oneitlses. It's been slrangetlmes in projectHollywood thesedays,..

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This happened a month bac( but I had to post tt because it was so ridiculous:

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a fewtlmesonthe phone shewentfor lt Wetalked Unbellevably, shewas In SanDlegoFortunately, after,andthenmetat the concert itto workout, wanted I SObadty a llttleplaln. cute,though really th show' I've had ARer #closes lt wasoneof the funniest because aroundln hercar' I andJoked the Cube andranthrough we satdown, butit Shlftroutlne, Phase of my Evolutlon dida plsspoorverslon as a +ctose out for halfan hour(alsoknown andwe made anyway worked out ') term"make the technical for loyalasFerswhomlghtnot know

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Therers no need !o respond to this

pos!.

Just read i!.

I was looking like

over

Lounge archives,

ard jusr idea tha!

wanled !o

remind eweryone of wha! rhe rrounge qas abou! relalionships, ir pas

a year ago. Mysrery had lhis and weallh as well.

lhe game wasn,r ju6r

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abou! heallh fraternily.

And we decided we weren'!

a communiry of !UAs, bu! a fields.

And v,e eere all

going Eo hetp each orher geE !o rhe lop of our respecrive each oEher up.

Ard when se teached Lhe Eop, we were going Eo pu]l

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rhings

are happening. ower gir1s.

Everyone,s

bat!]ing

each orher

over whose schoot

of

pUA is

rhe

Theyrre fighEing

And tho6e who are having real-wortd rocking) are nor sharing

success {r know rwo their

specifically

qhose careers are fucking

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crilicism

of courEe is always wetcome --

even

honeet and cons!rucriwe.

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back into a tracernity would fove to see lhiB ptace t.utn heallh, anal lrealth togelher'

of brothers

on the road Lo guccesE in

98y7.

fitrceat K.PInE chtcks l1lv' Ltr dLf,forent areg

SubJect:

Easy. aroun'l ltith a girl but have no! hail aex' i!'s

1. Be gooit in bedl.

(Note:

ti

you've

luE!

fooled

I,oTha!.le!tokeepthemwafinto!nex!timeifyou!onlylntentiBtohaveaFB.)

2.Don'taBkthenabout'wha!elseEheyhavegoingon,lelallonship-wte.

llme limPortant 3. ?ry to sleep with lhem a secoa'l

ro get rid

of asd) before vou reave to\'rn' i!'s a

lrafln (occaslonal 4. slay in louch enough to keep Ehem and phone cal'Is' conslant eflorE !o leturn emails then a couple dlays befole you're

ahort emall) ' bu! no! so nuch !ha!

5. call

p]'an coming !o !or"n nex! alrd make a

(Eometines years) ' and all I

ilhen I waE 8ing1e' have to do is let

f, i{ontE have tsaLked to a 9ir1 lhem kno\t r'n coning Eo tonn!

f,or 6ix

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whole debate,

but WxY keep trying

direct

when i!

doesn'r

work as wel1.

Think

about iL: A- Lhe peak ot my sarging, w.!h an _nd_recL opener, T lad success getting ln opening groups (!,,ithout ever gelring It vorked blown our)

ius! aooJL roo percenr 80-90 percenr works nou. chance of

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and pxobably ir

the phone nunber of my larget.

from rhe beginning;

Here's the secre! wilh. ThaEts righl.

of direct:

it

generalty

onty works if

lhe girt

is

inreresred

in you ro begin

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here's

the eecret

of openers,

direcL it.

or indirect: iihelher

they don'r

HAVE!o be an OR indirecr opener

T h e y h a v e ! o A P P E A RS P O N T A N E o U S T.h a ! ' s less rhan if you do a SPONTANEOUS OIENER.

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The One? SponEaneousor nor?

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Lately, l'veonlybeen checking thisboard once a month few or every months, soapologies for notbeing around. Have a lot ofthoughts to share.

My concem latelyhasbeen thebiggerpicturcin a PU.That,I think, is whatshould youcangetrid ofthetraining befocused on once wheels of constantly scripted sarges andlearning to be cool/charminyathactive.

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issu for Trustis 8nimportant 1. You mustshowherthatyou'rsafe. Soswitch#1: in orderto This mustbedmonstrated. mostwomen. youneedSAFETYaodTRUST. proaeed,

or motivation, smbition, eithr herthatyouhsve show 2.Youmust youmust a life andgoals' have words, job/financial tn other security. cunnvfttur STABILIry and to hIthatyouhav #2is dcrnonstating Soswitch fte youjust to show have to besuccssfirl' have Youdon't AMBITION. to besuccassful. Dotential

3. You mustshowhertfi&tyou'rcdilTcEntdun th odrerguys,tlnt you from youor grow or boring,that sheasrtlamsomelhing arerct generia or orcativityor ofadventure with you,thstyou hava sense herthatyouHAVE SOMETIIINGTO spidtuality.Soswitch#3 is showing OFFE& evenifyou dont give it to her in themomed'This is where

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5. lt'sa bigworldandwe all feelalone in it, soifyou can demonstrate thatyouTJNDERSTAND herandwhere she comes from,she will feelchemistry. Thiscanlargely bedone through dgmonstrating either cultural, mental, emotional, worldview,humor, or life/background commonalities. Themore obscure andrare a traitthatyouconnect on, themore chemistry youcreate. SoSwitch #5 is demonstrating COMMONALITIES in oder to trigger CHEMISTRY.

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It's betterfor a goodpointon this,Formhandle, You'veraised daysituations, I maygo for same MLTR4,TRven FB gameThough NEVERhada ONSfor the I NEVERgo for ONS.ln fact,I havealmost ofquality, and with a woman thatI'm only goingto sleep simplereason withheronce? whyjustsleep ifsheis ofquality,

about I do think thatfor a guyto talk with PASSION However, whether aboutis a HIIGE turn-onfor women, hefeelsstrongly something ONSor LTR. lt flips a switoh.

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In largepart,this pointprobably came ftom hearing my LTR'Sclose friend talk in my livingroom. She hadjust meta guywhoshe\'r'as in lovewith.However, she wasbreaking upwithhimbecause hewas30or so,andwasnton anycareer track.Thatwasher SOLEcritedafor breaking upwith him, And it hadnothingto do with herwanting to marry him.Shejust needed to bewitha guywhowasheading somewhere.

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buy any of rhis. Ewen al

Sorry.

In my experience, lrendy

and I play mostly night nighls.

game, I've

met lors

of

super-exclusive I fe]! wich like,

Hollyvood

And some have been MIrTRs, some I,ve been able ro

have become good friends. make a grea! conneclion

especially

at a shallow txendy parly, because l r e r e c o g n i z e d

a t^'omanof quaLily

6ome depth in each olher.

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I

I Lhink !hat, gf in clubs, in a club behawior lore

in general, elc

before

ne poinr

out att

rhis

6ruff

- LA womensuck, you can'r firsL. Maybe rhe gane we're are crealinq clubs,

find

- we hawe to poin! attracting gfs; guys, girls.

Ehe fingers

a! ourselves

ptaying

isn,t for

maybe rhere are inner I do nos! Mink

game problems !ha!

rhas

women. sorry,

of my game ar nighr

and in lhese

and hawe mer

a
-

of asesome, quality

sone of us here are diequalifying

ALL wonen who 90 ou!

to clubs at night

(ridiculouE,

brw) sinpty

because of bad experiences viEh a coupte.

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just

SoinS to add that results,

some of us bave been in the a l1ltle a Little being sPecial

game for

years'

And vre bit for

a poinl

wtlere

lre geE great ro naintain being: {hite is

anct then we backsli'Ie

and get

stuck

there

a while so the ic

we forget point lakes a level

the work we're

aloing on oursetwes; lhe other point

success that' girl

makes us lazv

Work on yourself to find -an LTR

first.

an),1there in

the world' with

MrrlRs are easv'

BuE lhat

who co rects

vou on everv

rare

an)avnere.

I can 90 on and on, so let

me know lf

vou'd

like

me to"'

sEyLe Jritgeg, gubjct! chlckE who offer

tou Other Chlckg

There afe

ltdo optionEi

A. ft'a

a E h i ! t e 6 ! ! o s e e if

you'le a plaYer

B. She llkes

you bu! has a bf o! Jus! got a bf'

and is pasEing You on co a iriend'

My advice: you're type

Play i!

safe'

Tell

her lhe girl in

Beemg cool anal 6eems smar!, ' It lroulal be fun you ger the for

Lhough Ehe's nol all three

reallv

(or vou're

not

reallv

rhe narkel) be cooL'

of you to ge! Japanese girl. ge!

together. he!

Then hang oul,

leall

back,

and if

IoIs

from the

nuriber and rhen Eake her oul

indiwidually'

In oEher. 1,eord6, alo NoT srlow Eoo nuch inlereEt !ha! raises my suspicions It is lbal lt's

but

a! the Pholo yourre

sane lime -not

al1ow it photo
of

happen. lhe

The lhing

a modeling see if

a real

lwo of Ehern

hanging

our together.

rnav be a TES! to

an Asian

feliehist'

This

exact

sane situation

bappene'I to ne'

But/

in nv caser

it

sas B'

F !l
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StyTe w?itee, Subjects: LTR LEEus

None of the above.

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The solurion:

PIay the game. Aos-styte.

I!

sounds like

maybe you,ve been somewhat needy lrirh her. l,tithdraw (disappear for a day or two or creale a Jealousy plotllne (where a beauliful girl i tnlerested in you).

and alonrE call)

Tha! should do the trick

and make her feel rhe lequisile

ernottons for you.

I leave you with my general theory of relationshtps:

Power 1n a relarlon8hip

beLongs ro the person vho rran!6 lhe feasr coffinilment.

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SEyIe wr!,te6t Subject: weekend Quegtj,on for STYLE and otshele - Netwolklng lrlth Celobrltle thIE

Okay. In your particular

positlonr

here,s

lrhat ld

do.

celebs

are used to being care of

taken

car.e of.

Every{here comforrable, noD-famous

they

arive,

there's

a SAFE pelson

(or tv,o)

a
I I

who take feel let

i:hen, make sure they're person (because all

giwe rhem vrp srraDgers

rleatmen!.

Anal once rhey they

SAFE wirh dokr) their

rhis

are EhrearE

and annoyances),

guard.

a :r
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in seem confidenE, care of Lhem. You nnrst take muEt You So as 6oon as tbeY atrlwe'| place and hawe eone har'I ' Like You os'rl Ehe loo crying not back' authoritacive, this snall Iaid llttle micto vorld

they've

enEeted'
at iIUBI TAKE CAR! Of EhCi' then drinks if they nee'I any'

so al firsc,

jusE be funny and cool'

Donrt try

fo!

rappot!

seat, grouP. Bring them to hhelr $alt-reBs, etc' introduce Ehemto thelr

make Bure verythtngrs

okaY,

t'ith' Noi'{ you can open \tho uheyrre confortable person safe a aB yonrseLt {VERY once yourva establiBbe'l yourself a tim consgrallrc open the g!or'lp' give nold an'l cnem' on llere' for reat. Retud to cbeck (an obvlous naE $i11 backfile targeE' the neg an'I teasingly If you can get lmportan!), andl very ltghtly b powerful') nlIt neg of cyPe ftft thlsi tft"y" rroh my goct' i" buE a snilitlg denonBlrate value "nt af1 you have !o 'lo is altenEion' an'l lnEereBL lheir in rhiB fa! antl capture antl You're ln'

glyl

vrlt.s

3 rlrEg Dgubls tniluctloa A EuccEF

gu.bj.ct t tR:

Though lhi6

stuff

works ' I dlon'!

necessalily

undlelstand

liltY '

tlne' everv t1ne, BecauBe BecauBe every

ilrs p like rL

trtac vou tlescribe'l:

**'.t::-"]:::.":::-::
, crazy

"n." "t, ",

::'. "t"t.-"

passion t"*"""' a su'r'ren'that spark of

' jl],,';;;" u'"" ""'giog
tr'me' her for lhe first

.::':::.:other' on each

!ike

"u ,111.l:"::' go( .tayBgoes Ehree'ravB '." o! three t."o an'r co leccrng !'ith ror

you hook up sith

F
a
any insight they only into (in this, guys. tike lacitly rhe girlE don'r even become friends monenrs before i! nake plans after, and

I
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my cases)

agree to the

rhreesone

u
a
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Theyrre not friends goodbye and never

before;

then they woraciousl.y 6exual1y devour each olher;

rhen they jusr

6ay

speak again.

StyJ.e wtiteB: Subject: I'IJuck be a Lady" by Frank Slnatra

z
a

Hey Man,

This

problem

occurs

a
al I I I

a 1oE \{iEh you. on other

I always

read FRs abou!

how rhese

9ir1s

you go ou! holrer

wirh

run

around lhe club hilling l\,hile lhis

guys and you get pissed

and teave lhen for

girts. lhoughr

Now, abour

nay be a conmon probLem even back in the lhis on.

Rar pack days,

hawe you ever

how YoU may brtng

FirsE, you are srrucEuring your second meeriDgEa! rhe ptaces where you Earge. MTSTAKE. Do tike stevi.ePuA does: take lhem to a bar where you and her ca! ger intimare. You HAVEto 'riden your holizons. you ONLYknov sarging.

t
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secondly, creale

I'm bettiDg

tha!

somelimeE you sarge v,hite on a second meering, or demonsrrare value. take ir

perhaps even only to pERMrTsher !o doing.

a jealousy

plotline

This creares an almosphere rha! when SHE does exacrty

sarge in her om way. And then you can,!

wha! you were just

So the

solution

is

for

second meelinge:

rake att

lhem !o an inrimale sirring and nor

bar,

or rake

lhen

our wirh

non-sarging drinking, not going

group of friends.

when you're your

on a sofa ar the Slanatard, Iaughing, sraring aE every EB tha! reality. v,atk6 by, she,s

and playing

games with

buddies

a
il

to v,aBt to talk

to other

guys and she witt

be sucked inlo

your

a z
tt

I
ho\t YoU dleal lrith Ehe wonen ltr6 in NEVER is probleR The avoi'led' so !ha! rt car be aituation' ."';;."'t"' gARGING days ao'l medcallties Donrt nix {i*r tben'
There shoul't be a contingency

anal mentaLltiee ' sEcoNDuBETINGdays

gtrle

$tlce6' Epace a{aL1'b16 ac Prol'cg

gollynood

aubJeccs

*- "":'"1":,':"ff;lJ Plavbov {hat l,lav, rhe By : very afor'lable

lhe Bmalles!, but

::: ::T":H':"il"lJ-""1'"

:"tff;":

;";"-'''""

B x'a' elBe to sleep wiuh Mvsterv' Boneone

EEYT, lrtlE EubJ.qE3

s' trb' nay Wo4'a RqsDoDil i'tr Bed: l DLscu96lon because I'n

regularly Ehac happel to me There are a fetd chings amongs! all nen a cofiunonexperlence lhey'le that see ".rtlou" "o Lo i{olry abo\rt Gane a {onan' I don'c hav l'ilh sleep x of the tlne' once the aex' I feel' like befor Ninety-nine pelcen! *unt it !o lasE' al'I nttd '*'tl-t"* set any El4)e "" "n" antnrore. It's on and At thal point' I can Bex lbe af,ter ;"t-" ag atlached "" ;* when a wonen lrol'ever, she {a6n't because' evoLuuioBarily' be may thi6 tbink r vatrt l has had sex of frane on Ehe reLationstrip bon'I Eo the man she he! nake and brain tt;" chenicals t"""";: orgasrne, she enits {ith. Thought6? aftet I give he! a grea! her bodv 1n tbe nonent' "'" * ""

tbat

bere' I ltant to diFcuBs

t tlave sex wit}. he!' third or fourth tine o! aecon'l the Einally, on she thinks' in flip in her head' tnt"'"*"" see she'll orgasn, I can lileraIly this euv'' somelinea deepll atrached ro r coul'I ""t";; "r love tlti6 suv;

_l

toud; other times Ehe'11 ger scared and need reassurance. i

s qeirii.

Has anyone erse noriced

here -- rhe way womenreepond ro us during sex anil orher non rechnique details of rhe inreracrion. would be curious !o hear orher people's experiences, and if rhey arl malch or are wildty different? rn olher wordE, is Ehe above a cornnon archerlpaj experience, or am I doing something rigbr I shoutd backr^,ardsengineer?

we never discuss rhis

StyTe writes, Subject: ?he Way lfomen Respond ln Bed: A DlEcusslon

Yeah, Madbad, oha! get. lhree You lorally l!?es

you describe it, In fac!,

sounds REALLY siftjlar just

ro the vay I an in bed and rhe resporses r

get

f r o f t r e a d i n g g u y s responses/ you can break it

down rc,

of people: i n b e d , o h o f o c u e o n l h e e ' o m a ns ' preasure anil are inroxicaled vilh her submissive

1. Tire rovers femininity 2. The takers

in bed, who $aI1! a girl in bed, who ler

ro get them off q h i c h p l a g u e t s h e mi n r e a l tife conlinue

3. rhe doubters on into lhe

the doubrs and heairancy

eack.

so, afler

reading

this,

r lhink orher

lhe Lhings r ato lhat

enable !hiE: and ho!rcwer she wanrs ro go and tive her

1. I am ACCEPTING. h reac! and howewer far

!,ord6,

v,harewer 6he wanr6 !o do or express, r sUppORT. I jusr wanr her !o te!

she *anrs

!o 90,

fantasies.

S o r g i v e h e r p E R M r s s r O Nr o b e h e ! r r u e

sexuat setf.

2. girl

I focus off.

on HER pteasure No! io

and making lhe way, but lefr,

experience

posirive !o

for

her.

My goal

is

!o ge!

rhe

an egorisricat

because r wanr her

teawe hawang had a good was good for her.

experience. Even if and cal] |n

And, ewen afrer

she's

I wanr !o make sure rhe experience (vhich i6 very, her for a1t very rare), other rrlr

never going !o see her again because r don,r wanE ro ruin

be nice ana! respecrfur lhere.

her,

lhe

guys and pUAs ou!

allowing spots' right say it touche6 all che Glrls SIZE andl TECIAiIQUE 3. I have decenE go dor"n slill till if I gec off' enloY oral 6ex andl' eved l al'so orgasns have vaginal si.dle that passioDate inEense, f,ocusear, etrong, thiE actdition, rn off. to nake Bure she gt6 out in bed' (but deed to nore) juBt coneB atiBplay ia !ea1 life iton't really

gir] I

sex' lthen it'6 I Iove cha! nonen! af,ter 4, I enjoy the A.FTER-ct'ol{

rrr bed, ot you You in juBl the lwo of anythilg back

o" not tryins to get anv'hrng andyou'ire

;"-, oya!,, uv q--' lhoEe questions yourve been alr. her aek can tien :rnal rrou you,re ju6. both !ear. v^irr rantasy? Do You uBuaIlY have llhaltB vour ne? to attracte'l reatlze vou }.'e!e l,'hen atid vou flrst ::trt:sv ]lke you'te done afiet? feel and one bLg one orgas$s, or have nulliple
leaallng lhls diBcussion' can break iE ilown' afLel I guess thatrs the besl I of this Blufi from You' sti1l gotla learn sone insights I And, Di iIaY' I Great lhoughtB an'l

to hold n"'"":."::-:-"::":::::::,Tti;"::il;""

S.;,,e wrlt, t Y'lth th who Llt op'nor Subtecti Rootlng! Thc ProblGm the roomandaskguys andl9o around workshops' fm wlnglng whenever And llesmore'menor women?' theyuse,halfof themsay'"Who whatopener usually nlght'andhalfthe women thenI seethemgo out anduselt th't 'Why areyouasklng usthls?'or'Are youtaking asklng, by elther by respond andW|ng thembadbodylanguage Or by Justglvlng a suNeyor somethlng?'r at them behlncl then laughing posslble' to end the conve6ationas soonas thelrback. in the commuityllkea yearand appearlng suddenly the opener I remember wasa who madeit up' thoughI think lt a half ago,andcan't remember les so short' to leam' because sfudent.Andit is a great opener workshop

But here'sthe problemtit's imperfectand incomplete, In

an earlierpost, I

discussed subtleties that are necessary to makewalk_ups airtight__namely time consbaints and negs.Well,there,salso a sub ety to the opener:THERE IV1UST BEA REASON WHYYOU'RE ASKING IT.

In other words,you are Justwalkingup to a group and asking a random question for no purpose.It's weird.you needto ROOT it in the time and place,For example, when I sayjealousgirlfriend.I mentionthat I,m asking because I just got a phonecall from my brotherabout lt or 'we were trylng to give my friendover there advtce.', WhenI do spelts,I say tt's about 'my friendWill, who tsn't out wtth us tonight because he,swtth thts 9irl. you must

your openerto makejt a valid reasonro approacn group. ROOT a

lvlaybe somepeopjewho use Who LtesMoreactua y gtve it a contxt, but no one 1'veheard.So lf you are golngto conlinueto usethis opener,you MUST fiodlfy it, or flnd a new one. Examples of rootsfor the who includei lles moreopener

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"I was readtngEsquire today and they dtd this study,and guesswhat the resullswere?l{y friendsand I have beendebatang about it ajt day. We disagree."

OR

I
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'My friend over therejust brokeup with his girlfriendbecause she kept tying to him about ljttte things,And we thoughtit was funny,because guys are the

oneswho havethe reputation for lying. But now he think5womenare worse, So we'retrying to savehtm from beingbjtter aboutwomenfor the rest of his

a
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I

life, Onlyyou can help savehim from endingup a lonely,miserable old man,

down@wn eatlngdog foodIn a studioapartment top of my head' rve put inrc me opener'ofr the Theseareiust randomroots field tests a rooted meantlme'lf anyone lll field test them and,In the post' please elser as everythlng as solldly lt works and more lles who of veFlon canstart uslnglt corectly and everyone that so opener thls Lefs complete effectlvely,

Styte wrlt6c! Subt.t! r.! Fl.w to Thrlhnd on the sexual cladfya few thlngs' Congrdts and here In gotta Jump Dude,

but be awarei experlence, game on game on you;youarenot runnlng gldsarerunnlng 1, These tnem. lf you wantto use satesexonlyl Beprotected havlng you are God to 2. I hope It on a real glr! In the future' you are misslngotlt on other important 3. Whileyou are havlngsex' on as soonas andyou shouldstart worklng sex part of are that components we'reall In the gamefor the you get backl valldatlon(leesfacelt' they llke us) to get nakedwith us because wanting woman beauuful of a validatlon betterwlth this (trust me' the sex ls MUCH connection ANDemouonal element).

Ducle,takeaworkshop'getsomegoodwinqtandcloNOTeverpayforsex

agah. You dld it, cool,You experlenced it, cool.you havenothlngto fear now, cool. Nowgo get a girlfriend-- she doesn'thaveto be perfect,any girl you enjoy belngwith wtttdo -- and get to knoweverythingabout hel body,until you are a ssxualgod,

gtyJe

wtLteEt Re: f,B L0 gte*aldess

Subject:

- 9uccs6 gtso!,y. Ihenkg

Cuys.

congrars, shers gorgeous. Bu!. . .

If

ehe,s done !rl!h

h e r e x a n s i n June, why no! jusr

x,ai! a monlh?

2. Can she keep her airltne

job

bu!

be baBed 1n rJondon.

Trush me, becauEe X've done l h l e .

You wil]

hl!

problems because:

1. If

ahe comeB lhere,

with

n o j o b o r s c h o o l or frlendE

or money, she will

be COMPLETELY

depeDdent on you.

2. This will atrenlion. wil] totally

turn And lf resent

you OFF. you witt you slart you for gefting naking

r e s e n r h e r because she takes Cli6lant her give or raking her for fo!

up all

your

lime

and money and her, Eublty she and

granted you.

or abandoning witl occur

up everylbing initial

This

6tow1y,

ower a period

of Eix months after

lhe

three-month

honeymoon period.

9o, prevent

this

fron

happening

by: c o sarging for friends for her. Encourage hei to do a

1. SeEting her up wiEh her OwNf!iend6. girls nigbt out. 6he gers

2. Making sure

a job AsAp so 6he i s n o ! . c o m p l e E e l y ,

fjnancialty

dependerr on you.

downtown." dogfoodIn a sfudio apartment eating

These are just randomrootsI've put tnto the opener,off the top of my head lfanyone fleldtestsa rooted I'llfleldtestthemand,In the meantime, post. else,please as everythlng as solldly ofwho llesmoreandlt works version and lt corredly canstartuslng thlsopener sothat everyone Let's complete effedlvely,

SVe wrttost SubJed!r! Flwto ThallEnd

gottatumpIn hereandclarlfy on the sexual a fewthlngs. Congrats Dude,

but be altare: expedence,

game on game gldsarerunnlng on you;youarenot runnlnq 1. These them,

lf youwantto use safesexonlylBeprotected to Godyouare havlng 2. I hope It on a realglrlIn thefuture.

out on otherlmportant sex,youaremlsslng 3. whlleyouarehavlng on assoonas startworklng that arepartof sexandyoushould components for the youget back valldauon (lefs faceIt, we'reall In the game theyllkeus) wlth us because to get naked woman wantlng valldauon of a beautlful better withthls (trustme,the sexls MUCH connectlon AND emotlonal element).

good get some everpayfor sex wings, anddo NOT Dude, takea workshop,

again,You did it, cool.You experienced it, cool,you have nothingto fear now, cool, Nowgo get a girlfiiend-- she doesn,thaveto be perfect.any girr you enjoy beingwith wi do -- and get to knoweverything about her body, until you are a sexualgod.

SEyZe wtltas: subject: Re: gB 10 Stewaldesg - gucceas Story. Thank cuys.

Congrate. She' s gorgeous. Bu!. . .

I.

If

she,s done with her exans tn June, ldhy no! jus! wai! a nonth? job bu! be baEeil tn London.

2. can Ehe keep her airtine

TrusE rne, because I,ve

done thtE.

you wttt

hi!

problems because:

1. If

6he come6 lhere, on you.

Er
tl

s ' t t h n o j o b o r s c i l o o t o r fliend6

or noney, she wift

be COMIr]ETELY

dependen!

r
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This

!di]l

lurn And if resenr

vou oFF yolr starr you for

you vilr gerring

reEent disrant

her because 6he rakes or raking her,or for

up ar1 your

Eine and money and she and

atLenEion. will rotally

granted or abandoning her, you. Thrs witt occur subrly

making her give

up eweryrhing inirial rhree

slowly,

over a period

of Eix monrhs afre!

the

monrh honeymoon period.

t
il

so/

prewent

rhi6

fron

happening

by: co sarging for friends for her. Encourage her to do a

1. Setting girls nigh!

her up irirh our. she gers

her OWNfriends.

ir
T T

2. Making sure

a iob AsAp so she iE nor

compterely,

financially

F r

dependen!

on you.

Einally.

coDgrat6l

gEyLe

|'tlLeEl. My ex told ry gsB frlond nJustj,ce llkeg youn... what norr?

subJect:

Chickg are nol lnlerested interegted when you fall

ilr rcu vrhen you fal1 OUI of love qrith them.

ln love vtith them too eatly,

but they becone very

Styla wrltst subtect! Thc Llght .nd Darlcot The comnrunlty

wlth outslders, the samequestlons always Whenever I dlscuss the communlty wantto answer for them.A lot of people comeup. Andtherels no clear-cut pass on us ior belnghere,lf they knowaboutlt, ButI knowfor ludgment people When seevldeos or surethat lt's mademe a MUCH betterperson. photos lt's the sameguy, of me prlorto thls,they can'tevenbelleve

Buttherearealsopeople Itvemetwhowerereallycoolguyswhenthey passlonless soclal entered the communlty. Andnowtheyare completely (andI've posted In the past). robots aboutthat already

is a forkingpath.Andit can Sothe wayI seeit nowis that the communlty Thechoice is yours. leadyou intothe lightor the darkness.

Theljghtis a place whereyou are at yourbestall

the tjme.It is whereyou

finallyfind yourself and bringout all the personatity and sparkand confidence and charmand humorand talentthat onlyyour mother everknew you had before, It is whereall the schools of seduction and routjnes arejust training wheels on the journeyto self_realization. (Whoah, this js soundjng morenew-agey than I intended,) But it,strue: womenare EXTREIUELY attradedto guyswhenthey do somethrng __evena smallgesture __that is totallyorjginal and pureand unselfconscious, and at the sametime lovable. So if the community is bringing you out of yourshell,improving yoursocial skillsin all areasof your life,making you movethrough the worldmore confidently, making you the mEster of your reality, improving your physical appearance, yourcircle widening of friends, acquaintances, __ and women, and ultimatejy you a happler maktng __then you are in the light, person The dark js a placewhereyou lose yourself.It,s

whereyou stavishlyimitate

T I
f

and modelotherpeople. It,s wheresomewhere deepinside you hateyourself and don't believethat peoplewill like you jf you revealyoLrr true setf. It,s

whereyou start hurting or deceiving __men, women,whatever, peopre It,s whereyou look at yourselfin the mirror and see or Badboy staring backat you.It,s whereyou Tyler Durden,Mystery,Style,

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losetouchwith yourfriends and you pullwomen reason

family,and only hangout with sargers. And the only is so that you can win the respectof other

sargers.lt,s whereyou make life,and neglect the things through dead

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il

learning pickup the number one priority in your

that wjll leadto a real caree.. lt's whereyou look at the world eyesbecause you,ve lostyoursoul,

:r
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step backfor a momentr and lookat yourexperiences in the community.

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post.ly bgrl therbfore,in those rcomssofull ofsexual Awesom insane hijinx going,or ftek up th tension thatthright v,rord cangetsome wholething.

waddit. Butassoon asoneperson Everyone in thatroom Sq mythought post.) gets (Kinda likeTD'ssert sooiety uBcomfofieble, it'sell over.

getyou Sothelesson is,,,Your wingscangctyou laid. Also,your wingsc-sn ejected.

to do theright thiug ifyou haven't Nexttime,don'tcrunt on someone You will haveto takethelead.Andyou'll havto wingedwith themenough. like a conduotor. dothatby arangiogeverybody,

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Sothis wasnot a mistake. It wasa leaminglesson for nexttime.Thelesson: GetFOTIR games/routines together thatyou anpull out nexttimethis happens. Likethedualinduction massagq or a game ofAsshole, or a garne ofspin theCellphone (better thanspinthebottle because it doesn,t have theassooiations), etc.

Nicejob, otherwise.

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a vrhite and he said he wanled to meer some girts, He pravea! al.ng fucking perfecrly.

so r ran rhe Jeatous rhe Besr Friends Eo !o

Girrfriend Test,

opener on a ser.

Then r wenr lnro sirling

and negged lhe larqer

on her boaly tanguage. He was ftooreit, he itid sone steighr Ee sa6 a good wing,

rher:e quietty,

compere, he putled perfor:nance introducing he'd bring An}aay, of i!

our a maqic trick. was rearlv funnv.

of hanat wirh a cigarelre, lhough he sometimes did afc

and his rhings like

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cocky,

he rold

me ro go up Lo his

roorn and safe.

up. r Eotit hin !o use Lisa up vilhouc rhe girts.

(my r,TR) as a wing so rhe gi!1s

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he ended up coning

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RULES: Sreak up into Eacb person paper, bag. then lrrttes folds

leans

of, t{o. of celebs or vell-t<nom

doltn ten ranes tt. in half

tigures

on ter

separate scrape of a haE or a

and doesn't

shoo anltore.

The names are aLl rossed into

ROUND ONE Each rturntr is exaclly hat, one minule, Aad one person in a tean grabe one name at a lime out of the

glveE lhe olher !,erson ln lhe leam clueE, and moves on onLy when the other person haE gueEaed lhe nane. Each person guesslng can i,passir on a nane they don'! know only once. The goal ].s ro gue6e as many nanes a poBEibLe in a nritrute. ultlmalely, game w111 last four ninutes if you have two teams of !r,ro, the and guesser.

as each person takes a turn as clue-giver

The clues can be aNYTHING,aE Long as lhey don't. spelt rhlane (like saying nRaBhton Bushetu as a clue fot

the nane of lhe petson or ue a cbeap

"Aslon Kucher).

ROUND TWO So, afler lhe f,irst lounil of guesslng j.s done, you put atl the nanes back in the hat anit repea!

the Proceaa. Hoirever, thlB t,lme, since evetyone already knows lhe nanes, lbe clus can only be TWO WORDS and no PLSSASare allolred.

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fun, because le's

such an adrenaline

rush trying

!o ger through a6 many namea a6

posslble in a minute.

Style writes: Subject: American girls don't dig Japanesemen : (

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Wow,whata loadof shit.I knowSOmanywoman who LOVE a coollooktng

Japanese guy.Theyall sayyouhavethe bestfashion andstyle.Check out, pumpkJns/perfect say,James lha (Smashtng Circle)

If youwant,sendmeyourplcture, andI'll glveyou someadvlce. Remember the rulei Whatyoucan,tfix, youfeature. youJust needa coollook,andwomen wlll be approachlng youl There are actuallv places In LA(llkethe glantrobotstore)where youcanFIND (of coolwomen all races/colo6) whototallydlgJapanese men.Sarge someone there,then close her by suggesung clothes shopptng 9otn9 the nextday.

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Style wrltas: Subject! gggg Issues when golng out

I hadthat same problem. I'll never forget.I got the number of thtsta[, intelllgent, classy black-hatred woman wtth modet yet no atutude. looks She wasJustperfect, Andfor our flrst meeung afterwafd, I took herto a hotel bar. Weeachhada drln&andthenthe check came. I remembered the ruleof no_ supplicatlon, andso I Inslsted that we splltthe check. As a .esult,I ended up lookhgIncredlbly cheap. It wasso Incredibly stupldandembaffasslno. That's whenI realized: thereare NOrules, onlyguldelines. Andtf you understand the endpurpose of thosegutdelines, you,llknowwhento us !nem,

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So bettersometlmes to buyher a drlnkor a coffee thanlookcheap. If you're at a bar,Justsay,"I'll get this round;youcanget the nextone."At a cafe, Youdon'thaveto holdherto tt. Thepotnt "I'll get thls; youcanplckup desert." is simply to convey that yourre notsomeone shecanusefor money or free you'renotthat klndof guyanyway. dlnners. AndI havea feellng

Style wfifst Subjectr FalseTlme Constraints?

YourgoalAFTER dolnga falsetime constralnt ls to demonstrate enough valueso (In otherwords, that theyDON'T wantyouto leave. to reach the HOOK POINT.)

youdo that, youcanstartto pretend Once to leave, thenreluctantly stay,and giveTHEM youfrom yourfriends. (Alternately, youcanmerge shlt aboutkeeplng groups.)

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I live

in rhe be6t lhere's wiew, rorat big

(IMO) and mo6t priwale seclusion. closer, nicely.

room tD rine house. There,s no noise, balcony, !ha! picture uses.

a locked door, wiih {oltywood

you have your o$n ltttte and a Ehower/barhroom ir's a lrt!]e

sirdolu8 've

tralk_in

no one etse

painred

and kept up rhe roorn realry

oasie of lranquiliry

in lhe busy

ProHo world.

up wlth Fapa. se may be arnenable. Itosever, 1f you wanr !o ftnd a roommate or nore !o bare the coEt r{l!h you, lhat,s flne too. alao, oplion ao you kno$, itrE !o renev if a short-lefin conmilrnent. The lease !o lhe houBe expiles

If you wanr to negorlale

the Prrce,

you can brlng tha!

ln June, wilh an

Papa decldes to keep the house.

If you,d Like to dlecuss this honest breakdo!^rr of the pros,

furlher, lhe co[s,

or if yourre inlereled,

I'd be glad !o give you an there.

and lbe expeliences of living

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