M/M and Gay Sex TermsFor some readers new to the genre, they may find the lingo of not only gayrelationships but m/m romance reviews and discussions slightly confusing. Whatfollows is an incomplete compendium of some of the more commonly used terms. It isdivided in those terms that are primarily associated with gay sex and those thatare more commonly associated with discussions of GLBT (and thus it begins)literature.Literary TermsBDSM Lite - In romance literature this often refers to BDSM relationships that areless serious and more playful and may only include light bondange or spanking asopposed to a hard-core master/slave relationship. This is a very subjective termand the line between lite and hard-core is different for each reader.Chicks with Dicks - Can refer to transexuals but in romance usually refers to malecharacters who are written with female characterizations.Dub-con - Dubious Consensual Sex- Sometimes difficult to determine and typicallycomes across as "the mouth says no but the body/mind say yes".FanFic - (slash) Fiction written where the heterosexual relationships of the maincharacters in popular novels/TV shows/movies are changed into gay, lesbian,bisexual or homoerotic relationships.Gay for You - (GFY) When a previous straight man with no gay tendancies falls inlove/lust with a gay man soley because of his relationship with that person alone.Should the relationship end the straight man would never pursue another homosexualrelationship but would return back to his previously straight life.HEA - Happy Ever AfterHFN - Happy For Now - there may be no expectation that the couple will ride offinto the sunset and live happily ever after with a white picket fence but for nowthey are happy together and what may happen down the road is up for grabs.LGBT - Lesbian Gay Bi Transgender - used as a more inclusive term fororganizations and businesses.m/f/m menage - Two men and a woman where the men do not usually have sexualinteraction with each other or its very slight. Can be a romantic relationshipbetween the three or purely sexual.m/m/f menage - Two men and a woman where the men intereact sexually with eitherother. Again, the relationship can be romantic or sexual depending on the context.m/m/m menage - This can refer to a romantic relationship between three men or canrefer to a menage situation where a third party is brought into the relationshippurely for sexual purposes.Non-con - Non Consensual Sex - RapeScene - This is a time limited BDSM scenario such as an evening or a single asexual encounter, with BDSM ritualistic aspects, complete with modes of behavior,forms of address (master, sir), codes of conduct, dress codes (leather), etc.Trope - an overly used common theme in literature.
Twincest - A sexual relationship between twins which can happen in a sole m/mcontext or in a menage situation with an additional partner.Yaoi - Sexually explicit manga or anime containing a same sex love story betweentwo men. Pronounced yah-oh-ee. This is a Japanese form which is also expressed
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in written form with some very defined rolls for different types of characterssuch as very masculine larger "seme" paired with a smaller weaker "uke" character.Gay Sex TermsBareback - anal sex without using a condom.BDSM - This is a complex acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline(B&D), dominance and submission (D&S, D/S, or Ds), sadism and masochism (S&M,M/S). This can encompasses many activities, including but are not limited to
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forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexualroleplaying, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism, and power exchange. There arevarying levels from "in the bedroom only" BDSM relationships to completemaster/slave relationships where the lifestyle continues 24/7.Blow job - (BJ; suck off) oral sexBottom - (catcher; receiver) The partner that is penetrated during anal sex.Dom - A person who is the dominant one in a relationship that can vary in dgreesfrom sexually only to a master relationship where the Dom controls all aspects ofthe relationship and the sub's daily life.DP - Double Penetration, two penises; a toy and penis or two items in an anus atthe same time.Felching - a sexual practice in which semen or other fluids are sucked out of theanus of a partner.Fisting - Insertion of the whole hand into the anus of your partner.Frottage - (rubbing off; dry humping) Sex without penetration where both partnersrub or grind on each other to achieve an orgasm.Highway to Heaven - (perineum; taint) The area between the scrotum and anus.Metrosexual - A straight man perceived to have the style, culture and personalgrooming practices usually associated with gay men.Manscaping - The act of grooming, shaving or trimming hair on the male body.Rimming - (anilingus) Oral stimulation of the anusSize Queen - Someone who demands a large sized penis in their partner.Snowballing - When one partner takes into their mouth the semen of another person,and then 'swaps' or passes it to the mouth of another through kissing.Sub - A person who is submissive in the relationship, which again can vary indegrees from only in the bedroom/sexually to a slave relationship where theysubmit in all aspects of the relationship.
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another term would be "docking" which is where an uncircumcised man pulls his foreskin over the glans of his partner and then masturbates both penises with his foreskin.
Frottage between men is also known as cock2cock and can involve rubbing two ***** together.