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INTRODUCTION
Just the other day my business partner,Mark Schenk, surprised himself and in theprocess learned a valuable lesson. Mark haddeveloped a strong belief that people don’tleave companies, they leave bad managers.Even in a poorly run company, if theemployee has an excellent manager, theyare likely to stay. Mark was expounding thispoint of view at a leadership developmentprogram that he was facilitating, when oneof the participants said, “I don’t buy it.”This challenge made Mark bristle inside.He knew the speaker was wrong and wasready to argue with him, but rather thanlose his cool, Mark said, “Can you give mean example of what you mean?”
“Sure,” he said. “I was working at [largeutility company] and it was one of the worstcompanies I’ve worked for—ruled by fear,with too many incompetent executives whowere unclear about where the companywas headed. And at the same time I hadthe very best manager anyone could hopefor. She did her best to shield us from allthe crap that was going on and also gaveme plenty of scope to do my job in theway I knew it needed to be done. She hadbeen with this company for 12 years andwas doing everything she could to makea change, but to no avail. In the end I leftthe company to seek out a more productiveworking environment.”
Immediately Mark realised he had torethink his point of view. His mind waschanged by a simple story describingsomeone’s real-life experience.Successful leaders are game changers:they can help people change the minds,feelings and ultimately their actions in waysthat convey the meaning and significanceof what needs to be done. So, by thisdefinition, anyone in an organisation canbe a leader. The man in Mark’s workshopis one. It’s about getting things done withthe support and help of your colleagues.But changing people’s minds and actionstakes more than persuasive argument.In fact argument alone can often merelyresult in people digging in their heels.Changing minds and actions also involvesempathy, listening, questioning and,in particular, stories. Harvard Professorand author of
Changing Minds
, HowardGardner, puts it this way: “The principalvehicle of leadership is the story: the leaderaffects individual behavior, thought, andfeelings through the stories that he andshe tells.”
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WAYS LEADERS USE STORIESAND WHY THEY ARE EFFECTIVE
Leaders can tell stories to paint a vision orstrategic direction, share a lesson, conveyvalues or illustrate desired behaviours.Stories also have an ability to forge deeperconnections between people, so inspiringthem to focus their attention and take action.As Terrence Gargiulo said, “The shortestdistance between two people is a story.”
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Stories work for leaders as a successfulcommunication and engagement techniquefor several reasons.
Firstly, stories convey emotion effectively
,and emotion united with a strong idea ispersuasive. We remember what we feel.And our emotions inspire us to take action.
Why some leaders inspire actionwhile others are mostly forgettable
THE VITAL ROLE OF BUSINESS STORYTELLING
By Shawn Callahan
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i agree to a point, every situation are not the same, as in every day is different.