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First Time Set upIf you are treating your wife or partner like a new person, then you need tostart over how you approach her. You may have what you considered aregular sex life right through menopause with your wife. Women will tolerateand do many things just to keep her husbands happy, but that doesn’t meanit is satisfying or pleasurable. Many couples work under “don’t ask, don’t tellrule” of lovemaking and sex. The man doesn’t want to ask because he wantsto get release and the woman doesn’t want him to be hurt or upset. So shegoes through the motions of lovemaking and he never inquires about her needs. Another issue which the majority of men never even think about isnot only does a woman want to satisfy her man she wants him to haveenjoyment in the act. Most of the time men are focused on their performanceissues never knowing the woman is in the same situation and also feeling thepressure to perform. Hers is from a giving space and his is from ego.We are going to hit the reset button and essentially start all over sexually.Hey she’s got a new body that has been under constant change for a number of years. So just like a reset button on an electronic device we are going tostart with a clean slate. Yes we will have memories of past experiences goodand bad but every attempt should be made to start fresh. Power ON / OFFStarting all over again means just that starting from the beginning andlearning how to make it work to the end. We know that sex can be repetitiveand boring especially after years of the same actions followed by the sameresponses. If you knew that your sex life was going to improve with a littlepractice and effort would you do it? This is fun practice not the serious kind!Remote controls and pushbuttons have made it very easy to watch television,but that has nothing to do with you wife or partner. The days of instantaccess to her are over but pushing the right buttons in sequence can beextraordinary. You know where erogenous areas of a woman's body arelocated but there is an order of stimulation that will work best for her. Don’teven start the following practice unless you have an hour of free time. Theremust be no pressure of time restraints for this exercise to work. You can dothis in bedroom or the living room but it should be done daily if at all possibleand it will have a progression of increased sexual energy leading to orgasms.Naturally the bedroom is the best place to do it, but since many of theseexercises can be stopped at any point it doesn’t really matter. Whentouching her body do it various degrees of pressure sometimes softsometimes harder but not the same way! Keep changing it but it should

always be slow and gentle. Everything we are talking about does not have tohappen the first time but the slow touch is mandatory.The state of mind you are in is going to effect these practices and outcome.The reason I keep saying your wife should be in charge of sex is to makesure she in sync with what you want to do. That is why the “new oral sex’ isso important before you go any further. If your partner is in an unhappymood and you begin to touch her, you will cause that negative feeling to beattached to the touch. It is called anchoring and is very hard to undo. That iswhy if you touch her and she reprimands you. You may have saidsomething negative and fired off an emotional response and then held her or touched her. When she touches you again in the same way, her unconscious minds will recall that emotion. So if you are going to touch her make sure she wants it and both of you have a good attitude. If noteverything we are trying to do will be thrown out the window. If she says notnow and you persist, we are going to backslide to the point where sex will notbe new and fun. Let her say yes and everything will begin to flow. She saysno you say you understand (even if you don’t) and back off. Once again thatsimple action of respecting and understanding her needs will pay off later.The First TipsThe French probably have studied more about how to stimulate a womanthan any other country. You remember all those movies where a woman wasintroduced to a Frenchmen and he kissed her hand. It was like a signal inher brain let the seduction begin. Start with the hands by kissing thefingertips or messaging the hands. This is to be done gently and softly; youare almost tickling her hands. Your lips should brush the fingertips. Youshould wait to see if the tension in her hands goes away and her wristsbecome loose. This is a sign she is relaxing and enjoying the attention youare giving her. The Chinese believe that you should work their middle finger first then add the forefinger and index finger. Slow and gentle movement isthe key.You can stroke the palms of the hands, even better you can kiss the palmsand gently lick them. Don’t forget to use your eyes and make contact withher eyes while doing this or any action. The eyes are the gateway to the souland mind. If her pupils dilate then you know she is relaxing. You can write Ilove you with your tongue on her hand and suggest she guess what thewords are. This is a good time to give her some “new oral sex” and tell her how soft her hands are and how much you love kissing them. Your job hereis to focus on her and watch how she is reacting to every move you make. Aperson who really cares what her needs are is replacing Mr. Automatic.

Next is to gently massage her feet. Don't tickle her! You can ruin mood by jolting her. We are trying to get her to relax and feel comfortable. The moreshe relaxes the better she will respond to you and your caressing.Remember to breath at the same rate she is to increase the rapport betweenthe both of you. Massage each foot and then kiss her toes, ask if you canlick them or, suck on them. DON'T bite them! If you have never done any of this before you need to tell her what you want to do. Surprises are great for parties but not at this stage. She has a new body with new needs and wewant her to enjoy everything we plan to do. The other key to what you aredoing is to remember what works and what doesn't. You can tell by certainbody movements or a change in her complexion a dark pink flush of the faceis always a good sign in bed. Don't forget to talk to her, tell her how muchyou are enjoying this and ask her what is working for her. Your attitude andactions should be like your touching this woman for the first time. Pretendthis woman is not your wife but someone new and different, because she isreally new and different inside and out.You can reverse the order and start with the feet first then do her hands. Youcan stop after you do these two procedures or continue to the next level. It isnot your decision but hers. So give her “the new oral sex” and ask what shewants. If she says keep going then do so. The first couple of times it mightbe better that you just stop and say nothing. Let her tell you what to do or if she wants you to continue. She may just smile and say thank you that’senough or she might move closer and ask you to continue. IMPORTANT!She decides no matter how horny or hard you may get. Do these startingexercises five or six times and she will want you to continue. There is nohurry or rush, it’s like you are floating on a raft in the ocean.She will expect that after you have finished with her feet or hands, you wouldnaturally go to the breasts or pubic area. You are breaking all the rules andhabits you may have been doing for the past 20 years. We use to call itmaking out or necking, we'll you can't make out if you don't neck and that'swhere were going to next. The neck is one of the most sensitive areas of awoman's body. You probably know how to work this area but slow it down.Stroke her neck, then kiss it, and nibble on it and then work the other side.Once again no fast movements, she's over 50 not 15 and both of you need tosavor every moment and she needs time to adjust to her body and your improving style. When we were teenagers fast a jerky movements wereexcusable by our inexperience but were over 50 and should know what weare doing. She will probably cringe or giggle as you work the neck area tryremembering those positive clues for future sessions. Once again this couldbe the final stage of your session tonight. Leaving her wanting more will onlyincrease the sexual energy the next time you start.Since you’re in the area give some attention to her ears. You have been withher before so you should know if she likes it or not. Some women go crazywhen you nibble on their ear lobes or gently lick their ears. Others hate it or feel uncomfortable about it. Since we are in slow motion you will be able totell how she feels by her reaction. Things might have changed, her body isnot the same one you have been use too. Give the ears some attention andthen register her reaction.

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Manual for Women

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