Do you really want a job?
And are you willing to follow through, and do myplan?
It is important to get this agreement right from the start. This is partly tosave my breath, but also to eliminate the ‘a la carte’ or “pick and choose” mentality.Since “their way” has not worked, I need to see if they are willing to apply full positive energy in new direction that is bound to bring them many benefits. Myquestion assumes they trust me, which they do. (That is why they called.) If theysay ‘yes,’ (which they all do) then we proceed to:
What kind of job?
What are your best bets? If that field seems blocked, or glutted,we will still work and affirm for it, but I will also ask:
Is there any training or certification that you can acquire in a relatively shortamount of time that will enhance your chances and value in your chosen field?A
nd I will also ask:
What is your second best option, and how can we can we make it better?
Sometimes, especially once a person is in his 50’s, we must cultivate the concept of practical flexibility. Paramhansa Yogananda said that most people, once they hit age40, become “psychological antiques.” This negative quality is also death to the jobsearch, so, be flexible and try to look at things in a fresh way.
5.What time did you normally get up, have breakfast, and leave for work?
Okay – that is your new schedule. Vacation is over.
Be dressed and ready for work. This helps gets your vibration in tune with employment. (Note, this can beadjusted, if necessary, to a generic Monday to Friday, 9-5 model. But that means – ready to
be at work
from 9-5 – dressed, fed and ready to go. It would also mean acommute time…Work with this idea. It is there to help YOU.
How would you dress each day for your preferred job?
Suit? Khakis and shirtwith tie, or no tie? What kind of shoes? (For women, I ask the same questions, butgeared to female clothing). Once this has been discussed I say:
You will now dress for your preferred work each day…
If younormally pad around the house barefoot, too bad: You don’t now. You are “atwork.” If you are barefoot indoors for spiritual or cultural reasons, then buyyourself a brand new pair of work shoes, and wear them indoors only, as “clean”shoes. Once you have a job, you can then use them as regular work shoes. Do notuse slippers for this purpose, or any form of shoes you would not wear at your preferred job, because:
Studies have been done regarding shoes/no shoes.
This involved telemarketerswho worked from home. People could tell, simply from their voice, etc., whether or not they were wearing shoes. So, think what this does to your work vibe when youcall for an interview, or even worse, do a phone interview for a job! The employer might not think –“Oh he’s not wearing shoes,” but, rather, “He seems dreamy or notvery serious, or like he doesn’t really want this job.”
Material Success Affirmation
Memorize it line by line, if you have to. This embeds it intoyour subconscious where it can do battle with your negative and discouragedthought patterns. It is very powerful to do this right before bed, and right when you