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A Letter from Rabbi William Gershon

A Letter from Rabbi William Gershon

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Published by Robert Wilonsky
Rabbi William Gershon in Dallas, at Shearith Israel, responds to LA's Rabbi David Wolpe, who says that a Dallas boy's bar mitzvah party was an abomination.
Rabbi William Gershon in Dallas, at Shearith Israel, responds to LA's Rabbi David Wolpe, who says that a Dallas boy's bar mitzvah party was an abomination.

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Published by: Robert Wilonsky on Aug 19, 2013
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A Response to Rabbi David Wolpe’s Article in the Washington Post
By Rabbi William GershonSenior Rabbi Congregation Shearith IsraelFeldman Family Senior Rabbinic ChairDear David:Hope this email finds you well. I felt I had to respond regarding your article that appeared in
the Washington Post, “Have we forgotten what Bar Mitzvahs are all about?” 
owever beautiful his religious ceremony may have been, and however sincerethe Judaism of his family (I don't know and cannot judge)..
.” Well
that is true, you don'tknow and you cannot judge. But I do know and I can judge.I am Sam's rabbi and have known him his entire life. And by the way his name is Sam andnot, as you mockingly call him, "Sammy."
Not only was Sam’s Bar Mitzvah beautiful
andmeaningful, but also Sam is not just some kid who had a blow-out Bar Mitzvah party. Hegoes to our Hebrew School, has sung in the youth choir for years on Shabbat and the HighHolidays, took his study of the Torah portion very seriously, loves being Jewish and lovesIsrael and the Jewish people. Sam requested that his guests not give him gifts, (the
opposite of what most b’nai mitzvah do) but rather to contribute money to the Ben Yakir
Youth Village in Israel. To celebrate becoming Bar Mitzvah, Sam went to Israel with hisfamily. Unlike many kids his age, (at the time he was not even 13), Sam was focused onhelping under-privileged Israeli kids and not doing the
activities that most B’nai
Mitzvah trips stress. He took this mitzvah very seriously and raised $36,000.
You don’t know Sam, David, but I do and the Sam I know is a sweet kid with a sensitive
neshama. The Sam I know loves to lead services from the bimah and sing the songs of hispeople. The Sam I know may come from a family of great financial means, but whoselargesse to the Jewish Community and to Israel is an inspiration to all of us who have theprivilege of knowing them. And I can attest that not only has his family passed on the valueof giving and Tzedakah to Sam, but they possess a deep sense of Jewish belonging and
commitment which permeates their family and is very much in Sam’s heart and life.
The 3 minute dance he performed at his party, however questionable, hardly portrays acomplete picture of who Sam is or his core values.I have no problem with a rabbi railing against materialism, misplaced values, or exhortingthe community to understand the sacred nature of Bar Mitzvah and its meaning. I havewritten and spoken about such issues for years in my own community. My issue, David, withwhat you wrote has to do with the vituperative tone of your words
the way they mock andhumiliate one of the children of my synagogue in the public forum. Sam is not an object. Heis a
Tzelem Elohim, an image of God,
who happens to have a passion for performing andacting and singing.I would have understood had you critiqued the nature of bar and bat mitzvah celebrations in
all of our communities, yours included. I would have welcomed your criticism of the media’s
of “Bar Mitzvah” and the sensationalism that has followed. But your words
play right into that sensationalism and buttress the real travesty of this matter
theegregious and hateful words directed at a child of God, which have now gone viral on theInternet and blogosphere.

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