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“Say What?!”
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H e s a y s ,
“ I l o v e y o u . ”
H e m e a n s ,
“ I l i k e y o u f o r n o w . ”
She hears,
“ I w a n t t o m a r r y y o u. ”
GIRLS
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nence:
R e fra in ing from all se xual ac t i v i ty includ ing oral se x.
P ur it y:
Sav in g your self men t ally , emot ion ally ,an d physically un t ilmar r iage an d af t er mar r iage r emain in gf ait hf ul t o your spouse.
Second V irg in i ty:
Choos ing from th ismomen t on to rema in se xually pure un t il marr iage.
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atching my single mother rushing intorelationships blindly, giving her body andlosing pieces of her heart, I was always pretty sure Iwanted to wait until marriage to have sex. But after hearing a camp counselor share how wonderful itwas to give herself as a wedding gift to her husband,I was positive I wanted my wedding night to be asamazing as hers.As I got older, my reasons for commit-ment became even deeper. I started to realize the physical, emotional, and relational risks involvedin sex outside of marriage. I was relieved not tohave to worry about having an STD. I witnessed theself-esteem of my girlfriends and mom plummet asguys slept with them and then moved on to the nextrelationship seemingly unfazed. I was grateful for the confidence I had that guys I dated were interestedin me because of who I was and not what I had tooffer physically.I love knowing that someday when I marry,I will be able to reach a level of intimacy with myhusband that I have never had with anyone else.This intimacy will bond us together for life. I amcommitted to saving myself as a gift for him alone.If you have already shared your gift and had your heart broken, you can still reap the benefits of second virginity. Wrap your gift back up with a tagthat says “Reserved for Someone Special” and vowto save it for your wedding night!
Jaime Rau is the founder of PurelyCommitted, Int. (est. 2001), anorganization dedicated to encouraging peers to save sex for marriage.Visit www.purelycommitted.org.
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irls, next time you do your final mirror check inthe morning—check this out! Dressing modestlyis a crucial element in staying abstinent until marriage.Dressing modestly is important if you desire to protectand assist the guys in your life who wish to remainabstinent as well. You might think that it’s “their problem,” but guys are wired differently from girls inwhat turns them on. Guys are visual, so when a girl isdressing to show off (wearing tight pants, low cutshirts, etc…) it is hard for guys because they arestimulated by what they see. This doesn’t give guys anexcuse to stare, but overall, modesty also helps girls tohave positive self-esteem and self-respect. Wouldn’tyou want to know that your husband fell in love withwho you are and not just your body? You deserve moredignity and respect than just having guys chase after you because they’re lusting after your body. Startrespecting yourself and your guy friends bydressing modestly!
“ I wa n t a g i r l w ho is s ma r t, f u n n y, p re t t y, a nd res pec ts me e no ug h to he l p me wa i t fo r ma r r iage. ”- B ra ndo n
I don’t see a wedding ring onmy finger!I’m waiting for marriage.If you really loved me youwouldn’t pressure me.I’m saving that for my futurehusband.Wrong question. It’s over!We’ve talked about thisbefore; the answer is still NO!You’ll have to ask my parents.NO!
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