Professional Documents
Culture Documents
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Chapter 7
Dealing
with
Conflict
Interpersonal Dynamics
Interpersonal dynamics – are the give and
take behavior between people during human
relations
Interpersonal dynamics grow increasingly
Transactional
Analysis
Assertiveness
Conflict
Management
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passive
aggressive
assertive
Ulterior Transactions
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Complementary Transactions
Occur when the sender
of the message gets the
Supervisor Employee
intended response from
the receiver P P
Generally result in more
effective communication A A
C C
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Crossed Transactions
Occur when the sender
of a message does not
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get the expected
response from the P P
receiver
These result in surprise, A A
disappointment, and hurt
feelings for the sender of C C
the message
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Ulterior Transactions
Occur when the words seem to be coming
from one ego state, but in reality the words or
behaviors are coming from another
Sometimes when people don’t know what they
want or how to ask for it in a direct way, they
resort to ulterior transactions
Best to avoid ulterior transactions because they
tend to waste time
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Positive
I’m OK – I’m OK –
You’re not OK You’re OK
Negative Positive
TA: Stroking
Stroking – any behavior that implies
recognition of another’s presence
Positive– make people feel good about
themselves
Negative – can hurt people in some way
Assertiveness
The process of expressing thoughts and
feelings while asking for what one wants in
an appropriate way
Present your message without falling into the
traps of being:
“too pushy” (aggressive)
“not tough enough” (nonassertive-passive)
Passive Aggressive
Behavior Behavior
Passive-Aggressive Assertive
Behavior Behavior
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Assertive Behavior
Generally the most productive behavior
Usually the most effective method of getting
situation
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Assertiveness Steps
Step 1. Set an Objective:
Specify what you want to accomplish
Step 2. Determine how to create a win-win
situation:
Assess the situation in terms of meeting your
needs and the other person’s needs
Step 3. Develop an assertive phrase(s)
Step 4. Implement your plan persistently
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same behavior
Don’t give orders or ultimatums
Organizational Prevention of
Violence (1 of 2)
Trainall employees to deal with anger and
prevent violence
Awritten policy addressing workplace violence
Best preventive policy is a zero-tolerance policy
aggression at work
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Organizational Prevention of
Violence (2 of 2)
Organizations can screen job
applicants for past or potential violence
Develop a good work environment that
person
Neverstand between the person and the exit
Know when to get away from the person
staff
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Conflict
Exists whenever two or more parties are in
disagreement
Is inherent in an organizational system
more diverse
Dealing with it is part of emotional
intelligence
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Exhibit 7.4
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Initiator
Responder
Mediator
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Exhibit 7.6
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human relations
be careful not to use aggressive behavior to get
state
watch the appropriate use of the child ego state