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The Power of “No”
Did you know there is one word that will make a man fall in love with you?By continually saying this, a man will start to realize you’re the one heneeds to be with.Women have the mistaken belief that by putting a man’s needs first, doingwhat he wants and taking care of him will make him fall in love. It actuallyhas the opposite effect.You can be great in bed, hotter than Megan Fox, kind, sweet, generous andsupportive, yet he will still not want to make a commitment if you never saythat word. That one word is “No.”A friend of mine recently announced his engagement to a woman he’s datedfor about a year. When I asked him why he chose to marry her and not his previous girlfriend, who he had been with for almost four years, he said itwas because she didn’t let him get away with bad behavior. He knew if hedidn’t change, she’d be out of there. She said “No” to being mistreated.Why does this make a woman attractive? As usual, it’s all about biology.We are all subconsciously looking for someone who will ensure our survival. A woman who can say “No” to what she doesn’t want, shows thatshe is strong, and therefore, a better bet to help him “survive” in the modern jungle.This means that your wants and needs are just as important as his. You say“No” to what doesn’t feel right to you, to what you don’t want, and ask for what you
do
want.Otherwise, if you can’t say “No” to what you don’t want and are willing to put up with a man’s bad behavior,
 
how will he know that you will be able tosay “No” to other men; how will you be able to be strong enough to protecthis children or take care of business when he’s not around?The instinctual part of his brain will tell him you are not a safe woman to bewith for the long term, so he will never be able to take you seriously.
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