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Purpose
This interactive session will help you build up your personal capabilities in managing your emotions and perceptions toward achieving your business results when negotiations occur.
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AGENDA
Negotiation Basics Rational Thought and Critical Thinking Perception and Observation Listening Skills
Negotiation Basics
Definitions: Negotiations
To move or shift a belief, a position or course of action by creating a new set of values and behavior by providing relevant and believable information. A discussion of two or more parties respective wants and needs which aims for a mutually satisfying agreement. To create a need to obtain a product or service in exchange for something of value.
Creating The Negotiating Environment to Achieve Profitable Results Negotiation is not by definition a process where one party must win and the other party must lose, although all too often it ends with that result.
Remember, the objective is to obtain profitable results. The purpose is not to embarrass, step on or kill the other party!
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Emotions
Negotiation processes and outcomes may create both positive and negative feelings Joy, pain, happiness, anger, hate, impatience, competitiveness, bias, good vibrations, sadness, feeling bad, loss of face, liking a situation and stubbornness are some of the emotions that can be generated.
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List five items that some people exhibit or have that you really admire
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If emotional control and focus is lost, you will never ACHIEVE your goals and objectives!
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Controlling Your Thoughts and Emotional Responses! Keep your eyes on the prize. Objectives, Purpose, Goals, Vision or Mission !
Focused
Instinct
Ego
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Non-Verbal Observations
Definition: Any information that your senses perceive that is not written or spoken Examples: Physical Gestures and Attitudes
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Non-Verbal Observations
Not looking you in the eyes (mistrust, fear) Watching the clock/watch (impatient or going somewhere) Yawning (Bored, not focused, inattentive) Sitting on edge of seat (paying attention, interested in what you are saying) Arms folded across chest (defensive)
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Non-Verbal Observations
Stroking Chin (evaluating) Packing their bags (Im out of here!) Stepping aside or backing away (deference) Head in palm of hand (bored) Hands on Hips (ready, set, go) Hands behind head and leaning back (territorially dominant, has answers already)
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Listening Skills
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Listening Skills
Completely focused vs selective listening Did you understand what you heard? Is the speaker saying one thing, but meaning something else? Words and Music aligned? Are you talking too much to listen to others? Silence is Golden! Listen, dont evaluate!
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Listening Skills
Dont be distracted by gestures or mannerisms! Be patient and understanding to the speaker!
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-What is the basis for your position on this issue? -What is your perceptions or beliefs around this issue
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Summary
Thinking Drives Behavior Equals Results