You are not out at work and are
aware that your work colleagues
are wondering about your

You suspect that one of your
younger siblings is gay. Do you
talk to them about it?

Two close friends wish to have a
baby. They wish you to assist but
don\u2019t want you to take further
responsibility for the child. Do you
agree?

A fellow colleague at work is
dismissed. It is common
knowledge that it is because they
are gay. Do you challenge your
boss knowing you could be treated
the same?

You go to dinner with some new
friends and find that you ex is also
a guest. You have not seen each
other since a bitter break up. Do
you make an excuse and leave at
the earliest opportunity?

Your best friend is moving in with
their new partner, who you believe
to be bad news. Your friend is
deeply in love. Do you try to
dissuade your friend from moving
in?

You come across your partner\u2019s
personal diary. Do you glance
through it?

You are offered \u00a310,000 to appear nude as a centrefold for a popular gay publication. Do you accept?

Your partner does not satisfy your
sexual needs. You meet someone
who will. Do you get involved?

Your new gay neighbours invite
you and your partner to watch a
video. Surprisingly it turns out to
be a hard core porn film. Do you
stay and watch?

Your partner is developing an
intimate friendship with another
gay person. Your partner tells you
it is strictly platonic. Do you
oppose their friendship?

Your partner has bought a new
outfit for a special occasion that
they think is fabulous. You think it
is unflattering and tacky. Do you
say so?

Your partner always wanted a child
but you don\u2019t. You always thought
that was one of the advantages of
being gay is not having any
children. Do you agree to their
need for a child?

Your partner tells you that they do
not like your best friend. Do you
stop seeing your best friend?

You are conscripted to fight in a
war that is unjust. If you tell the
authorities that you are gay, you
can avoid conscription. Do you tell
them you are gay?

A gay doctor makes unacceptable
sexual advances to you in their
surgery. Do you report them to the
medical association?

A friend\u2019s partner is obviously
attracted to you and tries it on with
you. You have always fancied
them. Do you tell them to keep
away?

The door person at your favourite
gay venue fancies you. Do you flirt
with them to get on the guest list?

You and your partner expect
loyalty and honesty from one
another. One night, out of town you
have a one-night stand. Do you tell
your partner?

Someone in your youth group
makes a racist / sexist comment but
only you heard them. Do you
mention it?

Two of your friends become
romantically involved. One is HIV
positive but the other does not
know. Do you tell your friend?

Your partner has been unfaithful.
You have been in love for many
years and this is the first time. Do
you finish the relationship?

You are out shopping with your
mother. You spot an outrageous
friend further down the street. The
friend is very open about their
sexuality to everyone they meet.
Do you avoid them?

You see the supposedly
heterosexual heartthrob from your
work place at a gay bar but they do
not see you. Do you mention it to
them the next time you meet?

You know you are attractive do you
use your sex appeal to get ahead in
your career?

You meet a gorgeous person and
exchange numbers. The next
morning you realise you had been
drinking a lot. Do you call them
first?

You have met the person of your
dreams but they are about to be
deported. If you appeal against
their deportation your sexuality
will be exposed in the press. Do
you still appeal?

Someone attempts to befriend you
but you are not interested. Later
you learn they are a financial
wizard. You desperately need free
financial advice and don\u2019t know
anyone else. Do you call them?

You are making a health insurance
claim. The broker asks questions
about your sexuality. If you inform
them you are gay you will pay
higher premiums. Do you tell them
you are gay?