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That’s a very empowering thing, and youngpeople need to hear and realize that.
FACING YOUR DEMONS
When I’m taking someone’s portrait,I have to face my own demons everytime. I have to get out of mycomfort zone and reachout with an open heart.You have to be bravepsychologically andemotionally to open up,because there’s a goodchance that people
will abuse that; they
can be rude back, ornot play, or chooseto offend you if youopen yourself uptoo much.I’ve come to realize thatmost of the time, peoplerespond to my opennessby opening up themselves,and human beings willalways look to each other fora sign from the face or body thatsays, “Are you OK? Are you notOK?” That’s what smiling is for.When you smile at someone, you’regiving them a sign that you’re content,happy and that you have something to give. Ifyou grimace at somebody, you give them thesign “Back off, I’m vulnerable” or “I’m in pain,stay away from me.” That simple gesturecan transform a meeting, can transform ahuman relationship.
Politicians and movie stars have gured
it out - doing it as an act is one thing,but really believing it is another. Peopledo know the difference. That’s something Ilearned early on, and that’s got nothing
to do with photography; that’s just
studying the human conditionand really trying to understandwhat makes people tick. That’smuch more valuable to me asa photographer than learningabout f-stops and all that. Whatyou don’t learn out of a bookis people skills and overcomingyour fears and being brave with yourinsecurities and saying, “I’m just goingto sail right out there and open myselflike a bloody book for this personto read.” Nine times out of 10, themost beautiful warmth comes backfrom people.
WELCOME TO THEWHITE HOUSE
Last week, I photographedMichelle Obama in the
White House for her rst iconic
session. On meeting her, I held out myhand and said, “Mrs. Obama, it’s an honor tomeet you,” and she brushed my hand aside, puther arms on my shoulders and gave me a kiss onboth cheeks and said, “Welcome to the WhiteHouse.” Now that’s a devastatingly beautifulthing. That’s someone who has something togive. Of course people can abuse that, peoplecan choose not to be bewitched by that charm,but I found it incredibly beautiful. From thatmoment on, we connected.
This is a human thing. I’m not an intellectual;
I’m really not, even though I spend most of mylife dealing with really clever people. I’m anintuitive person, I’m a human person. That’s
my job, that’s my career. I nd that I can be in
a room full of the most intellectual people onthe planet, but you can cut through all that byfeeling something and showing it and beinghonest about yourself. You can’t lie to peopleabout yourself, because it shows. Honestyis the one thing you can communicate withanybody about. You can meet a king or a poorman on the street, and the one thing you have incommon with them is that you’re honest about
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I’m just going to sailright out there andopen myself like abloody book for this person to read.
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photo by Mike McGregor
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