Alright, let's get started on those Tantric secrets that aregoing to rev up your sex life. Tantra isn't just about technique, after all if that's all ittook to be a master lover, everyone would already be that. There are some basics that you need to get under your belt,so to speak, before we get to the main event. Let's talk the talk. Communication, as you know, is a primary ingredient. Sometimes the words we already know for our body parts sound tooclinical or have bad associations, so it makes it difficult tospeak to your partner about specifics without embarressment. The words we are going to use for women are, YONI for the vagina,PEARL for the clitoris, and breasts for, of course the breasts. Yoni means sacred space... that very thought brings honor and beauty to a place many women think of as DOWN THERE... Can you imagine how sexy it is to lean across a restaurant tableand say to your partner.. Would you like to polish my PEARL? Or as a man wanting to make your woman feel worshipped, you mightask permission before entering the temple, the scared space. Men you aren't going to be left out either. There are many words for the penis but few are empowering andhonoring. The Tantric word for penis is LINGHAM or VAJHRA.. these meanthe WAND OF LIGHT. A beautiful instrument that can be usedfor healing as well as pleasure. and of course the testicles, we call the JEWELS. With more elegant words for the act of sex, or as we call it...UNION.. there is the ability to create honor and sacrednessto something that is suppose to be beautiful and loving. We can elevate our feelings about something that theremay be negative thoughts about, or feelings of shame. Oral sex is called honoring..One might want to honor the pearl, for instance.