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WHY PEOPLE PLAY EMOTIONAL GAMESWHEN THEY ARE CLOSE TO YOU!!
Dilip Jhunjhunwala,
dilipjhunjhunwala@yahoo.com
Before you realize it, you get confused and start questioning yourself whether you havedone anything wrong to that person!!! And this is exactly what he/she wanted to create inyou so that you can be overpowered easily by him/her and you lose your precious peaceof mind and growth in life!!Just intuitively catch hold of such situations quickly to avoid further trap else you will bekilling yourself for no reasons.This feature of playing emotional games with near and dear ones at the right time (whenthey see it is) is prominently found in people of developing countries (especially India)The symptoms and behavior of the person playing emotional game with you:1.
 
He/she will suddenly start ignoring you on few or many occasions.2.
 
His/her body language will attempt to make you feel guilty without any logic therein.3.
 
He/she will speak with cunningness sometimes and ‘will try to confuse you as to whathe/she wants to say.4.
 
‘Will give hints to problems but will increase his/her price to be expressive and willnever be honest to express himself/herself.5.
 
‘Will try to come too close to you physically to communicate with the intention to affectyour body aura as per his/her convenience6.
 
‘Will blame you always with different styles (usually through negative body language)and blames will be dragging in nature with politeness and affection.7.
 
‘Will insult you softly and sharply (when it is felt that the possibility of reaction is remotefor some reason or the other) and then will act innocent as if nothing has happened.
 
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‘Will quickly say sorry when you catch him/her but will continue his/her actions to hurtyou emotionally again at the right time in future.9.
 
‘Will express that he/she loves you a lot and can do anything for you and many times youwill also find such people standing by for you so that you literally get confused abouthis/her mind games.10.
 
‘Will blame, drag, hurt you and then ‘will act with affection.11.
 
Will remain quiet and will stare you when you are outspoken in clarifying the issue.12.
 
You will clearly feel that he/she is judging you always by acting innocent.13.
 
‘Will never say what he/she thinks but will always try to peep and enter inside you toknow more of you always.
 By intruding their main objective is to gain power over you.
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‘Will ask too many personal questions and will create too many stories to justify his/heractions.15.
 
Such people can even cry (like crocodile) when needed.16.
 
They are intuitive in nature to understand you weaknesses and strengths and they verywell understand and ‘are aware about the degree of your emotional dependence onhim/her.17.
 
‘Will immediately change the matter to other topics when you insist to clarifyIn general tore-capitulate, we can list the most common characteristic of abusers (onewho plays emotional games with you) as follows:
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They have a low level of tolerance, a volatile temper and any minimal incident triggerstheir negative reaction.
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They are very insecure, excessively possessive and jealous. They feel a strong need tocontrol others or restrict their rights and freedom.
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They need submissive people willing to obey their rules.
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Often, they have very superficial relationships with different partners.
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They don’t commit but talk a lot about commitments
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They have unrealistic expectations.
 
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They are very demanding.
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They like to give orders and they hate asking questions. When you ask questions, theytake it as an opportunity to dominate you.
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They have a great ability to deceive others and they also deceive themselves often.
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They never acknowledge the harm they cause.
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They are inconsiderate and never show empathy towards others.
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Usually, they have a dual personality: they can be charming and cruel at the same time.These are very general characteristics. We also need to remember that each person isunique, and an abuser may exhibit some personal traits that other abusers may not have.Abusers may be either male or female, and they can also be parents, employers, teachers,beloved, friends etc.Broadly speaking, these people will be hypocrite in action and will be emotionallyintelligent in dealing with the odd situations. Hence people from indirect and hypocritecultures are more adept in playing such emotional games. For example: Indians.
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Such games are commonly played by someone who is very close to youemotionally such as beloved or someone (your friend, relative, or whosoever) onwhom you started trusting a lot gradually.
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The prime reason of playing mind games/ emotional games with others is to GIVEPOWER TO ONESELF and to DOMINATE OVER OTHER PERSON whichserves dual objective of easily hiding oneself and making other person do whathe/she wants to in future.
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These people are psychologically sick in nature without any doubt. The fuellingforce in such craps is the jealousness and their self weakness and dirtiness whichthey cannot resist but to find ways to take out.
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These people look very cool and soft in words, will act very helpful to you andwill try to come extreme close to you.
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The tendency to gain power over others comes from in depth
competitive
feeling, jealous feeling, failure in one’s life, bad past experiences, animal instincts,uneducated self, idleness where one has enough time to think the strategy of playing games, or he/she just has not been properly educated.
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Most importantly they just can’t resist to play games as if Scorpio cant stop itspoisonous needling to others.
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