No matter how gay you guys might think it is, to us females it's cute and sweet..it's thethought and the effort that counts:)1. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous (not fine, or sexy.)2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.3. Kiss her on the forehead/neck.4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.7. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.8. Write her notes. (she loves them.)9. Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend and not your chick!10. Play with her hair.11. Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.12. Sit in the park and just talk to her.13. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.16. Give her piggyback rides.17. Bring her flowers.18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.19. Look her in the eyes and smile.20. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.21. Kiss her in the rain.22. If you're in love with her . . . tell her.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~This is from a guy and more for the guys to read. It gives a more in depth explanation of the 22 points above:#1. A woman can look sexy without being beautiful. She wants to know that you think she is beautiful. So tell her.#2. That moment that your hand touches hers, she will switch her attention from whatever it was on, to you. She will know at that instant that you are thinking of her, and that she isthinking of you. She will feel your heart reaching out to hers.#3. A woman gets a different feeling when kissed on the forehead or neck, but she loves both feelings. So do it! She's delicious!#4. Say something nice to her in your message. Don't say something like "Don't forgetthat I'm going to be home late tonight, so have dinner ready at 8PM."#5. There is a little girl inside of every woman that needs your comforting arms aroundher when she is having a bad moment.#6. She does countless little things for you every day. She needs to know that you noticeand appreciate those small things. Like folding your socks, doing the laundry, cleaningthe bathroom, picking up after you. Thank her for those things. Try not to make extrawork for her. You know how to put your clothes in the clothes hamper. You know how to put the seat down. You know how not to pee on the rim. Rinse the sink when you aredone brushing your teeth. Take out the trash without her having to remind you. Don'twear your shoes in the house. Recognizing the small things helps to give her energy tomake it through each day. Buying expensive presents is not going to make her love you.She values the little thoughtful things. Try being thoughtful.#7. Make sure that she knows she is not just part of the pack. She doesn't want to feel likeshe is one of your groupies. She wants to feel like she is your princess, or your queen. Lether know that her company means more to you than that of any other girl you know.#8. Just the fact that you took a moment of time to write her a note means a lot to her.They are little surprises for her day to let her know that you were thinking of her. Put onein a book she's reading, and other places where she will find them during her day.#9. Introducing her as your girlfriend means that she is 'The One'. If you introduce her asyour chick, it sounds more like she is just some girl that you met in a dive bar or alongside the road. There is no 'specialness' to being your 'chick'. 'Chick' sounds tootemporary, and lacks strong feeling.#10. Women have a special relationship with their hair. When you play with it (in a nice

way), she feels a stronger intimacy with you. She doesn't let just anybody play with her hair.#11. The tickling and play wrestling is a form of foreplay. Women take longer to get inthe mood for lovemaking, and the tickling and play wrestling helps to set the mood for later that day or evening. Foreplay can start several hours before you get to the more passionate stuff. Some women will act like they don't like the tickling, but they really do(if you don't overdo it.) A few women really do hate it...you poor unlucky bastard.#12. Women like to talk. They like to share feelings. Just sitting and talking with her willallow her to get out some of her feelings, and also learn more about you. But don't tell her everything about you. Keep some mystery. Try to learn more about her. And remember what she tells you. If you have to, write it down in a journal (keep it hidden.)Remembering those small details means a lot to her.#13. Women love to hear jokes. We all do. She especially loves to laugh with you.Laughing releases chemicals into the bloodstream that help to boost a person's mood. Awoman feels a stronger attraction to a guy who makes her laugh.#14. Let her fall asleep in your arms, and wake up in your arms. Let her feel your heart beating as she drifts off to sleep (it helps convince her that you are not a heartless robot.)Let her know that she is safe in your arms, and that you feel she belongs there...that youwant her there in your arms.#15. She will probably try to slap you, but at least you're telling her that you still love her,even when she has a childish tantrum and treats you like crap. Sometimes, she mayrealize how childish that she is acting, and smile, and kiss you back. Don't count on thathappening, but it could...maybe...?#16. Piggyback rides give her another chance to wrap her arms around you. She gets tohave her head near yours. She gets to feel your strength. She gets to wrap her legs aroundyou. And, she doesn't have to walk. (If she weighs more than you, then maybe a piggyback ride isn't advisable.)#17. Bring her flowers without having to have a reason. Don't bring her flowers only onValentine's Day. Don't get them from a grave site. Don't giver her plastic flowers. Giveher fresh, real flowers. Find out what color and kind that she likes, and give those to her most often.#18, If you treat her differently when your friends are around, she might wonder whatyou say about her behind her back. Treating her differently implies that you also talk about her differently. Treating her the same means that you are not ashamed or embarrassed about her, and that you have nothing to hide.#19. Women communicate differently from men, and direct eye contact is important tothem. And so is your smile. She likes to see your face light up when you look at her. And