punishment against themselves or others. On the other hand, lying to obtain areward is common. Another motive is to avoid physical harm, when punishment isnot the harm. Avoiding embarrassment, getting out of uncomfortable situations,maintaining privacy, and exercise control over others also makes the list (Ekman,2001). In terms of gender, is there a difference in how women and men lie?Pease and Pease (2001) suggest there is a difference in how men and womenlie. Women do it more, better, and are superior lie detectors. The authorssuggest the reason women are superior at lie detection is because they are betterat detecting subtle changes in body language (Pease & Pease, 2001). Thesuggestion women lie more has the ring of truth, in relationship aggression - theability to make a convincing lie is a handy tool in a women’s verbal arsenal,especially in the application of relationship aggression (Brehm et al., 2005).How do we categorize liars?Dimitrius and Mazzarella (1999) tell us liars come in 4 flavors. Mostof us are occasional liars, we feel uncomfortable with deceit. In this case, non-verbal clues just pour out of us. But, in the other 3 categories, the frequent,practiced and professional liar, I will discus later - the clues tend to dry up.Lie detection methodologies. Dry mouth is probably the oldest lie detectionmethod, for the ancient Chinese the inability to spit out a mouthful of ricepowder (Kleinmuntz & Szucko, 1984). Ancient Bedouins would force a suspect liarto lick a high iron - a burn on the tongue would evidence guilt (Kleinmuntz &Szucko, 1984). Most of us cannot detect a liar any better than chance (Ekman,1996). There are several reasons for this. For most of us there is no reward forcatching liars. Many times our relationship with the victimizer is too fleeting.Perhaps the really bad liars did not make the evolutionary grade (Ekman, 1996).But, some of us are good at lie detection, for example nearly 1/3 of United StatesSecret Service score 80% at lie detection, with none scoring at a chance level(Ekman, 1996; Ekman, O’Sullivan, & Frank, 1999). There are techniques that todetect whether someone might be lying.Lieberman (1998) suggests there are several signals in verbal exchange thatshow deceit. These include, using your words in making a point, addinginformation until the liar is certain you have bought the line, stonewalling,liars often offer their beliefs instead of providing a direct answer, and implyingan answer. In addition, liars sometimes take longer to respond, have outlandishreactions, tend to leave out pronouns, speak in a mechanical voice, garble, andcommit syntax and grammar errors. A liar may engage in stalling, this may takethe form of a request such as “Can you repeat the question”, “would you be morespecific”. Lieberman (1998) suggests many times a liar will attempt to changethe subject, and be calmer when the subject changes. The liars may use sarcasm orhumor to deflect interest, or offer an alternative answer, that is to say, notanswer the question, but answer a different one. A liar may use a known fact tosupport a questionable story, or tries to be on your side by pointing outsomething someone else has wronged you. There is a possibility the lie may be sooutrageous, it would be unlikely anyone would believe it at face value. Manytimes, a liar’s answer sounds much like a question (Lieberman, 1998). The soundwe make in our voice is telling.When people decrease their pitch in speech, this tends to evidencestress, while high pitch speech indicates excitement (Geary, 2000). In contrast,Ekman (2003) finds voice pitch rises when people lie. Fluctuations in voice wecannot hear are telling - fluctuations as a result low blood flow to the vocalchords because of muscle tension in the neck as a result of stress (Geary, 2000).This is not a binary relationship, a yes or a no, but works in degrees. That isto say, even if the individual bares some degree of guilt, fluctuations show aninconsistency (Geary, 2000). Tone plays apart, but volume does too. Sometimespeople lower their voice when lying, if they must lie they prefer to do quietly(Dimitrius & Mazzarella, 1999). Many times liars will increase their rate ofspeech. In addition to speech, the language liars are different.Liars avoid complex speech, they tend to avoid words as “but” and