Being at the courts mercy is definitely not the position you want to find yourself inbecause the Judges decision will be based solely on facts presented. Not onemotions or accusations.Most of us go into the court room with a blind faith in our attorneys magicalability to make things happen in our favor. But the reality is that without theproper preparations by you there is little hope for your attorney to sway theJudges decision in either direction. Again, it takes facts and personal preparationsthat only you can provide.When you appear before the Judge or a mediator the final decision will be basedon what you can present that makes you the most fit parent. Who you really are,what you can provide, how is your stability, who do you know, your family, whatis in your past and many other elements must be presented that will convincethose in authority that you are the better choice as the parent with full or primarycustody.If you are thinking that you will simply walk away as the winner because youaccuse your spouse of unfaithfulness, drugs, alcoholism or any other personalcharacter attack, you are in for a rude awakening.Without proper documentation as proof you will find that the courts choose todismiss any and all accusations unless a State Child Care or related child healthand welfare agency represents these accusations during the court proceedings.Keep in mind that the court rulings are based solely on the welfare of thechildren. They have no interest and will discard any accusations between twopeople that are already involved in their dissolving marriage. Marital problemscarry no weight in a Child Custody case.The Child Custody Court is only interested in what can actually be proven to themto be the best environment for the children
s physical and emotional stability.