A grou p of gr ad uate s, we ll es tab li shed in thei r car eers ,
wer e ta lkin g at a reuni on and dec ided to go visit th eir
old un iversit y prof es sor, now reti red . Du ri ng th eir vi sit, the co nvers ation tur ned to comp laints abou t str es s in th eir work and li ves. Of ferin g h is gu es ts ho t ch ocolate , th e prof es sor we nt into th e kitch en and return ed with a lar ge pot of hot ch ocol at e and an assortment of cups - por cel ain, glass, cry sta l, some pl ain look in g, some expen siv e, some exqu isite - t elli ng th em to help thems elv es to the hot chocol ate When they all had a cup of hot chocol ate in hand , th e professor sa id: 'N oti ce th at all the ni ce looki ng , ex pens ive cu ps we re tak en , l ea vi ng behin d the plain and ch eap ones . Whil e it i s norma l for you to want onl y th e bes t f or your selves, that i s th e sou rce of your p rob lems and str ess. The cup th at you ' re d ri nk ing from ad ds nothi ng to th e quali ty of th e h ot chocol ate. I n mos t ca se s it is ju st mor e ex pensive and in some ca ses ev en hides what we dri nk. What all of you real ly wanted was hot cho col ate, not th e cup ; but y ou con sci ous ly we nt for the bes t cu ps . An d th en you began ey eing ea ch other's cu ps. Now con sid er th is : Lif e is th e hot chocolate; your job , mon ey and positi on in societ y are th e cup s. They ar e just tool s to h ol d and contai n lif e. The cup you ha ve d oes not defi ne, nor chang e th e qu ali ty of l ife you h ave. Some ti mes , by concentr atin g only on t he cup, we fail to enjo y the hot chocol at e God h as p rovid ed us. God mak es the hot ch ocol at e, man ch ooses th e cu ps. The happ ies t p eop le do n't hav e the bes t of ev eryth in g. They just mak e th e best of everyt hi ng that they ha ve. Liv e sim pl y. L ove gener ou sly. Car e deep ly. Speak k ind ly. And enjo y your ho t ch ocolate !!