How to add sparkle in you love life
This “bible”has pepped up her love life after many years of marriage.It’s not easy to keep your love life fresh and exciting through years of even the most lovingrelationship.Love idea and love tipsMost affairs are linked with sex lives in settled relationships falling into the tedium trap.Here are 50 ideas for fun for the faithful - to give a loving, lasting relationship sexual staying power too.
1. Give your love life priority.
It’s amazing how many couples would say that making love is or should be one of the mostimportant parts of their relationships, yet actually devote just 20 minutes at the end of theoccasional busy day, when he’s gone through that extra work and the football’s finished on theTV, and she’s done that extra washing and phoned her friend who’s going through such a bad patch, etc.Most adults these days do have many demands on their time and energy, but take your role asyour partner’s lover as seriously as you take your roles as worker, parent, friend, etc.Set aside time to make love properly while you have energy to share and enjoyment to bring.
2. Revive the dating game.
Remember how before you were a settled couple you would meet up for dates, go outsomewhere pleasant, talk together, in fact spend a whole evening going through a ritual designedto put you most at ease together and most looking forward to loving?Agree with your partner that you will devote every Wednesday night or whenever to talking,sharing a glass of wine, a video, relaxing together.Sex must not be compulsory after these evenings - no more than it should be on a conventionaldate - but there’s a good chance you will both fancy it.You must both also promise not just to abandon your date if “something crops up”, as it oftenwill.Try to avoid letting any other arrangement get in the way. If you do have another commitmentwhich you both agree must have priority, agree on a date for another evening the same week.
3. Make the most of the unexpected.
If you suddenly realise you can both be home from work early one day and have the house toyourselves, don’t decide that’s just the chance you need to clean the covers on the three-piecesuite or paint the bathroom.