with this guide I’ve done all the work for you, and “trimmed the fat” in theirsystems to give you the bare bones of what works. Just as I’ve taken fromothers, feel free to take what you find herein and adapt it to your own styleand needs.What you’ll find different about my guide is that I don’t just lay out broadprinciples and expect people to be able to apply them. It’s not enough to justtell a guy to “Say something to her to show that her testing doesn’t affectyou”. He needs to see examples of WHAT to say to communicate that it doesn’taffect him. Not only do I provide the “what” to do and say in many situations,but I also often provide some ideas of what to do and say if the situationcontinues further.Another thing that’s lacking in most systems is a STRUCTURE. I’ve integratedthese techniques into a structure to successfully pick up or seduce a woman.This structure is based on the one espoused by the instructors at Real SocialDynamics, and can be seen described in a video of Papa available on Kazaa andon the WinMX network.The whole idea of this structure is that regardless of the interaction with awoman, whether it’s a 2-minute street pickup or a 2-hour date, there areseveral phases that you go through for a successful pick-up/seduction:1.
This is the most important part, and is taken care of BEFOREthe interaction. Unless you have the right mindset your efforts atattracting a woman will fail.2.
This means preparing yourself, going where the woman is,and opening/approaching her.3.
In this phase, you use techniques to build attraction andsexual tension.4.
This involves showing that you're in the frame of beingselective and that you're evaluating HER. Can be something as simple as"Youseem cool."5.
This phase involves building trust and rapport throughemotionally engaging conversation, cold reading, empathy, etc6.
In this phase you use techniques to build up the attraction andsexual tension, to an even higher level.7.
This phase involves “sealing the deal” (contact close, meet close,kiss close, or sex close)