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The Malice of Lying

The Malice of Lying

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The Malice of Lying
Lying is a common part of human relationships. People lie for a varietyof reasons. They may lie as part of self-presentation, in order to present amore favorable image to others. People may also lie in order to minimizeconflict, because lying may make disagreements less obvious. Althoughlying may serve useful functions in these respects, it can also be damagingto relationships. An exposed lie undermines trust and sows suspicion,because a person who has been lied to is likely to mistrust the person wholied in the future.[1] Some people even lie due to habit at first impulse.‘Everyday lies are really part of the fabric of social life,’ says Bella DePaulo, apsychologist and lying expert at the University of Virginia. Her researchshows both men and women lie in approximately a fifth of their socialexchanges lasting 10 or more minutes; over the course of a week theydeceive about 30 percent of those with whom they interact one-on-one.Furthermore, some types of relationships, such as those between parentsand teens, are virtual magnets for deception. Lying is considered integral tomany occupations: we see lawyers constructing far-fetched theories onbehalf of their clients or reporters misrepresenting themselves in order togain access to good stories.[2]Lying is a despicable vice, rampant in our societies. Deceiving otherswith the canny use of words is seen as clever. Public figures lie.Governments lie. One of the distinctions of our age is that lying no longercarries the stigma it once did. Today lying has become institutionalized. It isthe way many of us live now, right from the top, because we figured out thatif we are persuasive enough, lying works. Countries are invaded and warsare started based on lies. “We” never lie, we just bend the truth a little, puta spin, having no intention to mislead, but the “others” are liars. Ours is asociety that has perfected the “art” of lying. Gone are the days when a liedestroyed the liar’s dignity and deprived him of our trust.Islam views lying as a serious vice. God says in the Quran:
And do not say that of which you have no knowledge.”(Quran 17:36)
 The Prophet, may the blessing and mercy of God be upon him, stressedthe importance of always being truthful and the seriousness of habitual lying,“Truthfulness leads to piety and piety leads to the Paradise. A man should betruthful until he is written down as truthful with God. Lying leads to deviance

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