Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Things more
important than people
Mental illness
Major Losses
Abuse
Rigid feelings
Ice Boxes
Addiction
Disability
Big Pay Off
Looking -Good
Hero
High Achiever
Over-responsible
Driven
Approval Seeker
Looks together
Goal: Denial of
Problems
Acting Out
Scapegoat
Irresponsible
Trouble-Maker
Rebellious
Poor - Under
Achiever
Anti-authority
Self-destructive
Caustic
Goal: Divert focus
Pulling In
Invisible
Loner
Bookish
Quiet - Recluse
Hard to know
Aloof
Avoid problems
Protect self
-overweight
Goal: withdraws to
survive
ENTERTAINER
Clown
Mascot
Comic Relief
Immature
Hyperactive
Not taken seriously
Distracter
Attention getting
Talks a lot
Goal: Divert attention
Troubled Person
Irresponsible
Addict
Unstable
Blame others
Out of control
Broken
Con artist
Denial of problems
Problem for others
Goal: Self-serving
Enabling
Protect & Save others
Over-responsible
Co-dependent
Nagger
Covers up
Controlling
Demanding
Goal: get troubled
people to change
Rescuing
Helper
Motivated
Victimized
Stuck
Irrational Loyalty
Burdened-down
Self-Negated
Unassertive
Goal: reduce tension,
hurt & pain
People Pleasing
Easily liked
Placator
Always smiling
Outgoing
Friendly
Courteous
Generous
Fits in
Works hard to please
Goal: get approval
Non-Feeling
Stoic
Nothing bothers
Intense thinker
Low-Key
Steady even-
tempered
No strong feelings
Black & White
Goal: deny feelings to
survive
Impact of Low Self-Esteem
S o u rc e s o f L o w S e lf-E s te e m
d y s fu n c t io n a l e n v ir o n m e n t s , d is a s t e r o u s r e la t io n s h ip s , c o d e p e n d e n c y ,
p h y s ic a l a b u s e , e m o t io n a l & v e r b a l a b u s e , s e x u a l a b u s e , a d d ic t io n s ,
d is a b ilit y , p e r s o n a l fa ilu r e s , c h r o n ic illn e s s , n e g le c t , p u t d o w n s
LO W SELF ESTEEM
C o m p u ls iv e P e rs o n a lity T ra its
L o o k in g G o o d , A c t in g O u t , P u llin g I n ,
E n t e r t a in in g , E n a b le r , T r o u b le d P e r s o n ,
P e o p le P le a s e r , R e s c u e r , N o n fe e lin g
U n re s o lv e d L o s s Is s u e s U n r e s o lv e d A n g e r Is s u e s
S e lf-D e s tr u c tiv e B e h a v io r s P e r s o n a l A d ju s tm e n t P r o b le m s
C o n tr o l Is s u e s F a u lty C o m m u n ic a tio n s
In te r p e r s o n a l R e la tio n s h ip P r o b le m s
Healthy Adult Self-Esteem
N e c e s s a r y C o n d it io n s f o r G r o w t h
S e lf N u r t u r in g N u r t u r in g E n v ir o n m e n t N u r t u r in g R e la t io n s h ip
u n c o n d it io n a l s e lf lo v e & a c c e p t a n c e r e c o g n it io n & a c c e p t a n c e u n c o n d it io n a l lo v e & a c c e p t a n c e
a c c e p t s e lf a s u n iq u e d e fin e d & e n fo r c e d lim it s g o o d c o m m u n ic a t io n s
o p e n & h o n e s t in p e r s o n a l fe e lin g s r e s p e c t & fr e e d o m t o b e s e lf w a r m t h , c a r in g & lo v e o f o t h e r s
H e a lth y S e lf-E s te e m
S e lf-w o r th S e lf-D e s e r v e d n e s s
C r e a tiv e P r o b le m S o lv e r A ltr u is m
L e a d e r s h ip H e a lth y C o p in g S k ills
C h a n g e d O ld P e rs o n a lity T ra its
r e w r it e o ld s c r ip t s , r e d e fin e s e lf
Im p r o v e d S e lf - E s t e e m
L e t g o o f L o s s Is s u e s R e s o lv e A n g e r Is s u e s
Im p r o v e in te r p e r s o n a l r e la tio n s h ip s