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From HavoctoHeaven
Charlotte Kamman van WeperenWillem van Weperen
 
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From Havoc to Heaven
There is a lovely concept of friendship within the Buddhist tradition:the 'noble friend', or kalyanamitra, someone who is so close to you that any attempt by you at pretension is ignored, and you will begently confronted with your own area of 'blindness'. We all of us carry a blind spot - literally - in the retinas of our eyes. The Buddhist believes that there is, equally, a blind spot in your soul, and that you depend on the kalyanamitra to see for you where you cannot seeyourself.
From "Swimming against the Stream", Tim Waterstone, 2006 
© 2007 Stepfamilyheaven.com - More (free) reports: Overcome the effects of divorce.
 
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From Havoc to Heaven
Introduction
When my partner Willem and I got together, we both had children and ex-partners, and it did not all go smoothly. As we went along, we were constantly onthe lookout for ideas how to improve our situation, and at times, we feltoverwhelmed by the amount of information we got. In this e-book, we want togive you those tips and insights we ourselves found most helpful; certainly thefact that I am a life-coach, helped us to untangle the emotions and to find a wayout, and we will show you how you can too.
“If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got” 
That has been our motto for the last couple of years, and it will probably stay our guideline for many years to come. What I will show you in the next chapters arevarious ways to do it differently, and you will see that the outcome will bedifferent, and most probably better, too. We hope that we can be your 
kalyanamitra
!We both wish you a pleasant journey, we know that you will discover many newhorizons, and we are sure that your life will never be the same.We wish you Love and Light on your path,
Charlotte & Willem
For a better reading and understanding, we recommend that you print this e-book. If youchange your printer properties to "draft", it will take little time, ink and effort.© 2007 Stepfamilyheaven.com - More (free) reports: Overcome the effects of divorce.
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