Lord bless me and make me a godly woman who fears the Lord; anexcellent wife, a woman of quality who is capable and intelligent. Moldme into a virtuous woman of noble character. Make me a woman of whose caliber is hard to find. May I know my worth and value is farmore important than riches; yes, that I am more important than otherthings that make my husband (a husband) rich. Help me love (commitand be devoted [to]) You God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strengthso that I can be the most precious treasure my husband (a husband) canfind. Cut me into a wife of valor. Refine me until I posses moral fiber,fortitude, strong convictions, determination, courage, strength,distinction, merit, quality, brilliance, superiority, humility, decency,modesty, bravery, heroism, fearlessness, fineness, boldness, andgallantry. May these qualities be shown in my habits, attitudes, wordsand actions. May I be wise and prudent, exercising sound judgment inpractical matters, cautious in my conduct. May I be influential andindustrious, poised and elegant. Help me to trust You Lord my God withall my heart and not lean on my own understanding. May I acknowledge You God in all my ways and may you Lord direct my paths. May Ihunger and thirst for righteousness.My actions are not based on how others treat me or by what othersthink, my character remains steady, and I remain reliable anddependable. In his heart, my husband (a husband), has full confidencein me; my integrity, wisdom, and discretion in the use of his assets andin the care of his interests. He is at ease when he is away because heknows that all is safe with me and I would never do anything to causehim sorrow, suffering, pain, or distress. He is not suspicious, worried, or jealous, because I am trustworthy. He can confide in me and trust mewithout reserve and will have no reason to regret it. He can safely relyand depend on me to do what he would do, in the manner he would doit. He believes in me securely, his trust is well founded because I willnever let him down or do anything to harm his personal gain. Myhusband (a husband) trusts me in the management of our resources andmy industriousness adds to the family income. He will never stop gettinggood things, he will lack nothing of value, and he will have no lack of honest gain or need of dishonest spoil. I will greatly enrich his life. Ourmarriage is an intimate relationship built on complete trust. I amsexually pure and work to maintain and retain my sexualpurity emotionally, physically, and mentally. God is making us ONE,ECHOD, of one mind, one heart.I will be good to my husband and do him good every day of my life. Iwill comfort, encourage, strengthen and not hinder him. I bring himgood and not evil or harm. I am never spiteful, instead I reward him bytreating him generously. I constantly have his best interests at heart.His comfort, his success, his reputation, his joy, his fulfillment, and hisblessing are my delight. My husband’s (a husband’s) comfort is my

concern, his burdens are mine to relieve. I speak about my husband ina life-giving, edifying, encouraging manner that builds him up by beingrespectful and loving. I am devoted to the success and well-being of my husband in all areas of his life, spiritually, emotionally, physically,and mentally. I choose to pray for him and confront his sin,weaknesses, and failures as God would; in a loving manner. I amconcerned for his spiritual benefit and welfare. My love for my husbandis based on such high spiritual principles that it doesn't fluctuate withthe circumstances of life. I reveal my virtue by my consistent service onhis behalf. I give my husband all the important things his needs: honor,respect, and intimacy. He is at perfect peace, calm, knowing I will neverviolate anything or do anything that brings harm. I will never threatenwhat my husband’s has gained for support of our family. He will neverhave to make back something to cover what I have lost. I will not wasteanything and be careless so that he will never have to lie, cheat, or stealto cover losses. I bring him profit not loss to what he goes out andearns and provides. He will live in prosperity and not adversity becauseof me. I am submissive to my husband and he is submissive to You. Ichoose to serve my Lord joyfully by serving my husband. I will obey myhusband and he will obey You. Lord, help me to show my husband (ahusband) honor, his greatest need. May my godly life draw him into adeeper relationship with You.I seek ways to eagerly, willingly, gladly, and lovingly work with myhands and use my talents and giftings with delight. I plan ahead forwhat I need in order to accomplish my responsibilities. I work with themost durable of products. I do my best to be thrifty when buying itemsfor my family and I, taking advantage of sales, coupons, thrift shops,yard sales and discount stores.I am like a gourmet chef, creatively planning and preparing healthfulmeals. There is always plenty to go around and also to share. Our foodis never wasted, is the highest quality, of best nutritional value, and themost cost efficient. It tastes amazing and satisfies our hunger. I don’twaste money on things that do not give us strength and do us no good. Iam like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exoticsurprises.I get up very early to prepare spiritually for the day, giving God my firstfruits. The words from God’s mouth are more important than even myfood, and He develops a very strong, moral character within me. I thenplan and organize the events and chores of the day so that my family isinformed and prepared, and my household is peaceful and tranquil. Iprepare a healthy breakfast for my family before they are off to schooland work. I recognize that I may need help in certain areas and expertlydelegate. I am generous to those who help me. I take care of theappliances that make my chores easy.I know how to be and am thrifty with finances. I give careful thought

when considering a new financial decision, expanding prudently and notcourting neglect of my present duties by assuming other duties. Withmy savings of time and strength, I plan and make sound and profitablefinancial decisions. I manage my time well and don’t neglect my dutiesby taking on too many things. My goals are not only short term — Ienvision the long-range benefits of my decisions. I tend and nurture thefields (areas of responsibility) that God has called me to. I often checkmy investments and take account where I am investing my time,talents, energy, thoughts, and affections and make changes whereneeded keeping the kingdom of heaven as my goal.Lord, help me wrap Your strength around me like a belt and gird mylions with spiritual, mental, emotional strength. Lord, provide me withenergy so that I can be physically strong, digging deep, preparing towork hard at difficult and challenging things. Lord, educate me so I canbe spiritually competent, physically fit, and emotionally able to beprepared and able to do my God-given work energetically, vigorously,and correctly. First thing in the morning help me be alert andmotivated, getting dressed and rolling up my sleeves eager to getstarted. May praise music and prayer be my companions as I do mytasks, realizing that I am serving You while doing them. I look forwardto be woken up by You Lord, having Your praises on my lips as I awakeor hearing Your gentle beckoning to spend quiet time with You.Lord help me to have a strong, healthy self respect and self esteembased in my identity in Christ and not founded in ways the worldmeasures self worth. Let me recognize and make certain there is worthin my work, trading my desires, plans and wants for Yours Lord. I prayblessings upon the work of my hands, may it be good and profitable. Teach me how to plan carefully and be a good steward. May I trust anddepend on You, not letting trouble, worry, doubt, trauma, trails,temptations, sorrow, fear, and distrust separate me from my fulldependence in You. May You teach me to live by faith and not byfeelings and emotions. Help me to honor You and grow closer to You bytaking time to be alone with You, refusing to feel guilty by fully realizingthat even Jesus took time alone. Teacher, teach me how to be skilled in the crafts of home and hearthand diligent in homemaking. Bless the work of my hands, help meconsistently be using my hands for productive pursuits not allowingthem or my mind to be idle and fall into sinfulness. May I be consideredrighteous in your sight. I choose to do my woman’s work and think onthings of women. I choose to allow my husband (a husband) to do thethings You have called him to handle. Bless my home and help mecreate a home that is welcoming, inviting, peaceful, tranquil and full of the joy of the Lord! Help me to keep it running and looking its best.God, may your peace be mine, that tranquil state of a soul assured of itssalvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from You and being