Stephen Coveys

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

Presentation by:

Dr. Scott Kunkel

Associate Professor University of San Diego
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Personality and Character Ethics

Personality Ethic (post WWI)
Personality, public image, attitudes & behaviors, skills and techniques, quick fixes

Character Ethic (pre WWI)

Integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, the Golden Rule Not just What do I want? but Why do I want it?
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The Power of a Paradigm Shift

What is a paradigm? What is a paradigm shift? My paradigm shift -- caring vs. enabling Near-death experiences frequently cause people to experience a paradigm shift. Not all paradigm shifts are instantaneous -some happen gradually over time.
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Will the left side of the room please stand and face the back of the room
I will show the right side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you to remember what you saw
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Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego

Will the right side of the room please stand and face the back of the room
I will show the left side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you to remember what you saw
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Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego

Will both sides of the room please sit back down

I will show you a picture for ten seconds and ask you to describe what you saw
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Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego

What did you see?

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The Seven Habits

Knowledge (what to, why to)

Habits
Skills (how to) Desire (want to)

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Private Victories
The First Three Habits

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Habit # 1

Be Proactive

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Stimulus

Freedom to Choose

Response

SelfAwarness Imagination Conscience

Independent Will

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Circle of Concern

Circle of Influence

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Circle of Concern

Circle of Influence

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Habit # 2

Begin with the End in Mind

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Alternative Centers
Spouse centered Family centered Money centered Possession centered Pleasure centered Friend/Enemy centered Church centered Self centered

Principle Centered

Write a Personal Mission Statement

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Habit # 3

Put First Things First

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Time Management Matrix

Urgent
I Activities:
Crises Pressing Problems Deadline Driven Projects

Not Urgent
II Activities:
Prevention, PC activities Relationship building Recognizing new opportunities Planning, recreation

Not Important

III

Activities:
Interruptions, some calls Some mail, some reports Some meetings Proximate, pressing matters Popular activities

IV

Activities:
Trivia, busy work Some mail Some phone calls Time wasters Pleasant activities

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Public Victories
The Second Three Habits

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Habit # 4

Think Win/Win

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Six Paradigms of Human Interaction

Win Win/lose Lose/Win Lose/Lose Win/Win Win/Win or No Deal
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Habit # 5

Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood

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Habit # 6

Synergize

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Renewal
The Seventh Habit

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Habit # 7

Sharpen the Saw

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Physical
Exercise, Nutrition Stress Management

Mental
Reading, Visualizing Planning, Writing

Social/Emotional
Service, Empathy Synergy, Intrinsic Security

Spiritual
Value Clarification & Commitment, Study & Meditation
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Stephen Coveys

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

Presentation by:

Dr. Scott Kunkel

Associate Professor University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego