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Pre nancy g
byw gyda’ch babi newydd
the
yr esgor a’r geni
feichiogrwydd iach
Arweiniad cyflawn i:
book
g
Pre nancy
book
to pregnancy, childbirth
9 PROBLEMS
3 HOW THE BABY DEVELOPS Common minor problems 77
How the baby develops 28 More serious problems 83
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12 WHEN PREGNANCY THINKING ABOUT
GOES WRONG THE NEXT BABY?
Ectopic pregnancy 104 Fathers too 128
Miscarriage 104 Getting and staying healthy 128
Termination 105 Work hazards 129
Losing a baby 106
18
RIGHTS AND BENEFITS
13 THE FIRST DAYS Benefits for all 130
WITH YOUR NEW BABY Benefits if your income is low 131
You 107 Maternity benefits 136
Your baby 110 If you are unemployed 138
Maternity leave 139
Other employment rights 142
14 BABIES WHO NEED Other types of leave 143
SPECIAL CARE Return to work on child
Contact with your baby 112 friendly working hours 144
Feeding 112
Incubators 113 USEFUL ORGANISATIONS 147
Newborn babies with jaundice 113
A baby with disabilities 113 INDEX 151
Your pregnancy
at a glance
0-8 weeks 8-12 weeks 12-16 weeks
• Pregnancy test – you can have
one from the first day of a
• You’ll probably attend your first • Find out about antenatal classes
antenatal appointment. if you have not already done so
missed period, if you wish Appointments will usually be (see Antenatal care and
(see Finding out, page 26). monthly at first (see Antenatal antenatal classes, page 51).
care and antenatal classes,
• Make an early appointment to
see your GP or a midwife if you
page 51). • want
Begin to think about how you
to feed your baby
know you’re pregnant or think
you may be (see Finding out,
• and
Ask about your rights at work
the benefits available
(see Feeding your baby,
page 66).
page 26). Begin to think about (see Rights and benefits,
where you want your baby to
be born (see Deciding where
page 130). • Make sure you’re wearing a bra
which supports well.
to have your baby, page 33). • Iforyou’re on Income Support
Ask about antenatal care (see
Antenatal care and antenatal
income-based Jobseeker’s
Allowance, you can claim free
• You may be offered an
ultrasound scan which will
classes, page 51). milk tokens (see Rights and show your baby moving. Your
benefits, page 136). partner may like to see this too
• Some mothers start to feel sick (see Antenatal care and
or tired around this time or
have other minor physical
• Make a dental appointment.
Dental care is free during
antenatal classes, page 51).
4
Your pregnancy at a glance
• IfAllowance,
you’re claiming Maternity
do so as soon as you
can after you are 26 weeks
pregnant (see Rights and
benefits, pages 136–137).
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Your pregnancy at a glance
the idea of a new baby. • You may be more aware of your • The last few weeks can seem
womb tightening from time to very long. Plan some interesting
• Check that your shoes are
comfortable. If you get tired, try
time. These are mild
contractions (see Labour and
things to do to take your mind
off waiting.
to rest with your feet above the birth, page 90).
level of your heart. • Telephone your hospital or
• You may feel quite tired. Make midwife if you have any worries
• You’ll probably now attend for
antenatal care every fortnight.
sure you get plenty of rest. about labour or the birth.
6
Introduction
Every parent is different, just as every baby is different. So there
can’t be many rules to having a baby. But you will find a lot of
information in these pages which should help you to decide what
you will do, how you will cope and, most of all, how you can best
enjoy both pregnancy and your baby.
Chapter 1 is about what you can do to make sure you and your
baby stay healthy during your pregnancy. The book then takes
you through pregnancy, birth and the first two weeks of caring for
your baby. You may want to read some chapters several times, or
look up specific things which interest or concern you. To find a
topic quickly, just look at the index at the back of the book.
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1 Your health
in pregnancy
T
his chapter describes some of the things you should think about
to make sure you and your baby stay healthy during pregnancy.
W H AT S H O U L D YO U E AT ?
A healthy diet is an important part There’s no need to ‘eat for two’ when
of a healthy lifestyle at any time, you are pregnant. It’s the quality not the
but particularly if you are pregnant quantity that’s important. With a few
or are planning a pregnancy. exceptions you can continue to eat all
Eating healthily during pregnancy the foods you enjoy (see Take care with
will help your baby develop and some foods, page 11). Eating healthily
grow and will help keep you fit often means just changing the amounts
and well. You don’t need to go of different foods that you eat rather
on a special diet, but make sure than cutting out all your favourites.
that you eat a variety of different The Balance of Good Health illustrates
foods every day in order to get the mixture of different foods you
the right balance of nutrients need in your diet and the proportions
that you and your baby need. you should eat them in. This is
You should also avoid certain illustrated below.
foods to be on the safe side.
FOLIC ACID
• Dairy products, fish with edible
bones like sardines, bread, nuts
This vitamin is special (see page 12) and green vegetables These are available from pharmacies
(see this page). You need to are rich in calcium, which is vital and supermarkets or your GP may
take a 400 microgram (0.4 for making bones and teeth. be able to prescribe them for you.
milligram) tablet every day Ask your GP or pharmacist for
from the time you start
trying to conceive. Continue
• Margarine, oily fish (like sardines)
and taramasalata contain vitamin
advice if you are unsure.
• Ready-to-eat
prunes
apricots, figs or
• Fresh fruit
• Baked beans on toast or
baked potato
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Your health in pregnancy
FURTHER READING
• Avoid eating all types of
paté and mould-ripened
soft cheese, like Brie and
• The Food Standards
Agency publishes some
Camembert, and similar blue-
veined varieties, like Stilton or
useful leaflets, including Danish blue, because of the risk
Thinking of having a of Listeria infection. You can
baby and While you eat hard cheeses such as cheddar
are pregnant. and parmesan, and other cheeses
Contact: made from pasteurised milk such
Food Standards Agency as cottage cheese, mozzarella
PO Box 369 cheese and cheese spreads.
Hayes UB3 1UT Although Listeria is a very rare
tel. 0845 6060667 disease, it is important to take
special precautions during
• Folic acid: what all
women should know
pregnancy because even the mild
form of the illness can lead to
is available free from miscarriage, stillbirth or severe
your doctor, clinic or illness in the newborn. FOR GENERAL HYGIENE
pharmacist.
(In Northern Ireland ask • Drink only pasteurised or
UHT milk which has had the • Wash your hands before
for Folic Acid: one of harmful germs destroyed. If only and after handling any food.
life’s essentials) raw or green-top milk is available,
boil it first. Don’t drink
• Thoroughly wash all fruit and
vegetables, including ready-prepared
unpasteurised goat’s or sheep’s salads, before eating. Peel and top
milk or eat their milk products. carrots before eating them.
SMOKING
YOUR ACTION PLAN
ALCOHOL
There is no evidence that light or If you have difficulty cutting down,
IF YOU’RE DRINKING occasional drinking in pregnancy talk to your doctor or midwife.
WITH FRIENDS: will harm your baby. But research Confidential help and support is
shows that heavy or frequent available from local counselling
• find a non-alcoholic
drink you enjoy;
drinking can seriously harm your
baby’s development. To be on the
services (look in the telephone
directory or contact Alcohol
safe side, stop altogether or stick to Concern). See page 147 for
• ifsipyouit slowly
drink alcohol,
to make
no more than one or two ‘units’ of
alcohol once or twice a week.
national agencies who can help.
it last;
1 UNIT EQUALS
• ifyoupeople try to pressure
into drinking,
refuse politely but or or or
firmly;
1/
2pint ordinary a single measure of a small (125ml) a small glass of
strength beer, spirit (whisky, gin, glass of wine sherry or a measure
• avoid getting drunk. lager or cider bacardi, vodka, etc.) (9% ABV) of vermouth
These units apply to the 25 ml measure used in most of England and Wales. In some places,
pub measures are larger than this. In Northern Ireland, a pub measure is 35 ml or 11/2 units.
In Scotland, it can either be 35 ml or 25 ml. Home measures are usually more generous.
Not all ‘natural’ remedies are Some pills and medicines can harm those used to treat epilepsy and
safe in pregnancy. Make sure your baby’s health so, to be on the diabetes, than to leave the illness
that your practitioner is safe side, you should: untreated.
qualified (contact the Institute Illegal drugs (street drugs) can
for Complementary Medicine,
see page 147) and tell him or
• assume that all medicines are
dangerous until a doctor or
harm your baby. Taking cocaine or
smoking crack may be especially
her that you are pregnant. pharmacist can tell you they are harmful because both cause a sudden
Tell your midwife or doctor safe; drop in blood and oxygen to the
which remedies you are using. placenta. It’s important to talk to your
• make sure your doctor or dentist
knows you’re pregnant before
doctor or midwife straightaway so
they can refer you to a maintenance
prescribing anything or giving reduction programme. For more
you treatment; information contact one of the
organisations on page 148, or the
• talk to your doctor at the first
possible moment if you take
Drugs Information Helpline on 0800
776600.
regular medication. X-rays should be avoided in
pregnancy if possible. Make sure
But do remember that it is safer to your dentist knows you are pregnant.
14 take some medicines, for example
Your health in pregnancy
P H YS I C A L AC T I V I T Y
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Your health in pregnancy
EXERCISES FOR A
FITTER PREGNANCY Pelvic floor exercises help
strengthen the muscles of the pelvic
Every pregnant woman should try floor which come under great strain
to fit these exercises into her daily in pregnancy and childbirth.
routine. They will strengthen The pelvic floor consists of layers
muscles to take a bigger load, make of muscles which stretch like a
joints stronger, improve circulation, supportive hammock from the
ease backache and generally make pubic bone (in front) to the end of
you feel well. the backbone. If your pelvic floor
muscles are weak, you may find that
Stomach strengthening exercises you leak urine when you cough or
These strengthen abdominal muscles sneeze. This is quite common and
and ease backache, which can be a you needn’t feel embarrassed.
problem in pregnancy. As your baby
gets bigger you may find that the However, you can strengthen the
hollow in your lower back increases. muscles by doing the following
This can give you backache. exercise:
• fours)
Start in a box position (on all
with knees under hips,
• close up your back passage as if
trying to prevent a bowel
hands under shoulders with movement;
fingers facing forward and
abdominals lifted to keep the
back straight;
• atvagina
the same time, draw in your
as if you are gripping a
tampon, and your urethra as if
• pull in the abdominals and raise
the back up towards the ceiling,
to stop the flow of urine;
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED
INFECTIONS
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Your health in pregnancy
ANIMALS
Cats’ faeces may contain an
organism which causes
toxoplasmosis – a disease which can
damage your baby. Avoid emptying
cat litter trays while you’re pregnant
or, if no one else can do it, use
disposable rubber gloves. Trays
should be cleaned daily and filled
with boiling water for five minutes.
Avoid close contact with sick cats
and wear gloves when gardening –
even if you don’t have a cat – in case
the soil is contaminated with faeces.
PARVOVIRUS B19 (SLAPPED Wash your hands and gloves after
gardening. If you do come into
CHEEK DISEASE)
contact with cat faeces, make sure
you wash your hands thoroughly.
Parvovirus B19 infection is common Follow the general hygiene rules
in children and causes a characteristic under Take care with some foods
red rash on the face, so is often
(page 11). For further information
called ‘slapped cheek disease’.
on toxoplasmosis contact Tommy’s
Although 60% of women are immune
Campaign (see page 149).
to this infection, since parvovirus is
highly infectious and can be harmful Lambs and sheep can be a source
to the baby, any pregnant woman of an organism called Chlamydia
who comes into contact with psittaci which is known to cause
someone who is infected should seek miscarriage in ewes. They also carry
advice from the doctor. Immunity Toxoplasma. Avoid lambing or
can be checked with a blood test. In milking ewes and all contact with
most pregnant women who are newborn lambs. If you experience
infected with parvovirus flu-like symptoms after coming into
the baby is not affected. contact with sheep, tell your doctor.
WO R K HAZARDS
VDUS
COPING AT WO R K
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2 Conception
T
o understand about conception and pregnancy, it helps to know
about the male and female sexual organs. This information is
useful in pregnancy too, when you want to ask questions and
be clear about what you are told.
THE M A N ’ S S E X UA L O R G A N S
Bladder Prostate gland
Hood of clitoris
Clitoris
Urinary opening
Vulva
Opening of vagina
Perineum
Anus 21
Conception
Fallopian tube
Ovary
Womb or uterus
Bladder
Cervix
Vagina
Urethra or water passage
Rectum
Anus
Perineum
Pelvis The baby will pass
through the pelvis when he
or she is born.
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Conception
THE WO M A N ’ S M O N T H LY C Y C L E
Egg being released Fallopian tube Egg progressing down the fallopian tube
Ovary
Vagina Womb lining
being shed
1. Each month a ripe egg or ovum 2. The ripe egg begins to travel down 3. If the egg is not fertilised by a
(occasionally two) is released from one the fallopian tube. It is here that it sperm, it passes out of the body
of the ovaries. This is called ovulation. may be fertilised by a man’s sperm if through the vagina. It is so small that
The ‘fingers’ at the end of the fallopian a couple have intercourse at this time. it cannot be seen. The lining of the
tube help to direct the egg down into By now the lining of the womb is womb is also shed in the monthly
the tube. At the same time, the lining thick enough for the egg, if it is period of bleeding.
of the womb begins to thicken and the fertilised, to be implanted in it.
mucus in the cervix becomes thinner so
that sperm can swim through it more
easily.
CONCEPTION
Egg Egg being fertilised Attached embryo
Penis
1. A woman is most likely to conceive 2. Most of the sperm leak out of the 3. During the week after fertilisation,
just after the time when she ovulates – vagina again, but some begin to swim the fertilised egg, or embryo, moves
when an egg has been released from up through the cervix. At the time of slowly down the fallopian tube and
one of her ovaries. During sexual ovulation the mucus in the cervix is into the womb. It is already growing.
intercourse, sperm are ejaculated from thinner than usual to let the sperm pass The embryo attaches itself firmly to
a man’s penis into the woman’s vagina. through more easily. The sperm swim the specially thickened womb lining.
In one ejaculation, there may be more into the womb and so into the fallopian Hormones released by the embryo
than 300 million sperm. tube. One sperm may then join with and by the woman’s ovary prevent
the egg and fertilise it. Conception is shedding of the womb lining.
said to have taken place. The woman ‘misses’ her period.
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Conception
HORMONES HEREDITY
Hormones are chemicals which Every normal human cell contains
circulate in the blood of both men 46 chromosomes, except for the
and women. They carry messages to male sperm and female eggs. They
different parts of the body, regulating contain 23 chromosomes each.
certain activities and causing certain When the sperm fuses with the egg
changes to take place. The female and fertilisation takes place, the 23
hormones, which include oestrogen chromosomes from the father pair
and progesterone, control many of with the 23 from the mother,
making 46 in all.
The chromosomes are tiny thread-
A sperm is about 1/25 th of a like structures which each carry
millimetre long and has a about 2000 genes. It is the genes
head, neck and tail. The tail that determine the baby’s inherited
moves from side to side so characteristics, such as hair and eye
that the sperm can swim up colour, blood group, height and
the vagina into the womb and build.
fallopian tubes. The fertilised egg contains one sex
chromosome from the mother and
one from the father. The sex
chromosome from the mother’s egg
is always the same and is known as
the X chromosome. But the sex
chromosome from the father’s sperm
may be an X or a Y chromosome.
If the egg is fertilised by a sperm
containing an X chromosome,
the baby will be a girl (XX). If the
sperm contains a Y chromosome,
24 then the baby will be a boy (XY).
Conception
THE B E S T T I M E TO G E T P R E G N A N T
27 28 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28
• • • • • •
First day of last period
You are most likely to conceive
if you have intercourse
about this time.
TWINS
Identical twins are the result of one to find out by about the end of the
fertilised egg splitting into two second month of your pregnancy.
separate cells. Each cell grows into a An ultrasound scan is needed (see
baby. Because they originally came page 56) to make the diagnosis at this
from the same cell, the babies have stage. You should be told at this point
the same genes – they are the same whether the babies are in separate
sex and look very like each other. sacs or offered a further scan to
Non-identical twins are common. determine this. Twin and other
They are one result of two eggs being multiple pregnancies (e.g. triplets)
fertilised by two sperm at the same carry a higher risk of most of the
time. The babies may not be the same complications associated with
sex and will probably look no more pregnancy, particularly premature birth.
alike than any other brothers and sisters. You will probably be encouraged to
Twins happen about once in every have regular scans during your
80 pregnancies. A couple is more likely pregnancy to check the babies’
to have twins if there are twins in the growth. You may be advised to
woman’s family. Triplets are much more have a Caesarean section. Discuss
rare and quads rarer still, although this with your doctor. You can still
nowadays the use of drugs in the breastfeed with twins. With triplets,
treatment of infertility has made or more, this may be more difficult.
multiple births more common. You It is a good idea to contact
may suspect that you are carrying twins support groups like TAMBA (Twins
if you are very sick in early pregnancy, and Multiple Births Association)
seem bigger than your ‘dates’, they and the Multiple Births Foundation
run in your family or you have had (see pages 141 and 142) before the
fertility treatment. It is usually possible babies are born. 25
Conception
FINDING OUT IF
YO U ’ R E P R E G N A N T
Whether or not you have The earliest and most reliable sign of
had a pregnancy test, you pregnancy, for women who have a
should see your doctor as regular monthly cycle, is a missed
soon as you think you are period. Sometimes women who are
pregnant. Being pregnant pregnant have a very light period,
may affect your GP’s losing only a little blood. Other signs
treatment of any current or of pregnancy are listed below.
future illness. Your GP will
also be able to advise you
about antenatal care in your
• even
Feeling sick – you may feel sick, or
be sick, not necessarily in the
area and put you directly in morning, but at any time. If you
touch with a midwife if you are being sick all the time and can’t
wish. keep anything down, tell your
doctor.
Information about the
services available is given in
the chapters on Deciding
• Changes in your breasts – often
the breasts become larger and feel
PREGNANCY TESTS
where to have your baby tender, rather as they may do before Pregnancy tests can be carried out
and Antenatal care and a period. They may tingle. The on a sample of urine from the first
antenatal classes (see pages veins may show up more and the day of a missed period – that is,
33 and 51). It may help to nipples may darken and stand out. about two weeks after conception.
look at these chapters before You can collect urine at any time of
you talk to your doctor. • Needing to pass water more
often. You may find that you have
the day. Use a clean, soap-free, well-
rinsed container to collect it. You can
to get up in the night to do so. get pregnancy tests free or for a small
charge from your GP or family
• Being constipated. planning clinic. Many pharmacists and
most pregnancy advisory services also
• An increased vaginal discharge
without any soreness or irritation.
offer tests, usually for a small fee. You
can also buy do-it-yourself pregnancy
testing kits from pharmacists. They
• Feeling tired. can be expensive but give you a
quick result and you can do the test
• Having a strange taste in your
mouth – many women describe
in private. Follow the instructions to
be sure of a reliable result.
it as metallic.
THE RESULTS OF THE TEST
• ‘Going off ’ certain things like
tea or coffee, tobacco smoke or A positive test result is almost
fatty food, for example. certainly correct. A negative result is
less reliable. You could wait a week
Some women don’t even need these and try again, or go straight to your
signs. They just ‘know’ that they are doctor.
pregnant.
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Conception
K N OW I N G T H AT YO U ’ R E P R E G N A N T
You may feel very happy or excited pregnancy, or, in England and Wales, ‘I thought when I first
when you discover that you are will give you advice if you are not got pregnant, ‘‘This is
pregnant, but you shouldn’t worry happy to continue with it. You may fantastic, it’s really
if you don’t. Even if you have been want to share the news with family different, it’s never
looking forward to pregnancy, it is not and friends immediately or wait a while happened to me before.” ’
unusual for your feelings to take you until you’ve sorted out how you feel.
by surprise. And if your pregnancy was Others in your family/extended ‘I wasn’t very pleased at
unplanned, then you may feel quite family may have mixed feelings. first. I was a bit shocked,
confused. Give yourself a little time to You’ll need to talk about these I think, more than
adjust to the idea of being pregnant. feelings. But do begin to think anything, and it took me
Even though you may feel rather about your antenatal care (that is, about three months to get
anxious and uncertain now, this does the care you’ll receive leading up to used to the idea that
not mean that you won’t come to the birth of your baby) and where I was pregnant.
enjoy your pregnancy or to welcome you would like to have your baby. I don’t think I could
the idea of the baby. Discuss your The earlier you begin to organise believe it at first.’
feelings with your midwife or doctor this, the more chance you will have
who will help you to adjust to your of getting what you want.
HELP A N D A DV I C E F O R T E E N AG E R S
Life as a young mother can be Practical advice on things like SOMEWHERE TO LIVE
difficult, especially if your partner or benefits, education, employment
family are unable to give much help. and childcare are available from Many young mothers want
However, there are a wide range of the Maternity Alliance on to carry on living with their
services you can draw on. 020 7490 7638 or own family until they are
If you think you may be pregnant, www.maternityalliance.org.uk ready to move on. If you
you can get confidential advice are unable to do so, your
from the Sexwise helpline on 0800 CARRYING ON WITH local authority will take
282930 and further information from YOUR EDUCATION responsibility for housing
the website www.ruthinking.co.uk you. In some cases it may be
Becoming a teenage mother need possible to provide specialised
not mean the end of your education. accommodation where
If you become pregnant while still at young mothers can live
school, your school will not exclude independently while getting
you on grounds of pregnancy, and support and advice from
should keep you in learning even if trained workers. Seek advice
you are unable to attend for a while. from your local authority.
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3 How the
baby develops
Week 1
D
octors and midwives in the UK time pregnancy from the first
day of a woman’s last menstrual period, not from conception.
So what is called ‘four weeks’ pregnant’ is actually about two
First day of your last
menstrual period weeks after conception. Pregnancy normally lasts for 37 to 42 weeks
Week 2 from the first day of your last period. The average is 40 weeks. If you’re
not sure about the date of your last period, then an ultrasound scan (see
page 56) may give a good indication of when your baby will be due.
You conceive at
about this time
Week 3
H OW THE BABY DEVELOPS
Egg being
released from
ovary Embryo implanting
in womb lining
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