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Win Love Back Allow Your Ex Timeand Space
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Do you want to win love back? The key is allowing your ex to have a little bit of time to figure out what they wantfrom the relationship. Tim and Rhonda learned this fromTim’s friend Joe.Rhonda stormed out of Tim’s apartment one day saying shenever wanted to see him again. Tim was stunned. All hecould think about was how to win love back.He called his buddy Joe and asked whether he should sendflowers or candy.“Neither,” Joe said. “And don’t call, email, or text her either.”Tim was stunned by this advice. He wanted to win love back right away before Rhonda had a chance to “look around” and find someone better.But Joe told Tim that giving Rhonda the space to “look around” was just what she needed. There was a smallchance that she would go forever, but the probability wasthat she would settle down and come back to him. Shemust come to the conclusion that their relationship wasspecial on her own terms.Further, Joe advised, it would be bad if Tim looked toodesperate. This gave Rhonda the upper hand in manyways. It would lead to further grand gestures in the future.
 
If he wanted to get the relationship back on track, Timneeded to give Rhonda space.Tim and Rhonda both had a lot invested in the relationship.They had been together 18 months and had even talkedabout marriage. This was why it was such a blow to Timwhen Rhonda walked out.But Tim took Joe’s advice, as painful as it was, and waitedfor Rhonda to call. It took her four days, but she finallycontacted him.The first thing she wanted to know was “why didn’t youcall me?” He told her “I was waiting for you to call. Iknew you needed space.”He was right, and she knew it. She actually appreciated thefact that he hadn’t called. She knew that he had found away to win love back.As they talked about where their relationship had been andhow to get it back on track, they discovered that one of the problems was that they had been crowding one another.The thought of getting married had been suffocating.So, they decided to back off. They would still see eachother exclusively, but they would make more time for friends and solo activities. They wouldn’t talk aboutmarriage again for six months.
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