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MOON
MOON BY SIGN
Natal Moon in Aries
 (Jan Spiller and Karen McCoy) Static When you habitually seek to be in control of situations relating to personalindependence, you can be competitive to the point of 'winning' by withdrawing frominteraction with others. You may avoid asserting your needs and then working it outwith the other person, due to not wanting to risk losing the Aries independence. Thisnonassertion leads to repressing your independent impulses and creating situationswhere others dominate you. If you unconsciously need others' permission beforeleading and initiating, you may experience insecurity and loss of personal power. Thisleads to a resentment of others because you feel they are responsible for yourinability to act. You may react to their outbursts by withdrawing and feeling violatedwhen they are insensitive to your repressed emotions. This situation adds to your ownstate of angry, unexpressed, and tightly controlled feelings When you hide your emotional needs in order to maintain distance and control thecircumstances, you lose touch with the power of your own independent, inner core. If  you are unwilling to assert your needs and feelings and work it out with others, youmay find you are not able to work it out at all. As a result you may withdraw fromparticipation. Such an action leads to frustration and anger, at feeling unable toexpress and accept recognition for your natural executive abilities. Dynamic When you take responsibility for creating the independence you need, you may noticethat repressing your feelings and letting others have their way does not lead to yourfeeling in control. The truth is that others cannot provide sensitivity to youremotional states. You are the one with the gift of sensitivity to underlyingfoundational feelings. Your lesson is to acknowledge the need to feel close byinitiating a mutual awareness of basic human feelings and needs. You can accomplishthis by moving your attention away from yourself and toward perceiving the humaninsecurities and feelings of others.  Avoiding judgemental thoughts about another's lack of sensitivity enables you torecognize the true nature of one's own feelings behind the outward expression. Thisknowledge leads the lunar Arian to become sensitive to others as individuals ratherthan taking their expression personally. Thus, the basic insecurities of others can put you in touch with your own underlying feelings in an objective, balanced way. Youthen possess the clarity you need to work constructively in relationships.  You can show your sensitivity and vulnerability to others' insecurities. When youreveal your feelings and needs, your innate power is acknowledged, and you win theemotional support of others. You can then express feelings successfully, since you aresharing yourself with diplomacy borne of awareness of another's sensitivities.Consequently, you are able to feel close by having your true feelings accepted andshared. Then you can work out situations with others. When you support theauthority of other people to handle situations, you reinforce their self-confidence.
 
Thus, your own independence and initiative are spontaneously recognized, respectedand appreciated. General Unconscious fears of battlegrounds, direct physical combat and competition for theattainment of your personal needs have made issues of personal survival strong for you. You are always on the alert, but camouflaged so that you can spot the enemywithout showing your own strength. In order to maintain this disguise, you mustsuppress your strength, which actually invites provocations and attacks from theoutside. By suppressing your spirit, you invite others to walk all over you. Due to these unconscious fears and the tendency to view everything in terms of personal survival, you interpret any opposition in life as a direct threat to your owngoals. Thus, you may respond either with vehement resistance or by 'cutting off' theother person entirely and going your own, independent way. The lesson you are learning is to incorporate the resistance of others into your plan,to see it as a means of actualizing your goals more efficiently. You are learning to beobjective enough to welcome the input of others. By taking into consideration theirobjections, needs, and feelings relative to your own plans, you can expand yourobjectives to ensure genuine partnership and harmony in working together toward amutual goal.  As you learn to stop projecting your identity (either positive or negative) onto otherpeople, you can behin to see them objectively and take them into account. Then youcan 'be first' in a way that allows other persons' needs to be met as well. Your ownidentity is strongly-developed, and you are not accustomed to easy co-operation withothers in the context of joint projects and team efforts. Rather than feeling that youneed to compete with others to get your own way, you are learning to include others'desires and fears in working out solutions that are fair to both parties.  You are naturally inclined to high-speed activity, without time for tact and diplomacy,leading to a certain naiveté and directness in fulfilling your personal needs. Thismakes your intentions clear for all to see; thus, those who feel threatened by yourgoals may try to block or manipulate you in some way. When this happens, you feel you have to fight to survive and get what you want, in direct opposition to the otherperson. The only other alternative you see is allowing the other person to be theconqueror and to totally suppress your own needs. You don't realize that yourimpatience and carelessness are creating the very opposition you fear.  As you learn to be less naive and direct in your speech, and more diplomatic incommunicating your wants and needs, others will not feel threatened and so will haveno need to oppose you. Through this new tactfulness, you will encourage others tofeel that they are also winning by going along with your plan. You are learning toenlist the support of others in going toward the goals that fulfill your own personalneeds. (Sydney Omarr) In Aries, the Moon stresses independence, drive - a need for self-assertion. The Moonin this, the first zodiacal sign, tells us the native's personality is colored by a desire toget at the truth, which can be abstract. It can be a symbol, something to aim forrather than to attain. Maybe the truth is constantly out of reach. The Moon in Aries isnot discouraged, but continues the quest. In a way, this makes for idealism and highprinciples, but not necessarily for concrete results. The Moon here may cause others
 
to lose patience with the native - because he is forever concerned with what shouldbe, instead of 'making do' with what exists. The astrologer, of course, must combine the indications for the Moon in Aries withthe House position occupied by the Moon. Such a combination means using the art of synthesis. And this, as we continue to repeat, is the backbone of the art of astrology. So the Moon here stresses a seeking of the truth as the native sees it. What kind of 'truth' does he see? It could be that he sees the truth only as it is convenient for himto see it. This, of course, depends upon other factors in the chart, including aspectsand House positions. But, taken alone, the Moon here makes for one who can fightfor the truth as long as the 'truth' is of practical value - concerning his home, hisfuture, his security. 'Truth' here can be narrow and limited. The native inclinestoward a headstrong attitude, one which can bring about conflicts, resentment, envyand actual physical battles if the temper is not controlled. The native must learn to develop his abilities through study, experience, perhapstravel. Then he must stress an enlargement of his horizon, a wider point of view - andself-improvement. This is not a crusading kind of drive to improve others - it couldmerely be a negative expression of the Moon in Aries. Let the native first improvehimself and his own life; then, perhaps, he can inspire others to greateraccomplishments. There is a tendency here to be selfish, headstrong, so sure of beingright that the vision is narrowed down and only limited pictures are observed. These people have plenty of push, drive and energy. They can fight for what theybelieve to be right - and they refuse to be pushed around. They have great potential,especially in inventiveness and originality. (Tracy Marks) Those of us with Moon in Aries need to express ourselves honestly and openly, toassert our individuality, and to be enthusiastically involved in new projects andactivities. Aries is not an easy position for the Moon; we are likely to have counter-dependent tendencies, often denying our needs for closeness and intimacy andattempting to be emotionally self-sufficient. When deep feelings and needs emerge,we may unconsciously fend them off with anger, with impulsive action, andsometimes with sexual expression. Most likely, an Arian parent was quick to respond to our wants and desires, andallowed us the freedom to pursue our own interests. Such a parent encouraged ourindependent nature, possibly because he or she was independent and / or self-absorbed and did not wish to be burdened with responsibility for our welfare. He orshe may have imparted attitudes of 'be strong' and 'be tough', but such attitudes mayhave had less to do with an urge to further our development than they had to do withdefences against closeness and the expression of need and vulnerable feelings. Ourparent may have encouraged our individuality while simultaneously failing to reallyaffirm and support who we were. Sometimes an Arian Moon indicates a submissiveparent who catered to our whims and impulses, but never really acknowledged ormet our true needs, or helped us to develop the the frustration tolerance we neededin order to mature and adapt effectively. One of our tasks may therefore be to learn how to differentiate impulse from deeperwants and needs, and to come to know what we really want beyond the thrill of momentary satisfactions. This may also involve learning how to value and fulfill ourdeeper needs, maintaining our basic independence while also allowing ourselves toexperience and come to terms with our own dependence as human beings. Having
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HI, Can you send to me the download the: Moon Sign House Aspect , please... thanks

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Look for document number 17465161 or do a search for " Moon Sign Aspects " to download the PDF file.

Please make possible to download the PDF file. Thank you.

Yup, not possible to down the pdf, but the document part goes well.

You are using a lot of my copyrighted material from my book Planets in Signs without permission. Please contact me asap. Thanks, Skye Alexander www.skyealexander.com

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