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they are considered lawful, unless there is some specific reason or attribute which would make itforbidden for example if it is causes intoxication. Relations between men and women do notfollow this general principle and in fact are opposite to it. The principle is that: "Relations between men and women are forbidden until some evidence shows otherwise."
Procreation (Children)
One of the most important purposes of marriage is to continue and increase the population of theMuslims. Clearly, this goal could be achieved without marriage, but when actions areundertaken in disobedience to Allah, they do not receive the blessing of Allah and the wholesociety is corrupted. The Prophet said:
"Marry, for I will outnumber the other nations by you on Qiyama."
It should be stressed that the goal is not simply to produce any child that will live in the nextgeneration. It is to produce righteous children who will be obedient to Allah and who will be asource of reward for their parents after they die. The Prophet will NOT be boasting before theother nations on the day of Qiyama with children of Muslim parents who left the path of Islam.Thus it is the responsibility of Muslim parents to seek the means of giving their children thetraining and education they need not just to grow, but to succeed as Muslims worshipping andobeying Allah. This obligation may include migration
, establishing of Muslim communities andschools and other obligations. As the scholars have said in another principle of fiqh:
"That without which an obligation cannot be fulfilled is itself obligatory."Pleasure
Islam is the religion of the
fitrah
- the religion which is consistent with the natural instincts andneeds of mankind. It is not like the man-made (of modified) religions which set unnaturalconstraints on people whether self-inflicted prohibition of marriage (nuns and monks, etc.), prohibition of divorce or monogamy. Men are inclined toward women and women are inclinedtoward men. Marriage is the institution which fulfills this desire and channels it in ways pleasing to Allah Most High. Allah mentions this attraction:
“The love of the desires for women, sons, ... has been made attractive to people.”
The Messenger of Allah himself made clear that the attraction between the sexes is somethingnatural and not something to be denied or suppressed - only channelled in the ways pleasing toAllah Most High, saying:
"Women and perfume have been made beloved to me of this world of yours and mypeace of mind is in the prayer."
2 hijrah3 the religion which is consistent with the natural instincts and needs of mankind
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