14. In 1998, the child's doctor reported the child had very poor hygiene when staying
with father. The day care provider reported a change in her behavior after being with
the father. She became either withdrawn or aggressive. A nurse requested an
investigation of psychological abuse because of his treatment of the child.
15. On 31 July 2000, without any motion from either party and without a hearing, the
judge simply issued an order that the mother had to relocate to Topeka if she wanted
any possibility of obtaining custody. She did so but then in August, the judge ordered
the child to remain with the father. In December 2000, supervised visitation was
ordered for mother because she had allegedly returned the child late to the fathers
over Christmas. They suspended all contact for several months and then she was
allowed two hours a week supervised. The bizarre behavior of the courts was evident
from as early as 1998 when they granted a divorce twice as evidenced by their own
records \u2013 April 17 and October 28, 1998.
16. At the time of this filing, the mother had supervised visits once a week after having
had no contact for 10 months based on an ex parte order without an evidentiary
hearing issued 3 February 2004. At time of this filing, the mother had last seen the
child on 15 April 2007 for one hour.
17. Over these 11 years of litigation, the judge was changed several times. One judge
limited each side to five witnesses at trial and then continued to call them liars when
they could not prove what they had said or disprove what the other had said because
they were prohibited from calling witnesses. While the judge chastised the father
for game playing in the court, he then berated the mother for not coming to agreement
with the father. He could see how unreasonable the father was and the judge was not
subject to violence from the man but yet he blamed the mother for not reaching an
agreement. He said any child in this situation would grow up damaged but then
blamed the mother rather than the father who was the one committing the violence.
The judged focused on the mother\u2019s move to escape the violence rather than the harm
of the violence itself. The court excluded evidence of his extensive criminal record,
medical records and other records of violence. In addition to mother, other witnesses
knew of the violence and that the child witnessed it. But still the court saw no danger
to the child.
18. In spite of an order of protection against the father and his eight criminal convictions,
three against her, one judge said it was mutual violence and besides she provoked it.
He said there was no evidence that the father mistreated the children and ordered joint
custody and both parties to anger management. She was ordered not to call law
enforcement about the father without getting permission of the case manager. In
other words, he could assault her freely and she was not allowed to even call the
police. She was told to stop gathering evidence against the father. In March 2005,
she was ordered not to file any more motions in the court without permission from the
case manager \u2013 she had filed a motion to remove that case manager. In other words,
she was even denied access to the court.
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