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A Gentle Reminder for the Newlyweds - Dr Aasim

A Gentle Reminder for the Newlyweds - Dr Aasim

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ﮓ ﮒ ﮑ ﮐ ﮏ ﮎ ﮍ ﮌ ﮋ ﮊ ﮖ ﮕ ﮔ ﮞ ﮝ ﮜ ﮛ ﮚ ﮙ ﮘ
“And from His Signs is that He created for you spouses from yourselves, that you may find tranquility in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for a people who reflect.” [
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By: Dr.
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Abdullah al-Qaryuti
 
Al_Qaryoti@hotmail.com
 
 
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All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of creation; and may the peace and  blessings of Allah be upon our Prophet
 Mu
ammad
 as well as his family and all of his companions… To proceed: My appeal is to the newlyweds. May Allah bless you both and may He place blessings between you and unite the two of you upon goodness. The following is a brief reminder and a few small words of advice which may help to comprehensively convey a matter of great depth without missing its intended target. I hope that it will assist you both to achieve the type of happiness that every newlywed strives to achieve since this type of happiness is something that all people desire. Similarly, I hope that this advice will be a major factor in cultivating love and affection between you both while also preventing whatever could occur as a result of a person's ignorance concerning what are the most highly stressed obligations upon each of you towards the other. All of that has been presented in order to initiate cooperation, understanding, harmony, and devotion between you which is what Allah describes in His statement:
 
ﮓ ﮒ ﮑ ﮐ ﮏ ﮎ ﮍ ﮌ ﮋ ﮊ ﮖ ﮕ ﮔ ﮞ ﮝ ﮜ ﮛ ﮚ ﮙ ﮘ
“And from His Signs is that He created for you spouses from yourselves, that you may find tranquility in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for a people who reflect.” [
S
ū
rah ar-R
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 30:21]
May Allah establish your feet firmly upon goodness and make your happiness and love for one another long lasting…Ameen.
 
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A gentle reminder for the groom; and may Allah increase him in success:
In order to ensure that love, affection, and complete understanding exists  between the spouses, it is important that you (the new husband) adopt a sound method of interacting with your wife and life partner which is reminiscent of the statement of the Prophet (
):
«
 
ﻥِ
ﻦِﻣ
ﻢﹸﻛِﺭﺎ
ِﺧ
ﻢﹸﻜ

ﺴ
ﺣﹶﹰﺎﹶ
ﺧﹶ
.
»
 
“Certainly, from the best of you are those who possess the best character.
1
Similarly, your treatment of her should be based upon what is understood from of the statement of the Prophet (
):
ﺮ

ﺧ
 
ِﺀﺎ
ﺴ
ﻟﺎِ
 
ﺍﻮ
ﺻ
ﻮ

ﺳﺍ
«
»
 
“I advise you to be good to the women.” And certainly
ʿ
 A
ā
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ishah
 
was asked about how the Prophet (
) conducted himself at home. To this she responded:
ِﻪِ
ﻫﹶ
 
ِﺔ

ﻬِﻣ
 
ﻲِ
 
ﹸﻥﻮﹸﻜ
ﹶﻥﺎﹶﻛﻪِ
ﻫﹶ
 
ﹶﺔ
ﻣ
ﺪِﺧ
 
ﻲِ
ﻌ
ﺓﺎﹶ
ﺼﻟﺍ
 
ﺕ
ﺮ
ﻀ
ﺣ
 
ﺍﹶﺫِﹶ
 
ﺝ
ﺮ
ﺧ
 
ﺓﺎﹶ
ﺼﻟﺍ
 
ﻰﹶِ
.«
»
 
“He used to attend to the needs of his family (meaning that he would serve them) but whenever it was time for the prayer; he would leave to attend the prayer.
2
For this reason; may Allah honor you and establish your feet firmly, it is essential that you fulfill several obligations; from the most important of these obligations is the following:
 
It is essential that you are mindful of your prayer and that you offer it during its proper time in the houses of Allah.
 
It is also important that you observe appropriate Islamic social behavior and maintain good character.
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 Transmitted by
al-Bukh
ārī
 and
 Muslim
.
2
 Transmitted by
al-Bukh
ārī
.
 

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