A gentle reminder for the groom; and may Allah increase him in success:
In order to ensure that love, affection, and complete understanding exists between the spouses, it is important that you (the new husband) adopt a sound method of interacting with your wife and life partner which is reminiscent of the statement of the Prophet (
“Certainly, from the best of you are those who possess the best character.
” Similarly, your treatment of her should be based upon what is understood from of the statement of the Prophet (
“I advise you to be good to the women.” And certainly
was asked about how the Prophet (
) conducted himself at home. To this she responded:
“He used to attend to the needs of his family (meaning that he would serve them) but whenever it was time for the prayer; he would leave to attend the prayer.
For this reason; may Allah honor you and establish your feet firmly, it is essential that you fulfill several obligations; from the most important of these obligations is the following:
It is essential that you are mindful of your prayer and that you offer it during its proper time in the houses of Allah.
It is also important that you observe appropriate Islamic social behavior and maintain good character.